I got a Boyfriend, have an affair! & I LOVE HIM VERY MUCH! What should I Do????
@Janice_tan021 (51)
Singapore
October 27, 2008 7:39am CST
I got a boyfriend and we had been together for 9 years. We got to know each others thur friend & all our friend envy us of being so loving and we never argue or quarrel over anything at all. Our love were alway true and justlike an happy angel. We intend to get marry end of this year.
One day, i went out clubbing at my friend and saw him with a lady which is older than him. I wanted to confront with him at that time but my fren had stop me! And we saw them went to hotel. My heart start to broken into pieces and why this could happen on me!?!?!!???
Do i have to let go this relation just like that? This 9 year can end a STOP?
I really dont know what should to do as i still love him very much.
1 response
@vicki2876 (5636)
• Canada
27 Oct 08
I am sorry to hear you are suffering. I can understand how hard it is for you that you found out about this after so many years invested in this relationship.
If it were myself I would tell him about what I saw. Let him respond. I would NOT get married at the end of the year though. Now you are not committed for life and if he can't or won't stop cheating then you can get out before you do that. I wish you the best of luck.
