He says He Loves Me But Is To Lazy To See Me!!!

You want a guy who will put forth the effort for you. If he's not trying very hard then he's not all that serious about the two of you. Men are pretty predictable that way. Guys pursue the things they want in life. He doesn't seem to be doing that. You don't want to make him do that just to make you happy either. It should come from him. Don't settle for ho-hum. Wait for the one who cares enough to win you over. You deserve that.

Don't run into an relationship with him. Remember you all were not the best of friends and I would encourage you to try and find out all that you can about him to see if what he has been telling you is the truth. Don't try to be desperate and don't let him know anything about your finance. I wish you all the best. He may be lazy to see you because he is not telling you the truth.

Awww..that's too bad. Maybe he really is not serious about the relationship but don't take it as your loss because it's his. If he really is serous he'll take time for you. I believe he is not worth it to waste your time. You are much better off him. I bet you'll find somebody nicer along the way.

love do takes time and you do have to make time for each other to keep the love a live. just see what happen it takes to to tangle if he wants to be with you he has to do more then just text you and call.

It seems that he's not serious about your relationship. It is true, you have to invest some quality time for you to know each other well. It isn't enough that you call or text often...time spent with each other even just once a week, I think would be nice.

yes, but love also need breath, just give him time and space to breathe, and then he will come back to see you and bring you the fresh air!

Obviously he is not making an effort to nurture a relationship that is about to grow between the two of you. What kind of guy is he? I don't think he is man enough to prove himself, to let you know everything about his family and his educational background. Scary to me, he must be hiding something or I hope am wrong. Sounds like he's mysterious. I advise that you don't need to waste your time on him until he proves who he is and he should be able to justify and clarify what you are thinking must be wrong about him. Happy Mylotting!

Well, he really have to prove himself.. if he just say that he likes you and do nothing, then maybe he is not really sincere. He needs to show and prove to you that he loves you if that's what he feels. and even if he is lazy, if you love somebody, you make sacrifices right? when i am inlove with someone, i dont care sacrificing sleep and rest just to be with that person!:)

hi sheenarobins You have only gone on two dates and he wants to marry you, whoa, back up yes let him court you and get off his lazy bum. if he is going to court you he needs to get moving on it. You are right, he needs to get busy here and show that he really does love you. could he be getting cold feet already?

A so good excuse. I think. My husband also says so. But i urged him to call me at least once every day. If he won't, i will be angry and won't talk to him for several days.

well if a guy is lazy to visit or see you then he is not serious with his intentions. If the guy really loves you, he will love to see you 24/7. Or even if you're far apart from each other he will make ways to get to you no matter what. Talk to him to find out if he really wants to continue his courtship and if he is really serious about it.

A person who has good intentions will always find a time to see you. If he saw you at the mall he should have make the move of introducing himself to you and not online. How will you know he is sincere if you cant even see the expressions on his face everytime he makes a conversation with you. The fact that he is lazy and unable to see you as often as it should be. Then better look for someone else better that he is. Your young and good looking, there is still more interesting people to meet. So dont waste your time to someone who dont deserved your love.

Yes,men and women who loves each other rely on communication.If he doesn't want to see you or call you.How it can go on ?

oh,what were you think for this case? Do you love him? If yes,please contact him at last time,because the life will be lovely for you,good luck!!

it is a very lame excuse. just according to me. But why is he saying that he can't meet up? you have to be careful to find out what is his real idea

i think he is not that into you, if he is lazy, why should you make effort to remain all this? you can see someone else, don't take him so serious! he doesn't deserve you.

hi, you have not mentioned whether you live near by to him, whether he works, whether he lives lone or with his parents.. it seems quite one sided your story so to judge him does not seem quite fair. Also, this is 2008 not 1908 and women are just as equal in making a relationship work as men. so if you want to date him call him, tell him or go see him. you know women always demand equality but the some how always expect the man to do all the chasing and moving and giving .. so my advice to you is to understand yourself whether you really want this relationship with him or are you living in the past and want him to notice you now as he didn't when you were younger? if it works then i am happy for both of you but if he truly is lazy after you have found out more details of his life then he is not worth the effort and you should live for tomorrow not for yesterday.

Definitely this guy is not that into you, when you like someone one thing that's all in your mind is the desire to see that person. What is he waiting for, for you to make the first move? :) but then give him also the benefit of the doubt maybe he is just busy, just enjoy what you have right now if that is texting or calling then enjoy the conversation. In time you will know if he is really serious, just don't think about it too much.

In my opinion he is not so serious on you girl..If he was, he will do something to see you no matter what. Don't rush things, observe him first maybe he is not yet ready for a serious relationship.

time will prove everythings including your love. and time can heal your wounds.i think you need time that can calm down your emotion,then you could make wise determination.