shefalis

@shefalis (81)

India • Age 52

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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when life becomes tough

shifyole @shifyole (38) • India 27 Feb 09

people say life becomes tough when you are as a kid, few say it becomes when you are married or when you are in love. when actually it is? i think life is tough as per the views of people. can you share your experience in this...

tough life

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shefalis Life... once born it offers a different meaning to each individual. Every person has to struggle in life to achieve a certain goal, or to make two ends meet, students to pass in an exam...and so on. Life can mever be easy going even for those people who seem...

27 Feb 09

Why are some people so cheap when it comes to tipping?

hisbabydoll @hisbabydoll (228) • Ecuador 16 Dec 08

Maybe it's just me, but if I can't afford to go out and eat, and pay for a tip, I'll just eat at home. Or, I'll go to a fast-food restaurant. I can't believe the number of people who think it's okay to go to a restaurant and not...

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shefalis Everyone likes to go out and eat once in a while if not often. Some people would like to go to a expensive restaurant to eat once a month or often. Well some people tip and some dont. Quite a personal decision on the same. I have always tipped the person...

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What Would You Do If You Didn't Have To Work?

Zezloler @Zezloler (497) • United Arab Emirates 12 Dec 08

What would you do with your life if your financial security was completely taken care of and you didn't have to work? Would you travel? Learn languages? Write books? Stay here on myLot? or would you still work even...

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shefalis WHat a wonderful feeling of everything being taken care of financially and one need not worry about how and when to take care of ones necessities and luxiries in life. Well even if i had such an opportunity i would be still at home taking care of my son coz...

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How sweet is your baby boy/girl to you?

yuna15 @yuna15 (2706) • Philippines 26 Sep 08

I have a 3-year old toddler and she is the sweetest a mom can ever have. I guess every mom thinks that way for their own children. Sometimes while I'm in front of the computer, she would try to climb the chair I'm sitting at...

baby

little sister

sweet child

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shefalis Being a mother is an amazing feeling. For all mothers their kids are the cutest and the most adorable ones. My lil one is 1+ yr old. He makes my day when he gives me his naughty smile. He makes me understand all that he wants. The way he goes on his toes and...

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I love you because I need you OR I need you because I love you

maroseqf @maroseqf (3657) • Philippines 30 Nov 08

Which one do you think is better? and which you do you prefer being said to you?

love

need

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shefalis Well would say one is better. Coz one needs a lot in life and says these words to a lot of people. But what good is it. I would hearing the words "i love you" when they are meant by the person. When i write meant means it carries value in that person life. It...

30 Nov 08

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The most confusing question of LIFE..

preetam9533 @preetam9533 (229) • India 30 Nov 08

I have always had bad experiences with many girls when it comes to friendship. The most confusing question for me has been "What do girls want"?? Please give me details

girls

life

question

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shefalis Cofusing..uumm. How about thinking what do you want? Girls want a lot of things in life. Infact what you give is always less. It is applicable to both girls and boys. People like to dominate others and it depends on you how much are you willing to stoop for...

30 Nov 08

Is failure a bad thing?

simon611 @simon611 (598) • China 29 Nov 08

Failure is not strang to life.It can happen anywhere,anytime and to anyone.No person succeeds all the time.The more development you want to make ,the more failure you might encounter.There are different attitudes towards...

discussion

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shefalis Failure a part of our life. U have rightly stated the attitude of different people handling it differently.We get to hear students committing suicide durig the exams or after before the result is out. We may have whatever attitude towards failure but its more...

30 Nov 08

Ideal lifetime partner

eynjel05 @eynjel05 (444) • Philippines 30 Nov 08

All of us have this. We always want this so that we can have a meaningful life as we go ahead in our life. My question is: If you are a man, what is your ideal woman? And likewise if you are a woman like me, what is your ideal...

