A friend of mine said he has found his wife in bed with another man

I think he should never forgive her. Such kind of people should be punished but not forgiven. Inspite of being mother of 3 children she has an affair with somebody means she is not a good woman. She can never be forgiven. But I think as they have 3 children now if your friend leave her then those children will suffer without their mother. So its always better not to leave her for ever instead of that he should make her realize that she is committed a biggest sin and she should be shameful. For that he has to find out whether she loves her family or she loves that person whom she had an affair with. If she really loves that person then it is always better to leave her. If not she is appologizing then she can be given an other chance only for children sake but she can never be your wife again in your life...Thats what I feel...May god help your friend.

well unless she is a serial cheater then i would suggest you find out why she cheated. maybe your friend is not a good husband maybe he cheated maybe he hurt her .. it is so easy to see one side and blame the other but before you can give correct and good advice you need to know the whole story. I wish you luck as it is not easy but cheating is never an answer to a relationship problem so they may find it is the end of the road for them but just remind them they have kids and they have to be responsible for them what ever the outcome.

Its not up to you to solve his problem. Maybe if he asked her advice instead of some one else she may not have been in bed with some one else. Tell him to talk to her not you and find out what went wrong that she had to find solace from some one else. They should sit down and talk to each other. By putting yourself in the middle you are going to wind up the bad guy. If you want to keep this friend do your self a favor and stay out of it.

Tell your friend to seek help from authorities, and they will do the necessary actions such as taking photographic or video evidence, which are needed to convict his wife and her partner. If the conviction was done, forgive and forget, life must go on and value your life.

No way, If I was in that situation I would not forgive her. When they got married they promised to love eachother, and now that promise is broken. If he caught her there's no doubt she's been having affairs with this man before.