my room mate is leaving me...

yes specailly after you have been roomies so long even tho she will move to a far away place if she has a puter you acan always IM each other just dont lose in touch with each other!

Hello Zelmarq! I am so sorry to hear that you are losing your room mate and friend! I have had many special people come and go in my lifetime of thirty years.... Some are there only for a season others for longer. Some are there for a time and they leave and then come back again later in life for another season! I miss them and yes they are still a part of me...They helped tro mold me into who I am today! It is hard but my suggestion is to do all you can to keep in touch if you can and know that she was in your life for a purpose and be thankful the time you did have with her! You now ever a new phase of your life and when you need a friend some one will come along! Take Care! ~Heavens~

It is astonishing how many people go from or come into our lives. There is always a reason why they are there. We must make sure we enjoy them and learn from them because they could soon be gone.

You can look at this as an opportunity to make a new friend with another roommate..And you can keep your friendship with your old room mate by keeping in touch and once in a while you can visit each other..That is something to look forward to...

There is an old saying "all good things come to an end." Someone leaves and someone else will come to you. I think your roommates must miss you, too. sometime, miss is also a happy thing or feeling, don't you think so?

i'm sorry to hear that,zelmarq. long-time friends is part of our lives.we are born it the world,we met each other in some place,we left for our dream,we have different tours from now. maybe we can meet in 10 years. bless you .zelmarq and your mate.

HI zelly this is so disheartening but life must go on. Its tough to part with our old friends. Physical presence matters a lot I know. I am sure you two will be great friends after she leaves as well. Give her a warm farewell and make her the happiest.

i agree with you on that i guess its just a part or a cycle in life that we have to be use to someone will go but there is always a new one that will come...more better or perhaps worst just kididng...

Well, that's how life is. People come and people go. It's sad that they have to go, but they still have to because of their life. It will be disheartening for some time, but you will get used to it. It sure is bad. You can stay in touch through emails, but you cant get the satisfaction. Hope you get through this bad time. bourne

Absolutely although there will be a lot of people who would be with us and has been far away they will always have a part within our hearts and it is very hard to cope up because we got use to be with them most of our time...

Well lives go on my friend. One day you have to lose someone you love. No one will stick with you forever. I have left the people I loved for 5 years and now I'm back with them. Life is learning to let go. What can you do? You just have to let go.

Yes, i can't agree any more with you .Friends are a huge fortune in our life .Whatever we do ,we can lack the help from our friends .Just having many good friends ,our life become beautiful and enrich .So when some Friends leave us ,we will be sorrow and can't accept this .As for me ,from my primary school to university ,i have many closed friends ,but they can't be around me every day .Because they also have their life and job ,they also have their dream to achieve .IF one day our friends leave us ,what we can do is that we must keep close contact with them and wish them success with their life .

Oh! thats sweet wish i had people like you in my life.