What's the one thing they never taught you in school?

@zandi458 (28102)
Malaysia
October 25, 2008 9:38am CST
If education were more relevant to reality, perhaps more kids would see the connection between education and their success in the world and may be more motivated to do well in school. Can't just schools have something that teaches the kids on real life, how to live independently and to overcome problems that involve money and the development of careers. Schools just breed a nation of dull kids. I can't tell you how many times since I left school, I've encountered situations which made me feel lost because school had not prepared me for them. What do you think schools should offer besides the regular syllabus that can prepare kids for the reality of everyday life?
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16 responses
@xialinye (1403)
• China
25 Oct 08
how to be nice,h0w to think,how to handle differet situation in real life. no more formula,no more recitement,no more vocabulary. i think the most important thing in the world is wisdom.be wise and everything will be A-okey.
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
26 Oct 08
I have never been good at remembering formulas and remembering history dates. They should revamp the school subjects to accomodate for more practical learning rather then theory which is of little significant in the real working world.
• United States
26 Oct 08
for me, one thing the school never taught us is that how easy it is to be a student compared to being an adult. as a student, we all thing that our life is hard with all the exams, homeworks, projects, not to mention the teenage drama that we all have to go through. but they're all so petty problems compared to what we face when we become adults. wish i had known that earlier because i would have enjoyed school more and savored more my days of being a student. now, i sometimes which i can go back to those days when life was relatively simple and carefree.
@xialinye (1403)
• China
27 Oct 08
thank you for your advice. i will bear it in mind.:-)
@catdla1 (6005)
• United States
25 Oct 08
I think all schools should have a class for necessary life skills. How to manage a checking account, how to budget money, how to look for work from writing a resume thru giving a successful interview, how to cook, etc. They could call the class "The Business of Life".
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
26 Oct 08
During my time we had cooking class they call 'Domestic science' and this has somewhat create an in dept interest in me and I pursued courses in cooking when I left school. I had my restaurant and catering business after that. Schools should continue this sort of skill training.
@catdla1 (6005)
• United States
26 Oct 08
I agree 100%. When I was in high school, all students (make and female) were required to take cooking, sewing and either carpentry or auto mechanics.
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
25 Oct 08
They did not teach me how hard it would be once we got out of school. They didn't teach us how to really know how to go out and make it on our own to pay bills and set a budget for ourselves. We learn on our own.
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
26 Oct 08
schooling only set the basic foundation while the rest we learn through life experience though sometimes it can be shocking lesson for us. Like emergency cases we should have been taught how to handle heart attack patient before medical aid comes.
@pyewacket (43903)
• United States
26 Oct 08
Brilliant discussion zandi. I can't help thinking school in general does teach children a lot of needless info..Yes I think kids do need a maybe well rounded exposure to subjects, but all school curriculums seem to lack simple basic life issues, even something as simple as stress management. They are finding that more and more kids do face a lot of stress, more than say when I was a kid, and yet kids don't know how to handle stress or anxiety issues...is it any wonder then why maybe some kids develop behavior problems as they don't know how to cope? Also a good introduction is needing in showing and teaching kids how to manage money, if they did have such teaching tools, maybe once that child is then the adult could manage money better
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
26 Oct 08
School don't see the importance of basic living skills, what they are interested is to pursue for academic excellence.
@quinnkl (1667)
• United States
25 Oct 08
I have been asking this same question for many years. Some of the things taught in schools have nothing to do with what we will need to use or do in the world. And making schools a pressure/push to learn and move on environment does not encourage kids to learn or remember anything. School can be enjoyable as well as a place to learn. And more classes involving things of interest that they can use would be great. And maybe more kids would actually enjoy going to school if that happened!
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
26 Oct 08
Since half of the time these kids spend their time in school, the school should make it a heaven for learning, cultivate various learning skills that might shape up their future careers.
@apples99 (6556)
• United States
26 Oct 08
Hi there. I think schools should have a class that teaches people how to be polite and more tolerant of others because I have encountered a lot of rude and overly judge mental, people in my life, so I think they should have a class for that.
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
26 Oct 08
True, students should be taught good moral as they pick bad influence easily from mixing with the wrong kind of friends.
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
26 Oct 08
moght help to ake them to the streets and sort of point out what people are doing go to the ruff part od town see the homeless maybe even talk to them to find out why they are where they went wrong to be there. Or if not that there are alot of movies on self help and all that they could watch
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@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
26 Oct 08
you would hope so!
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
26 Oct 08
I have done it to my children if they don't do their school work I will point to the garbage collector as an example if they don't excel in their studies I told them that is the only profession for them, collecting garbage on the street side.
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
26 Oct 08
yes, live example may motivate them to study hard.
@FLampard (394)
• Malaysia
26 Oct 08
AGREE... tats why i take school stuff a pinch of salt and gets more interested by other achievement outside school.
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
26 Oct 08
Good you achieved more outside school life.
