would you let your children (12 years old below) own a cellphone?

Philippines
October 10, 2008 12:13am CST
hi! i've seen children in schools who own cellphones. although there are some schools that restrict the use of cellphones in school premises. but there are some parents who actually buy and let their children own cellphones. other parents say that kids might need it in case of emergency. what's your take on this?
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@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
10 Oct 08
Well they have newer cellphones for kids that basically only call certain numbers that the parent program into the phone, and that does no other function but that. I think that more people should use those for their children if they feel that the kids need a cellphone in case of an emergency. Now as for any other type of phone, I would say no. I find it silly for kids to own the more expensive and techno-y phones as they just don't need it. They can go home and call a friend, or they can email a friend online. In any case, I don't think that a child shoudl own a phone under the age of 12, and should really not have a phone until 16, or their legal driving age per regulation of state or country. Now as for myself, I had to earn the money myself to buy a cellphone, I asked for one one time but they said no, my first cellphone was a prepaid my dad bought me, and I suppose that taught me responsibility.
• United States
10 Oct 08
16 is too old, in my opinion, to be given a first cell phone. there were many times when i was 14 and 15 and was at the movies with a bunch of friends and needed to call my mom when it was time to come pick me up. everyone should have a cell phone, because you never know when you will need to make a call or text someone in an emergency. think of a school shooting or problem, for instance. you want those people to be able to call 911 and their parents.
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@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
10 Oct 08
Wow, then that's overboard if it's a phone that nice. I would only hope that she earned it though, as if anything, I would make the child earn a phone as nice as that so that hopefully they would learn responsibility and take care of it.
• Philippines
10 Oct 08
Hi! thanks for your comment. i hope that there will be more cellphone units that are specially designed for kids. it just bothers me because i see kids who own cellphones that are quite nice and being used by professionals. there was even a time when i saw a kid (around 12 or 13 years old) whose phone is better than what i had. hehehe. this girl was exchanging pictures with her friends. we know that kids this age and stage are quite experimental.
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• Malaysia
10 Oct 08
Hi goddessjes, i would not allow my kid to own the cellphone at age 12 or below. Even it is for emergency, but when really accident happened, they are still not able to make call then, so it defeat the purpose. What i would teach is guide them to use public phone or get help from nearest people, that would at lest have higher chance to help on emergency situation. Of course, no one would like emergency situation happened. So, all the best for kids !!
• Philippines
10 Oct 08
hi adriantys. i agree with you, it's defeating the purpose when faced in an emergency. i guess it's an alternative to just teach the children what to do in case of emergency rather than giving them cellphones that they can use for something else. and i appraise schools that restrict the use of cellphones during school time.
• Malaysia
12 Oct 08
Hi Goddessjes, while i read the post i think of 1 way cellphone can help during emergency situation. That's to through the cellphone towards the person. So may be the fella will just grap the cellphone and run and didn't hit the kids. Wonder that really helps. Just joking.
• United States
10 Oct 08
i had a cell phone when i was 10. one time i was with my mom in the mall and walked away. i was able to call her and tell her where i was and she came and found me. i also used it to call my mom when i missed the bus. that way children have EVERY phone number they need on hand in their cell phone. it's not a silly concept at all. i think every child capable of handling a cell phone should own one. my children will have them by the time they get to middle school, but probably in elementary school as well.
@bbsr13 (4196)
• India
10 Oct 08
Hello,Jes! I don't feel necessary to give cell phones to school and college students as it will effect their studies.It is experienced that actually the children miss use the cell phone.They either play games or hear music and never mind their lesions in the schools and colleges.So I am not in its favor.Fortunately my government have banned use of cell phone within school and college premises.thanx.
@fwidman (11514)
• United States
10 Oct 08
I have seen lots of smaller kids with cellphones and I think to myself "how silly". I'm sure there are certain circumstances where they might need one for emergencies, but those are rare than the number of cellphones owned by kids
• Philippines
10 Oct 08
same thing, how silly. hehehe. i just think that it's not that safe to leave the kids with cellphones. one think that is quite bothering is that there might be some bad persons who will manipulate kids through text messaging. there are some stories i heard where a guys would pretend to be friendly persons to young girls and would lure these kid to meet up with them. and who knows what are the intentions. of course, if you're a parent, giving children such privileges you must also monitor the use of such gadget. thanks for responding fwidman.
10 Oct 08
Hi, I have 3 children, my elder 2 (age 10 & 9) both have a mobile phone (cellphone). They have it so I can contact them at all times and they also have a means of contacting me anytime they need me. My youngest son has a 'pretend' mobile phone as he is only 4!!! hugs Jessica
@JOIEMARVIC (2335)
• Philippines
10 Oct 08
if the situation calls for it.if the child needs to go,say in a field trip, or the kid would go camping,i will give him a cellular phone. im a phone call away whenever he needs me.i'll just teach him the proper decorum with cellularphones. buying him a cellular phone for his own,maybe when he/she's 14.
• Philippines
10 Oct 08
I think that it will depends on the up bringing of the child.
@lavendar (99)
• United States
10 Oct 08
Hi, goddessjes I think I would like to illustrate my standpoint of the cellphone that the children should have their own cellphones under the precondition that it won't have the negative effective of their study or their life. The function of their cellphone is mainly as a tool to communicate with their parents in case of emergency, and play minor role in communicating with other classmates, after all, they don't have so much emergent business that have to use a cell phone. Do you agree with me?