Would you tell the user that you have reported against him for violation?

ellie this is certainly against mylot rules. Giving persomal email IDs and postng links promoting affialiate programs is most definitely against rule. Having said this we do tend to violate many rules here like, 'how are you' stuffs and also many other things. We kind of overlook those. Here are the violations pertaining to your reporting: [i]Post any links promoting other affiliate programs or that do not pertain to the discussion. Posting the same link over and over or posting links that have no relevance to the discussion is not allowed. Post anything that discloses your personal information or others' personal information. We do not disclose it to anyone for good reason. [/i] And we all kind of miss this point: [i]Start discussions promoting a milestone, such as birthdays, anniversaries, reaching a certain myLot rating, etc. This is best celebrated via private messaging with your myLot friends. [/i] Huggles.

Hats off to the Guy.

You know what, the way he explained was so good that I never felt bad about it and I knew that it would be deleted. But what bothers me is the fact that I never really figure out who he was! And that guy indeed informed me first and then reported - that's the best part of it. Most would refrain from be open since we fear about the negative ratings, animosity and lot of untoward things around. But he did it absolutely the way we should. I really like the attitude of being so honet and yet decent. Thanks.

While the honesty part is totally appreciated ,and there is no question or doubt raised on it, there is something else which comes to mind. I would think that if something is not offending me in any way, but is against the rules,then informing the person is the right thing to do. Mylot itself does notice the violations and does take the corrective actions. But is reporting something not affecting me in any way the right thing to do ?

Mimpi is the secret of my energy.Thanks for that.

That's so very Balaish.

Yes deepak. Its important to read the rules before joining any site. This would help us from so many untoward things, including getting banned.

That's true. I would have talked it out a well. But don't you think, its our responsibility to read through the rules before joining? In that way, it saves us from a lot of these untowardnesses. I am wiser now. Happy mylotting.

I agree it will be a better proposition, if members read the rules carefully, before joining. However, some of the members show carelessness, in going through the rules, which sometimes proves costly to them.

Generally, we fear the untowardness attached to reporting and most go for anonmiety. But I think I tell my heart and explain it to them when I feel it's right. Here, in mylot I have only reported once when the fellow when overboard with spiteful racialism and that was even after warning from many.

So sweet of you! Indeed this is friendship and we must talk it out and reporting when the user doesn't know about it is not good as well. Your thoughts show the kind of person you are. I am glad that I have met you here. Looking forward to a nice friendship.

me too,haha my friend ,if you have some trouble ,do not hesitate to tell us ,let's get together to get rid of it ,hehe,we are all being together happy mylotting

Gaby good to hear from you after a long time. That's so much expected from a veteran mylotter like you. I really appreciate.

Yeah, even I have seen many active discussions violating mylot rules. May be no one reported against those. There should be a fair system that the admin could device of. Thanks.

munhozmib that's good way to save yourself from petty brawls. Even I ignore when I do not feel like arguing over something petty. I keep silence. I am good at it.

Knowing the kind of person you are, I was expecting this kind of response. You can never hurt anyone. Happy mylotting.

I am really surprised that u were expecting such response from me isnt it dangerious for Me

In fact, the same I would do. Thanks.

That's so sweet of you. I do not down rate anyone as well and only reported once when the user was abusive with racialism. WE had to.

mayrah that's very sensible approach and I really appreciate. Reporting is a serious matter and we must think twice before doing that.

emily, that makes much sense. I really appreciate.

That's a nice approach lingli and no one should report without substantial reason. That's really off putting. Thanks.

I found it quite impressive at that point in time. He was blatant but not rude. He had his fact straight but amiably. That's moved me. Thanks.

Thanks subha. I agree with you.

Thanks for responding.

Mayka, the discussions get deleted on basis of reporting. Mylot doesn't have that kind of strict vigilance. I appreciate your thoughts.

Thanks for your response. I really appreciate.