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lifetime

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shefalis Everyone has a picture of a perfect man/woman in their mind. When we meet a lot of people and get to know them, then the wishing game starts. One thinks in their mind wish my man/woman is also like this and then after sometime a mixture of all one makes a...

30 Nov 08

What will you do if your spouse commits a crime?

positiveminded1977 @positiveminded1977 (7072) • India 26 Nov 08

Today I heard about a murder. The news had appeared in the local newspapers, and my Mom told me about it. A young man murdered his mother-in-law after a verbal fight. It seems the son-in-law never got along with his...

crime

newspapers

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shefalis A crime committed that too of such a grave degree is a crime. It shows the persos temperament and sad also that after staying with a person one could not understand that side of it. Everyoe does not have the guts to commit a crime. Dependig on...

26 Nov 08

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Do you love those adopted children as your own?

sunilkonda @sunilkonda (1215) • India 26 Nov 08

Every parents love their own child very much.Children are all adorable,every parents put love and time and effort into raising them as you would your own.What about those adopted child,do you love them as your own blood.

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shefalis I have no idea about adopted children. But yes like u have said all children are adorable and lovable. So if a couple knows they cannot have a child and they go in for adoption m sure they wud love the kid as their own blood. With time they might tell and then...

26 Nov 08

money??

skipple_20 @skipple_20 (33) 26 Nov 08

Is it really true that money is the essential of a relationship?? well think about it guys nowadays without money relationship can't last long.. am i right??

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shefalis Money...the most essential commodity or thing or whatever you want to call it. Without money its difficult for one to survive. When there is no food to eat , which is essential and other stuff like clothes etc...what would one think of then ,having a...

26 Nov 08

love you more?

vanities @vanities (11395) • Davao, Philippines 24 Nov 08

i was watching a local game show when one question had caught my attention , and i would like to ask your opinions and ideas on this...what are the things that you are going to buy in order that your husband/wife will love you...

prettier

smarter

tthings to buy

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shefalis one can add treating and showing concern for the friends of the spouse. Buying the list of things which your spouse has made. making him/her feel proud of you when you go out.showing respect infront of others for your spouse. If you could be more specific then...

25 Nov 08

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Do you feel letdown?

andrew1412 @andrew1412 (60) • India 22 Nov 08

I have a close friend that I like alot and I even go out of my way to do things for him. I do anything without saying no to him.I go where ever he calls me. Help him a lot in his studies,etc. But the problem is that he is very...

friend

letdown

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shefalis In such a situation if you go and speak with him the chances are there might be rift between the two of you.So either you be prepared for it and incase you are not willing to do it. Just start making yourself unavailable to the person sometimes. Incase he is...

24 Nov 08

Issit wrong to be close with someone who is gender opposite than you?

ieeko89 @ieeko89 (1054) • Malaysia 23 Nov 08

Hm, sometimes i always argue about this with my bf. He's afraid of me being closed with other guy cause maybe someday i will fall for him. I have this three closed guyfriends. But i am more closed with this 1 guy whom i called him...

complicated

fall in love

friends

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shefalis Its natural for a person to feel insecure,be jealous. I m sure if he had girls as his close friends and went out with them like you do, you too at one point would feel the same. Its not about losing freedom or changing for someone. Its about making choices....

24 Nov 08

love you more?

vanities @vanities (11395) • Davao, Philippines 24 Nov 08

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shefalis I feel if one had to purchase articles for the husband/wife to love them more then it this list is never ending and it would only show the materialistic perception behind it. To make your spouse love you more, then love them even more. Show your love in...

24 Nov 08

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When people ask you why you're still not married what do u answer them back?

n30wing @n30wing (4767) • Philippines 24 Nov 08

Now when people ask me that question I usually answer them very soon next year. How about you guys? Have a nice day to all of you!

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shefalis This is the question which is asked by all to all. Its the way of our society or rather a stage of our life. When i was not married and people wud ask me, i would just reply when it has to happen will happen. If i m destined to be maried i would eventually get...

24 Nov 08

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