If I request you to add me as a Friend, will you accept?
By naseefu
@naseefu (1607)
India
October 28, 2008 8:07am CST
Hello friends...
I know many of you are already my friends.Even though i am asking if some one request you to add them as a friend , then what will you do?
If he or she is a stranger to you then will you accept the request and add them as your friend?
If not then why you not add them?
Do you consider me or any one who request as an intruder?
Share your views and happy postings.
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137 responses
@haris86 (33)
• India
28 Oct 08
For sure i would :-)
I'm basically here to make a lot of friends from other countries. I read somewhere in someone's blog earlier that mylot is the place where you can make a lot of friends and see some dollars in your paypal for making friends :-D
I felt it was a really nice thing to read the above words and at once joined here.
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@leateagee (3667)
• China
28 Oct 08
I don't hesitate in adding any person here at mylot who requests to be my friend. One reason is that I am glad that they took the time to look at my profile and considered me to be their friend. As a busy me, I seldom look at the profile of the people or the author of the discussions I am responding. When you requested, I looked at your profile to know something about the person I am accepting as friends. In that way, I have a knowledge of who the people I am mingling with. So, in a way you are not so stranger anymore. Hehehe. Take care and have a great day!
@nova1945 (1612)
• United States
28 Oct 08
I always accept a request to add friends. I am happy to learn more about different people and different cultures around the world and consider the request an honor, not an intrusion.
The only time I decline a request or delete one that I have accepted is if they start sending me spam or if I have read several of their posts/comments and believe we have absolutely no common interests or strongly conflicting interests.
You are on my friends list and am honored to call you friend.
Happy posting....have a great day.
@remoteamber (135)
• China
28 Oct 08
Absolutely ! I accept anyone who request me as a friend ,I go to mylot just
because I want to make many many many many friends all over the world ,if someone
request me as a friend I will be very very very happy .So ,if someone want to
friend with me ,just give me a request .LOL. O(n_n)O~
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@coffeeshot (3783)
• Australia
30 Oct 08
Well I already have added you! I don't need to 'know' someone or to have read heaps of their posts to want to add them as a friend. I like to add people who are regulars on mylot and you can tell by looking at their profile at the last time they logged on. If someone is going to lie dormant and reply very sporadically to discussions and not make much of an effort, then I don't really want to waste my friend space on them.
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@chrislotz (8137)
• Canada
31 Oct 08
The reasoning behind this friendship thing here in mylot is to give us discussions
to respond to. I only accept friends that I have things in common with otherwise I
wouldn't have a lot to say when responding to their discussions.
I turn on all my notifications of all of my friends and I only post to their
discussions so I wouldn't bother with ones that I have nothing to say to. For example,
if the member is only 20 years old and posts discussions about music and such, then
I wouldn't be able to add to their discussion because I wouldn't know about their
type of music since I am 51 years old . Understand!
Alrighty then, talk to you later,
your friend, chris
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@quinnkl (1667)
• United States
2 Nov 08
I have never refused a friend to be added. The more the merrier. I don't think anyone on MyLot would consider any other mylotter an intruder. After all that is what we are all doing here. Sharing, posting, responding. It is always great to add new friends, in my opinion.
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@corngrass (727)
• Malaysia
31 Oct 08
I accepted every friend request in myLot. Everyone here is friend for me here. We might ot meet each other before but we share the same interest by doing discussion here in myLot. So, sure, I will accept you as my friend!
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@bhanusb (5709)
• India
28 Oct 08
Dear friend/ If anyone offer his or her friendship I shall gladly accept the person
as my friend. To me everybody is stranger in muLot forum.Yet many of lotters are my friend. I don't consider you or any lotter is an inruder.Do you think I'm an intruder? Do you consider me as your friend?
@chantalgiardina (2523)
• United States
28 Oct 08
i add anyone who requests me ..basically we all learn from each other..plus..more people for me to meet :)
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@lingli_78 (12822)
• Australia
28 Oct 08
of course i will... i want to make friend with everybody and there is no exception... why should i refuse you as a friend??? unless if you are a bad person and have a bad intention on me, of course i won't accept you... (just joking) i prefer to have more friends than enemies in this world... take care and have a nice day...
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@ronaldinu (12422)
• Malta
28 Oct 08
I do accept everybody in my friends lists whether he has man posts or wahtever he does not have a single post. © ronaldinu 2008
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@jason1308 (1586)
• France
28 Oct 08
I will accept virtually anyone who asks to be friends, as I feel its good to share our views, and if someone has taken the time to look at my profile and decide to ask, then I should return the favour and accept.
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@ravinder18 (868)
• Malaysia
28 Oct 08
If you request as my friend, I will accept your request. I always accept friends request. I never denied any request so far. I never consider any request as intruder. I like to know new friends. I usually will add all the request that send to me.
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