@angemac23 (2003)
• Canada
26 Oct 08
The most important things in life that I should have learned in school, I learned on my own. I did not learn how to write a check, open a bank account, or do my taxes in school but they are all things that everyone has to do. School is almost useless. They teach things that you will never use but omit the things that you need. Doesn't make sense.
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
26 Oct 08
Life in school is all hard work preparing for school and public exams but nothing that benefits the real world outside. But the only plus factor is we learn to read and write from school which prepared us for better things in life. From illeterate to literate.
@bbsr13 (4196)
• India
27 Oct 08
Hello,Zandi! In the school and college our teachers had taught us everything that we require to live a happy life.This knowledge we utilise in our daily life for earning our livelihood.thanx.
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
27 Oct 08
Actually it is the duties of teachers to impart knowledge to students besides the regular studies based on textbooks.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
26 Oct 08
hi zandi wellI think to begin with if kids would buckle down and get those good grades from 1st grade on to 12th grade, a lot of their problems in life wou ld not be such problems. you need math, you need geography, you need science, you need foreign language, you need to learn English and how to write a decent article,you actually do need the classes they teach. but a lot of kids think it is smart to just goof off and slide along with cs at best or even d's as all think it is a badge of honor to hate schooll well its not. sure they could have some classes on life skills but if the kids dont study and learn it because they think it makes them bigger in the eyes of their friends, the class will do them no good at all. When I went to college I was shocked at how many remedial classes therewere for kids who messed up in English and Math, now you cannot tell me that these two are not important in life. so a kid has to want to learn any class that is offered, and if he doesnt put forth the effort now he will pay for it when he goes ou t to find a job. lol lol lol
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
26 Oct 08
Not all kids are good academically and subjects offered in school does not interest them as they are apt for skill subjects which many school doesn't provide. Since it is compulsory to attend the basic level of education they have no choice but to go along with the school curriculum but does not work hard to get better results. These kids need constant counselling by the teachers to strive for better result so that they may be able to fit in the job market.
@psspurgeon1 (1109)
• United States
26 Oct 08
You know, the standard teaching method is geared toward only one learning style, therefore, they only reach a small percentage of students anyway. Just thought I'd throw that in there. My high school was more concerned with appearance then anything else. Education came second. My principals actually walked around with a ruler to measure how long your shirt tale was. The teachers were constantly spending their teaching time nagging about gum and shirts and this and that then they did actually teaching. So yeah, I agree, it could definitly be more useful. I was well educated in tuning people out and breaking rules but as far as useful information...no, not at all. My kids do not go to the same schools as I did I would rather home school them than send them there. It seems like they have lost their focus on important issues these last few years. Maybe not everywhere, but in my town definitly...
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
26 Oct 08
How a school is run depends entirely on the head of the school. His/her words are authority and this have direct bearing on the standard of the education in that particular school. Very sad indeed to have a school head who does not emphasize on academic excellence.
• Philippines
26 Oct 08
i believe that not everything is taught and learned in school. Most of the time, what you learn in school or what is taught to us in school, is not practical in our daily living. say for example, in school it is taught that we are not supposed to smoke, but when you look around you, people smoke! c'mon!
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
26 Oct 08
The school always highlighted that the students should not smoke that it become over publicised and it sidekick this ban on smoking. Out of curiousity the students smoke once out of school compound.
• United States
26 Oct 08
They never taught me that stupid high school popularity contests don't matter at all in the real world. I spent my high school years totally miserable because I wasn't able to be the star of the football team, instead of enjoying the time that I had with my friends. Now, thinking back on it, I miss high school. I'm in college now, and I spent so much time socializing I have more friends than I will ever have the time to hang out with. Am I complaining? No. Do I endorse this lifestyle? Definitely not. It's hard, but I just wish that my school had taught me the importance of being who you are.
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
26 Oct 08
I am sure you are learning it slowly on your own.
• Canada
26 Oct 08
I feel that they never really taught us tu stand up on our own feet. They taught us how to listen to our teachers and stuff, but they dind't really teach individuality in school. they probably feared that too much individuality would means that people did not work well enough in groups.
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
26 Oct 08
School are emphasize on textbooks and forgot the basic living skills.
@agrady (20)
• United States
28 Oct 08
Actually, there was a time when the purpose of the basic curriculum taught in schools (i.e., English, Math, Science, Economics, History, Current Events, to name a few of the basics)was to teach students how to use their minds to relate to the world around them. Once a person knew how to do things like thinking, calculating, formulating ideas, understanding the nature of life both past and present, they were then able to better relate to life itself. Then with the help of their parents and other family members, they could then draw conclusions for themselves and begin to learn how to make informed decision about choices in life. In other words, the purpose of education use to be the process of supplying us with the proper and necessary tools and once we received these tools, we then applied this knowledge toward learning about life ourselves. Unfortunately, my understanding is that the school system has changed considerably so that much of what is now taught may be irrelevant to the growth and development of our young. I say we go back to basics and teach youngsters how to properly use their minds so that with the help of their families, they can experience the wonderful joy of discovering for themselves about the world around them.