Where is it going wrong?

You're definitely right about this. Nowadays it is ok as long as it makes you feel happy and that is definitely not right.

Yeah that's how every human thinks. Society is changed. Good. But dont you think this society is formed by we people and we make or change this society? What I think is society is still the same but we people have changed. We lost control over our commitments, mind, doing good things. Ignorance is what changed we people. God is not here to punish bad people and almost everyone thinks that we can do anything and there is no punishment. This makes us doing things which are out of control and completing our needs. Now divorce is common because it has become use to and people dont mind doing it. This happened just because divorce has become famous and a simple quarrel results in it. People thought about the outcome of divorce as a happiness like freedom but its actual outcome is destroying family values, destroying relationships. Now divorce is a word which is not offensive to use and which makes easy for all of us to do it. There are many such things which has become non-offensive now. People who drink tell that drinking is not bad. Its actually a necessity in western countries as it is very cold there and we in India see them drinking and feel that as it is maturity and start drinking it. And here people dont have limits and they will drink immensely and destroy their own family. Every bad thing we do has a followup of maturity and this changed everyone mind to think bad always. Only solution I can find here is only to think that whatever bad thing or good thing you do you will get back the same to you. If you are smoking, you will die in cancer. If you are helping children, you will get a lot of blessings. You can decide what you want to be. A good or a bad. Decision is left to you. We can decide how society should be. We can change the society into good and teach our kids how to keep society good always.

Touching story man. That is called commitment. We men can always be good if we want and this is showed by a golden man. (86 years) Hats off to him and I will remember this story until my lifetime and follow at least a tip of his story. Sometimes we feel that its all over and we think that we need to find out some alternative. But it is actually not like that. It may be beginning of something new but not fully new. What I believe is god exists and he has given everyone what we asked for. Only thing is we should think before doing anything in life whether that is really needed for us or we already have it. If we already have it then there is no necessity to have it one more. because others want it.

Hi, Thanks for your comment. I was telling about those who cheat their partner. I never (and can’t) said everybody is so. There are at least somebody which you couldn’t deny. I know this world is vast and for a black, there is white as well. I’ll tell you now a totally different story. An old man (of 86 y.o.), came to a hospital to buy medicine given to Alzheimer patients. On handing the medicine the duty nurse asked, ‘For whom?’ ‘For my wife.’ The man said, ‘for the last five years she couldn’t remember me.’ Sarcastically the nurse asked, ‘And you are still with her?’ The man (who was leaving) stopped, looked back at the nurse and said, “Ya, because I still REMEMBER her.” And before I too will leave, tell you a thing. This is not a story. Actually happened in England. Kind regards. Take care.

I don’t feel any proud by carrying on with this discussion. I suppose, even carrying on a discussion over those who couldn’t be loyal to their partner for at least 10 years, is nothing less than crime. If anybody actually requires a discussion it is those like the man above, who has devoted over sixty years to his partner.