Should an affair outside of marriage disqualify a candidate for public office?"

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United States
October 28, 2008 1:33pm CST
There have been so many cases in the news about politicians lying about affairs. Do you feel that they should be disqualified?
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@rusty2rusty (6763)
• Defiance, Ohio
28 Oct 08
I think it really depends on what political office he is running for. I think if the candidate runs for president. Than yes, I think that should disqualify him as a candidate. Why? Because our president needs to be held to a higher standard. If a president will cheat on his own wife......what else would he be cheating or lying about? Sorry I could never trust a cheater. I sure don't want someone like that in public office such as the presidency.
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• United States
28 Oct 08
I totaly agree that anyone who is ruuning or elected for the presidents office should be held acountable. I wouldnt want someone like that in office either.!
@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
28 Oct 08
IF that happened my friend that would disqualify most politicians! And we'd have a shortage of them for sure, it seems so commonplace nowadays for politicians to have affairs and most politicians are econimical with the truth, so it's taken for gospel that most will stray and I can't see them being disqualified. It's a shame isn't it that affairs are accepted now and lying is just shrugged off, it becomes yesterdays news and as they say there's no such thing as bad publicity!
• United States
28 Oct 08
Its terrible that they lie to their wifes and lie to the public and then like the other day, this one politician is caught and has to confess to several.Honesty its hard to find in Politics.Honesty is no longer a requirement in office.
@jillbeth (2705)
• United States
28 Oct 08
No, it's a guys first instinct to try to lie his way out of it, and I don't think that means he would necessarily lie to his constituents. After all, he has to live with the wife! I don't think he should be diqualified, but if voters want to hold his personal life against him, then that will show at election time!
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• United States
28 Oct 08
Thats true, no matter what you tell your wife...you may have to face it when the voters have their say!Too bad that many are already elected and have this going on regularly.
@Thoroughrob (11742)
• United States
28 Oct 08
I think what they do when they are not at work, is nothing to me if it is not illegal.
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• United States
29 Oct 08
Lets hope they can keep on the right side of the law. Appreciate your response.
• United States
28 Oct 08
If they have been lying about anything it does not make them trustworthy. John Edwards comes to mind as a hypocrite. However the fact that it was an affair then I think it should be his wife that metes out the punishment, but not that he should automatically be disqualified for public office. IMO it would be up to the voters to decide if they wanted to vote for an untrustworthy liar in public office.
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• United States
29 Oct 08
That is so very true because if you know and you vote for him, wow, you have no right to complain later for what you got.
@Shar11 (419)
• United States
28 Oct 08
You know I think I would be more likely to trust and believe someone who made mistakes and admitted them. Someone who didn't make excuses or try to cover things up and was just honest and felt they learned from thier mistakes. Haha I would be more wary of a person who "never" made mistakes,.. I also think we gain knowledge from our mistakes so even though we seen such things as negative..there can be a positive side.. I also have to look at the person as a whole. What are thier abilities? Maybe there are people out there who would have done great in office but decided not to run knowing they had mistakes in thier past and knowing that because of that a lot of people wouldn't even consider them.. If I am having a very delicate brain surgery and I have the choice between the world's finest surgeon who made some serious mistakes in his private life Or an average doctor who never has... I'd choose the first!!
• United States
28 Oct 08
Those are truly some very valid points to consider. I agree with you, better they admit it then try to cover it up. I certainly do agree with you on the suregery, excellent post!
• United States
28 Oct 08
Good point, what have they learned from them? Do we ever hear that and we know we dont hear it near enough. Very Good point that you made here.!
@makingpots (11915)
• United States
28 Oct 08
You make some good points, Shar11. It is the 'lying about it' that I zeroed in on with this discussion. I can accept poor choices, mistakes, what have you...... just own up to them and tell us what you learned from them, you know?
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