If u had a friend closer than anyone ...and they knew u were goin thru hell....

man shell could your question be anymore confusing? ;) if you mean that the person who is married is the one who needs to make the decision on being with the close friend or not, then i would say.. that the married person should stop and think first before leaving. Will more harm than good come from leaving to be with the close friend? Are there children involved, and are they old enough to understand and respect the situation? Is the person confident that there will be no regrets after they chose to leave and be with the close friend? Has the person taken the time to seperate fantasy from reality? in other words, is the grass really greener on the other side? most importantly.. is the other half of the married person going to hunt them down and make them a wall trophie? would the married person have to move away from another very close friend of theirs? if after going through these questions and answering them they find that they are still confident and comfortable with walking away, then, i would say go and be with the close friend... however, if they have to think twice about any of the mentioned questions, then i dont think it wise for them to leave..try just visiting the friend instead..you know, have a kitkat, take a break from the everyday :) just my thoughts

I'll surely not go and squat with them. In the first place however close the relationship is it requires some distance or space. I will never even dream to go to their place and disturb their privacy. It will infact increase the distance between the couple. So I dare not to do that at any cost. Will surely help him/her if they want. Such a thing would increase the distance,create unnecessary problems and finally end up in a bitter friendship. Will dare not to do that at any cost Cheers

If by being with them you mean starting a relationship with them my answer would be no. Since it could only lead to heartbreaks. If they are having in their own problems they should sort it out. Yes I would be willing to help anybody who is having problems but not starting a relationship. © ronaldinu 2008

I will offer a shoulder regardless if she is single or married....as far as I am concern....once a friend...always a friend. I consider them like treasure....never turn my back on a friend what needed me at difficult times....have a good ear to listen and a heart to keep everything inside rathering spreading the word or spill the beans....

sounds as if he is playing on your emotions when you are low. he should be supporting you and helping you and giving you strength not trying to seduce you when your guard is down.

that would just be ok with me as long as we are not doing anything outside our manners...maybe he just want someone to talk to about his problems and i maybe a help...

jus help them out .