How do you feel when you are compared to someone else?

It's not fair to compare anyone to others,specially girls should not be.Girls have some copexity.If the comparison is not good the particular girl feels shame and disheartened. In lieu of coparison the particular girl should be encoureged.Yes God's all creations are unique and beautiful.All colours are attrctive.You Filipinos are yellow coloured.Why you people like white skined man/woman?I feel angry when someone compares me to others.

its the stupid thing which i really hate every 1 as there own ability and talent wit them.. every 1 as their plus and minus.......

I can't tolerate if I am compared with somebody else. My mother likes comparing me with others and the way she does it - it's like I am useless and she's so disgusted of me being on earth. I can never accept if people compare me, or criticize me. I would get offended pretty easily and I will make sure they know I am offended. Usually when they criticize me or compare me with others, I would spit back the same words at them and I can see the change of facial expressions on them. Suits them right. They talk without using the brain but when people talk the same thing to them, they become stunned. What a dumb. Lol. Sorry for fretting. I'm just angry when I remember about those people who criticize me and compare me to others. It is a very stupid act.

I do not like this. I feel unconfortable while be compared with other people. My parents always compare me with others, and they like to say " you did a bad job, you see **** make 90 in math!" It is not right, I really did bad in math, I have 85 in the list. but I have 90 in my English and Chinese, while *** only have 70 in both. I think people like compare my shortcomings with their wonderful parts, and it seems that comparation can make them happy. Now I try to keep that away, thinking too much about it will make me crazy.

I feel bad if someone compares to me. Specially if that someone he or she talking about is he or she more like them I feel mad. Mad about them and mad about my self. When they say good things about the person they want to compare to me

I don't like being compared to any one else. My mom used to compare me with her brothers and used to tell her about many things that I have and my maternal uncles did not. You are right in saying that God created everyone unique. We should never never compare one being to another.

Whenever I get compared to others and mostly, in a compliment, I would always belittle myself and if I am not in the mood at all, I would often say that I don't know the person that they are comparing me to. Its not a good thing or a bad thing for me, I guess that's just how others associate people that they get to know. Of course, comparing others to someone better and telling them about it isn't polite to do nor would it convince others to improve, but in some cases, it does. Anyway, in my case, since the obvious trait that I have is my height so whenever there is another tall person that my friends know is present, they would always make us stand back to back and see if who is more taller than the other.. as if being tall is indeed better when you live in a country where almost everything accommodates the average filipinos. (^_^")

Hello aisaellis, to be honest it really annoyed me and I really hated it if I was to compare with someone. Because I believe that every person has their own abilities and capabilities to do and not to do things so why we have to be compared. And you know what if somebody tried to compare me to someone I used to tell them that I am not her/him so stop comparing because I can never be her/him and they can never be me.

I get a little upset when compared to others. Because each individual person is different in there own way. Every one has quirks and every has something unique about them. So really there is no way to compare one another because as close as some may seem everyone is way different. I just try to make a comment like "I'm my person as are so I'd appreciate if I wasn't compared to someone else" I feel that others comparing each other is a waste time. No one is better than the other.

if someone campared me, just ignore it because i know that i am sexy and prettier than her.if she thought she is sexy i will show to her too that i am pretty too.wait if you daughter or kid.if they said you are not pretty tell them"look at ma kids how they looks.specialy if mix wow what a beauty charrr.

True. I think we all don't like it but we're all guilty of it! It's something that's done automatically; saying stuff like, all women do this, men do that, just like so n so, u remind me of someone, etc! It's a bad habit that I don't think is going away anytime soon for anyone! So, don't take it personal, it's a universal ignorance! Taripre$

ye,we are often compared to someone.because the society is full of competition.if we still live in such a society ,we must bear the presssure of compareing to others. ye,no one will like others compare us to someone especially to someone who is very excellent ,that will make us very frustrating.i hate it also. but on the other side ,this comparison will let us recognize our inadequate,and encourage us to work hard.if people say that i am not richer than james,their words may encourage us to earn more money to pass james.hehe.

when i am compared to anyone else.....i don't feel jealous angry or start frowning , actually i dont even care because at this moment of time we need to act mature and realize that comparison is a part of life and we need to accept it. I dont start hating that person with whom i am compared to, it is normal and at last I am always proud of being unique.

Bored.Because one cannot become another.I just hate comparisons.I always feel that I am good.There may be better people and I don't care.But I can improve myself and strive to be a better one always.

Hello, Aisaellis22. I am usually compared to this guy at school. They always say that he is this and that, while I should try harder. "He is handsome. He is all great. He is a really nice person.". They are always saying good things about him near me, and like comparing me... They put him in the highest place possible. I really dislike it, I feel so bad... I mean, I like this girl and he went and conquered her. They got together. I want to do something, then I realize he already does. "He speaks English better". There are times when we are compared in which I should be the one who receives the best commentaries, but I don't. He is always the best. No matter how hard I work for something, he is always in front of me. Respectfully, Munhozmib.

Every man or woman has natural tendency to compare! It is our inborn habit. This is becuase, God has created huge variation between his creations. From human to human, from animal to animal, from plants to plants there is noticeable variations. One is different from another. So our eyes and mind read every different creation of God in different mood and temper. And by nature human being has weakness to the better one. Be it physical or intellectual beauty, everybody prefers the better one! And it is natural that your near and dear ones compare you with someone, because they want that you emulate him/her. If I am compared to someone who has good personality and is well respected, then I don't mind. I try to figure out, whether what others are saying is true or not. If it seems to me that there is logical side to compare, then I don't get annoyed and try to make some positive change in me. That's it. Thanks dear for starting such a mind blowing discussion!

Yes sometimes I think it's not really nice to compare someone with you. But I don't seem to mind. Anyone can say anything they like. But in some cases, specially if it was intended to be a joke or a real snappy insult I snap back and say, yeah look in a mirror sometime maybe you'll see what your real problem is too. Hehehe.

Hi Aisaellis Its true that we become feel uncomfortable when happened so. On me, people always comparing my face like as his friend, her neighbor, his brother etc. I just said like this : I'm not surprised, You are just a people to 115th telling me like that. lol

It doesn't concern me at all. I mean they can compare me to whoever as much as they want but I'm not gonna be discouraged because of that! I believe every person is unique. I am no way different as a person but I do have characteristics that they don't possess and vice versa. As for you my friend, don't get frustrated because of their comparison. Just do your best always and God will do the rest.