Is a girlfriend nesseccary??

I don't think gf are really necessary in school. From my experience, i would think that those boys and girls are having so-called 'puppy-love'. Which is not a good thing. One day they're together, one day they aren't. People at younger age acts immaturely, trust me! I have these girls trying to make me as her gf. The thing i don't really like about her is that she is very naive, and childish. I don't like her attitude, so that is why i am single right now. I think having a relationship is hard, you will need to trust each other, tolerate and lost focus on your studies/career. I wouldn't mind getting a gf later when i am working, but not now, i don't think i should have a gf in school or even college yet. Focus more on studies is way better. When you do well in your studies, once you get a better result and hunt for better job, then that's the perfect time for you to have gf as you might be able to take care of her expenses. Who says datings, gifts and chasing a girl don't need money? If you want a girlfriend in school, you need to sought out some cash from your parents or your pocket money. My advice, in short, preferably not to have one in school yet. haha.. I wrote too much... anyway, happy mylotting. Welcome to mylot!

REASONS WHY LIFE WITHOUT GIRLFRIEND IS COOL.... You can stare at any Girl.you don't have to spend money on her.You won't get boring result in your board papers.No girlfriend, no emotional blackmailing. If u don't have a girlfriend, she can't dump you.Having a girlfriend is hot, not having a girlfriend is automatically cool, and every one loves to be a cool guy. This can be more to life than just waiting for the bloody phone to ring.You won't have to tolerate someone else defining, "right" and "wrong" for u.Girlfriend can get so possessive that you can't do anything according ur wishes anymore.You can buy gifts for mom, dad, sis or grandpa instead of a girlfriend and have a happier family life.You won't have to waste paper writing love letters. No more endless waiting for ur date to arrive at some weird shop place.You can have more friends, as u will have more time for them. You wont have to see boring love stories instead of sports. You wont have to tell lie to anybody and, therefore, you'll sin less.You can have good night's sleep-no need to dream about her.You wont have to fight over having a 'special' friend with ur folks.No nonstop nonsense.You wont have drown in the pool of her tears. No tension.You can be "yourself". You wont have to hide your telephone bills.Girlfreinds expect everything more that ur life. So ur life is not at RISK. so i think no girl friend, no pain in life

not really. don't push it if you don't really want to. for me, it's better to keep you focus on your studies. believe me, you'll not run out of girls to choose from after school. especially, when you're doing really well in life. but the point here is that a girlfriend isn't some kind of a commodity that you have got to have just so you have someone to call your girl. your heart should matter. well, you should be able to figure it out. matters like this is a matter of gut feeling and instinct. do what you think is best for you..good luck.

Not at all. The more important is having a friend who can help you during your schooling days. its not time to waste around a girl and spend your parents money on your friend. You can find one good person when you earn yourself and stand on your legs.

I went through all of my High School without a girlfriend. I had my first girlfriend when I was in 4th year college and we're still together now. I don't think it's necessary to have a girlfriend while you are in school but one thing I can say from experience is, if you do have one, they are really helpful. When you need help studying, you could always turn to your girlfriend for help. They're also a great escape when you need to get away from your studies for a while and take a break. It's always fun to go on a date or go out with your girlfriend when you are tired of all the studying.

i dont think so, though many might disagree.. i finished my studies without having such a relationship.. and it didn't made me least happy than others, i might as well say that i am really happy and i did enjoyed my school years..

yes because they help you concentrate. you do not want her to think you are thick so you study harder to show her how smart you are and plus its nice to share moments with her during the day when you are stressed with school work. and it does make you look good in front of the others :) :) just make sure you pick the right girl ... :)