do you consider that flirting online friends are sin or cheating?
By bombshell
@bombshell (11256)
Germany
20 responses
@Matthammer (385)
•
19 Oct 08
I don't think its a sin, but i would imagine that some people see it as such depending on their beliefs.
To me, it is a text-based conversation and as such people can read into it whatever they choose. An innocuous comment could be read either way.
I can chat to people online without being serious, heck i usually chat to people in real life without being serious. I'm a generally light-hearted person.
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@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
19 Oct 08
very great answer and i agree with your opinion.for is not a sin as long as there is no personal things happen.
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@Ohara_1983 (4117)
• Kuwait
15 Oct 08
If nothing happen just you chat or talking in the net i think is not a sin, but it will be called cheating to your partner if you make any relationship to the person you meet in the net.
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@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
19 Oct 08
Ohara yes its not a sin as long as theres none personal things happen even cheat i dont call it in my opinion
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@ronaldinu (12422)
• Malta
17 Oct 08
If by flirting you mean teasing a bit a friend and you don't mean any harm or more extras intended what's wrong in it? Some people are natural flirts. They are flirtatious with anyone and anybody because it is in their nature. If you don't cross the limit I don't see that it is a sin and no it is not cheating.
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@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
15 Oct 08
H[i]i bombshell,
hmmm...for me when your purpose of flirting is to attract the person, YES, it is a sin to your partner since you are committed! But, there are flirting where the person just want to be friend and get the attention and nothing else, then it will be fine when we only want to draw friendship!
Just my personal view![/i]
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@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
15 Oct 08
you're welcome and happy mylotting sexy friend! LOL!
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@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
15 Oct 08
thats what i meant che.its just flirting by message not by action or personal.aynway thanks for the nice answer.
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@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
19 Oct 08
ok Ellie i appreciate and thanks for reminding me hehehe.
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@moonlitmagikchild (22181)
• United States
19 Oct 08
my hubby knows im extreme flirty but he knows i wont act on it so he is ok with me flirting with whoever online or offline i want
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@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
19 Oct 08
woww very understanding husband.yes thats what i mean no personal touch hahaha.
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@James72 (26790)
• Australia
15 Oct 08
It is if it is done in secret in my opinion. If you are open about it and your partner is fully aware that this is what is happening then each to their own! But if someone is doing it behind their partner's back and saying things that they would not wish for their partner to see then I would consider this a definitely bad thing to be doing. I wouldn't go as far as saying that it would be cheating but it's close!
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@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
15 Oct 08
hi James,yes i agree with your opinion.coz in my opipion as long as there is no personal communication its not cheating and both partners open each other in this case.its just for fun no personal.anyway thanks for the reply James.
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@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
15 Oct 08
thanks but online is nothing personal its just a message no personal touch.
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@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
15 Oct 08
i agree .it does not work for me iether since i have jelousy type coz if i will know it that hubby is flirting online there will be a flying saucer in the house hehehe thanks for the response
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@carinio98 (2929)
• Philippines
15 Oct 08
i thought this question inflict to all single or married....
@kedves (728)
•
15 Oct 08
flirting in itself i snot a problem as long as you keep it light and fun. it is a great way to meet people and everyone likes to hear nice things and feel flattered. However you must not cross the line of innocent flirting otherwise you are cheating even if it is only in the mind then it is still cheating because the mind plays out what you wish to do in real.
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@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
15 Oct 08
awwwwwwwwww hehehe.ok thanks for the response
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@rusty2rusty (6763)
• Defiance, Ohio
17 Oct 08
Yes, I do consider flirting with online friends to be cheating. Why? because if it is easy to flirt with someone you have never met online. It would just be as easy to start flirting with someone in some dive. Such as a bar. When you marry or get engaged to someone, you swear your life to that one person. And only to that one person. When you stray, even to flirt. It turns in to one big game to see what else you get can a way with. Why take that chance?
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
19 Oct 08
ok thanks rusty i appreciate your opinion
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@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
29 Oct 08
yeah iyah if for fun like chating and our partner is beside us i guess thats not cheating.
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
19 Oct 08
i agree with your opinion.coz for e as long as theres none personal things happen its not cheat your a sin right?
@modstar (9605)
• Philippines
17 Oct 08
I don't think so. the people you meet here are the same people you meet in real life and consider them friends. Now if you get involved with someone here, it's you personal choice. Only you can tell whether it is cheating or not. With all the limitations, it's pretty hard to move on and become something more than flirting. But sometimes you need to get out of the box and prove yourself to someone here that you may be "it".
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
19 Oct 08
you are right and for me as long as there is none personak thing happen its not a sin.
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@darkangel32s (2)
• Romania
4 Nov 08
i dont think this is a sin but be careful not to get involved.........that might change youre actual relationship and you wont even know it