Have you been hurt when your were young?

hi, abuse is something all to common nowadays, i was physically, mentally and sexualy abused as i grew up and it probably changed my complete outlook on life especially men and it made it extremely hard to trust, eventually though you get to a point where (or id did) think that i had to stop pitying my self so i turned all my positives into a negative and sued all my own experince to do an degree in psychology and also do counselling becuase at least i can empathaise to a point with others going through similar experineces although obviously everyones is unique, i guess you have to remember what doesnt break you makes you stronger, fair enough i am probably a completely different person now to what i may have been but i think i am alot smarter, street wise, and emotionally and mentally stronger than what i would have been had i not gone through the hard times in lfe. i hope even if you have to seek help through a counsellor or physhologist or even write about it, however you do it, i just pray that you do some day find a way to overcome the difficulties you have experienced abd remember not everyone is out to hurt you, :)

Yes, I've been hurt by someone who used to be really close to my heart before. I could never forget her words, because I never expected that of all people, she would be the one to hurt me so much. Her words, they still echo in my mind each time I hear her name. I would like to forgive, and totally forget, but it is so difficult because after such a long, long time, she has done nothing to show a bit of remorse for the pain she had inflicted upon me. I know this is wrong, and that the right thing to do is to forgive and forget.

Hi,it is ineluctable that was hurt when I was young.I was hit by my parents as I didn't go to school as I was 8 years of age!

Yeah I have also faced situations like that! I used to feel bad and I used to be alone mostly. I stopped interfering with them and only during my high school days I was able to find some of my inborn amazing talents. After which I enjoyed my days though there are certain feelings that still hurts. I am trying to forget those and live a happy life now! :)

What u have mentioned is a part and parcel of everyone's life..Right from the president to beggar,no one can be a exception..Sometimes, people hurt us unknowingly and sometime deliberately..Even though hard at times, we should try not to take it to heart always..As you grow in life,when we think back, we can see for ourselves that the thing which used to hurt us emotionally once is nothing now..Always have a detached attachment to achieve emotional balance

if your first relationship was great well you lucky myne was a heart break and still trying to get to terms with it,i have nothing more i want to add thank you

yes that has happened to me and most people, you must get past it to be able to function as a healthy adult, it happened it hurt it was hard but now you must ignore those hurts and be the person you were meant to be.

I am certain that there were several episodes which I felt hurt when I was a kid because I was a sensitive child. however I have grown out of them and can hardly remember anything gross. The most think that hurt me when my mum homed my dog. She was against have a dog as a pet and one day I returned home from school and did found it at home. That was really sad.

I have been hurt a lot in such a young age, both emotionally and physically. It was a hard time for me as I don’t understand why they do it to me but as I became mature I learned that people could hurt you anyway they want without a reason. People are mean creatures. If they want to hurt someone they will. I became aloof to people that I think would hurt me. It was kind of painful for me but life has to go on and move forward.

I was hurt very much when I was about seven. My mother had had a baby about four months before and I was sent to a home for children with eating disorders. I was very skinny. I thought I had been sent away because they did not want me anymore because they had a new baby. It took me a long time to get over the way I was treated in the home. It was in the 1950s and they did not treat people like they do now. I did not get over it until I was in my 50s and my husband took me back to the home and I saw that it was just a family home now. You do get over things if you face them.

Emotionally and Physically i encountered those kinds of pain in my life when i was young. I remember how my classmates and kids on my age bullies me and say hurtful words on my ego and because of that my confidence lost and i became a reserve person. Im scared to face people coz im scared they will hurt me and i don't want to feel that pain again. Happy posting.

Yes i have been hurt emotionally before when i was young. I was new in that school because I came from a public school and was transferred by my parents in private school. Most of my classmates and schoolmates came from a rich family. I can't forget how my classmates laughed at me during flag ceremony and they are teasing me because they know that my dress was cheap. I was so embarrassed, they all laughed and me i really want to run and go home and cry but i stopped myself and just ignore what they are telling me. I have many unforgettable moments in that school and i asked my mom to get me back to my old school where everybody accepted me and respected me (i perform well in my old school that's why i have a lot of friends). After one year of studying there, i went back to public and live a normal life again. Now, it's just old memories and as i heard, not all of my classmates in private who are fortunate that time are successful today. happy posting!

It's difficult as a child or teenager to understand why people can be so mean. I think every child goes through at least one incident in their childhood where they are embarrassed by being called hateful names or being picked last to play kickball on the playground. It's even worse as a teenager, when you can't get a date for the dance or you have braces, etc. I was a victim of such treatments myself. Not only at school with my peers but at home with some members of my family. My parents were very young when I was born. They were still kids themselves. This doesn't excuse it but now having children of my own I understand it better. But during the adult years when I didn't have children and alot of my childhood made no sense to me, I did a lot of soul searching. Found out who I really was and what I really wanted in my life. Once I had done that, all the childhood drama became a thing of the past. I placed my focus elsewhere as you should do. And when you're having a bad day remember this: What doesn't kill us makes us stronger. If that doesn't work, locate one the those individuals. Write them a letter. Hell, write them a letter anyway even if you never send it. Sometimes the simple action of getting it out of your head and on paper can do the trick and make you feel so much better.