How do you think of getting married immediate after graduated from college ?

@Emilyzhu (147)
China
October 25, 2008 3:08am CST
Recently ,I joined two weddings of my college classmates .They both got married after we just graduated from our college .I bless they can live happily forever though I am a little surprised to hear the marriage message . Personally speaking ,I'd like to work for some time before getting married .We are lack of too much experience of the society and the communication with others .To be honest ,I can't understand their choice of getting married so quickly .At least ,as to me ,I have not prepaired for being a bride . How about you ?What's your opinion ?
4 responses
• Philippines
25 Oct 08
That's not a good idea. After graduation, one must first enjoy the free time and soon to live a career person, getting married too soon can sometimes ruin your ambition in life unless you were married to a supportive person and with a good status in life.
@adihindu (1922)
• India
25 Oct 08
Marriage immediate after graution is correct. They don't about society. Some of friends got married immediate after studies, they feel that they have missed lot of joy. They are not individuals to do any thing , they have to answer some one.Other than goal they have so many reponsibilities.
@shefalis (81)
• India
25 Oct 08
After completing my graduation,worked for a few years and then got married. Getting married is a personal choice and early marriage cud be becoz of many factors. I had a friend who got married when we were in college. SHe was ambitious .wanted to work and had so many other agendas in life,but parent pressure had her choose the option of getting married. So there cud be upteem number of reasons. Girls who might be brought up in a conservative family are always told that thye wud be married after completing education(graduation). They themselves kind of adapt to the same scenario. There are a few who might rebel and choose otherwise but still such a thing is prevelant in our society. It does have its own pros and cons. But then to each his own. Everyone leads their own life and with time adjust or are made to adjust to the same. Individuals perception towards leading ones own life. I feel there is nothing wrong as we all are different beings with different values.Brought up in different environment.
@abyin007 (426)
• India
25 Oct 08
it depen my dear friend, see my one frd is a millionare.. he loves one girl and they got married last yrs just after finishing graduation.. it didnt surpried me. because we all knw he wil marry her... more over he is very rich .. so no problem.. last yr our senious got married before leaving college.....