arrange marriage or love marriage....

I believe that every relationship starts with trust and grows naturally..Whether be it love or arranged the relationship can only nurture if both the people understand each other well and go together.. Even love also starts when you start caring about the other person.. Problems would have come up even if you would have chosen to do a love marriage but its good that u came up well against them and learnt to adjust.. Oh about me.. I m still single ..i m just 24 yaar.. And neither i nor my family would go against love marriage if i do.. but i have to find a love b4 to think of that..LOL..So i don't mind what so ever it be because each of the two has its own pros and cons... I agree with you, that going for a love marriage, you decide to live with a partner wom you have been knowing may be since years, and arrange marriage, we are asked to know the partner before we decide to spend our lives with him/her. Well, i think going for an arranged & love marriage combined would be best, i.e. go for an arranged marriage, and give it time for the relationship so that you can start loving ur partener..

I don't believe in either of them, ultimately you give your best to whatever relationship you are in. If you love someone you naturally want to marry that person but sometimes fate has different plans and it may or may not work out. conversely you may get into an arranged marriage and again that too may or may not work out. In the end it depends how committed you are to what ever relationship you are in and how much you love each other. sometimes you love then marry, sometimes you marry then love, whatever you do you are responsible for your own happiness.

yes you are right that in arrange marriage we dont have to convince our parents, and i think it is safer to have arrange marriage as the parents know about the guy before , they put an effort to find the background of the guy like how he is , his nature, attitude, and all concerned to him and also his parents . our parents will always look to it that the person have to keep us happy and all precautionary measures are taken by parents to keep their daughter/son for the safer side.and morever in arrange marriage all parents and the childrens both are happy. But in love marraige it is entirely opposite, we need to convince parents and have to lie to them to meet eachother, we will not know how the person is , his/her background and all is known after the relation starts. love marriage has all kind of complications in it. But love marriage is fine to the people whose parents and relatives support them and dont have any objection towards love marriage and if it is my kind of family they dont accept for the love marriage. Mine is a arange marriage and i am very happy and i am always be with arrange marriage.