Love , relative , friendship , which do you think the most important ?
By remoteamber
@remoteamber (135)
China
October 30, 2008 5:54am CST
In my opinion , relative is most important , friendship takes second place ,
and the last is love ! I think relative is sincere , it will never betray you .
No matter what , relative is the strongest support , there is separation of love ,
friendship maybe have some crack , but relative must be the closest links .
Eternal love , the long-standing friendship , in the end are gradually into relative
that able to continue ! What is your opinion ? Share with us !
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24 responses
@caskins (689)
• United States
30 Oct 08
hello my fellow myLotter, in my opinion love is more important. as for me my family is all screwed up. i have a dysfunctional family. so in my case that would be last for me and as for friendship goes i've had a best friend ever since we were in the 10th grade. so it will be love, friendship, then relative for me. happy posting!
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@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
30 Oct 08
[i] think relative is sincere, it will never betray you .
No matter what, relative is the strongest support[/i]
In a perfect world that would be the way it is for everyone but in the real world thats just not the case for many of us....My relatives have betrayed me in the worst of ways, the ultimate betrayal in my life was done by my mother, father and both my siblings...They are NOT supportive in the slightest...
My friends however, and i'm talking about my closest, dearest friends, have been nothing but supportive, loving, understanding and true...Same with my husband and bf..they have also been nothing but wonderful...
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@princejayevents (1245)
• Philippines
30 Oct 08
All are important to everyone, but if you will prioritize things, i'll choose love, relatives and friends in that order. Love is the most important thing of all.
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@tapnaroy12 (875)
• India
30 Oct 08
hi
In my opinion it's LOVE which forms the basis of all the relationship. If love bond is weak, no relation works.
Love among the relatives is important. If there is hatred among the relatives they are no better than enemy.
If frindship isn't bounded by love, it'll be not a reliable relationship.
So if love is strong between two persons, relationship is also strong.
Happy mylotting.
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@Ithink (9980)
• United States
30 Oct 08
I personally think that all 3 are important to ones life, however I think the love is first as it is needed in all parts of all relationships that you have throughout life.
With me also, family does take a front seat but not all relatives, some can be just as unkind as a stranger and sometimes even more so. However I have picked my friends and if I have picked wise they will be there for me in time of need and will be a great support. The best support thou to me is the one that I love and that loves me too.
He is there for me in good and bad, accepting me as I am. That is the way it is suppose to be I think. If the person does not do this I would question my relationship and love.
So for me, love is first and then family and friends come in second together depending on the people.
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@aditya540 (328)
• India
30 Oct 08
I would surely vote for friendship because that is the feeling where u shud taste it before our teenage gets end and love is unanimous and universal and there is scarcity for that even we can love our life partner or girlfriend after marriage but just imagine would u do the same pranks and all the fun which u can do at 16years after the marriage???? certainly no!! And coming to relatives perhaps the last and worst option willl be that coz, they allways be selfish towards our progress and cheerup for our failures,,...!!!
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@taripres (1499)
• United States
30 Oct 08
The most important is friendship, I think! U can love in general, but u can't have general friendships! U may have relatives, but aren't they your friends also? In order for u be in love with someone, it builds off a friendship, so friends would be the most important!
Taripre$
@23uday (2997)
• India
30 Oct 08
Hi buddies
Every one has a frndship,love,relative.I will prefer a frndship is first,love is
second,relative is third.The frndship is a good relation to every one of life's
THe frndship never and never breaks and don't have a end for its.The strongest
relation is a frndship.The frnds will help in when we need a help.The love relationship is a good if we can understand the good relationship.The relative is some better for me.
@061234217 (133)
• China
31 Oct 08
I think all of them are important.I can't live without any of them.But if I must choose one,it would be...No,I can't do it.It's too difficult for me.Sorry,I am a selfish cupidity.
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@pryce_mbg (716)
• Philippines
31 Oct 08
for me, love is the most important aspect and nothing will ever change it. Love can strengthen the relationship between your friends and your relatives. If one can give love to others, then people can use the words friends and relatives for they value each of the person they love! Thats all. keep mylotting..
@ptrikha_2 (47326)
• India
31 Oct 08
I feel that love is the most important of all these . No Relationship or Friendship could be there without love .
@kedves (728)
•
30 Oct 08
its a hard question. one thing though. you cant choose your relatives but you can choose your friends. so i guess friendship is important because it is something we choose for ourselves. Love i guess is also important because it can bring us great joy or great sadness depending on the outcome. I guess the answer is dependent on how well the three subjects treat our affection and how blessed we are if we have all three with happiness :)
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@carolinemys (279)
• Malaysia
30 Oct 08
Love is the MOST important thing of all. It's above All. God is Love. Without Love you cannot have any relationship with anyone. Relatives are good and bad sometimes, but with Love everything is possible. Read 1 Corinthians 13.
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.
So The Most important thing in life is LOVE. Love one another just as Christ has loved us.
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@wjiangyizhou (45)
• China
30 Oct 08
I think it is hard to say which is more important than others,the three relationships are all we need,and whatever one leave us is not reality.
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