AS a SHY man! What Shall I do*_* Could You Tell Me?

I think u are not a shy man.... Maybe u don't like to be a center of attraction or attention, it just you don't want to see them watching at you, so the tendency you become paranoid when it happened, then your ear become red. My grandmother tell me something about shyness, she told me "Don't think of them when you are in the spot, concentrate, think that nobody is there ..... do the task ... without knowing you did it right!" Note: Don't look them in there eyes it will confused you at all! It's not a disease LOL it's happened to all.

It is not disease. Don't feel about that. You always think why I can't do this thing. You feel like I can do any thing and every thing. It is good motivation to your self. If you feel to do every thing you should do every thing definitely. Happy to share. Happy myLotting.

Well to overcome your shyness just remember one thing! God created you and therefore you have all the rights as all the other creatures. Strive to improve all the potentials awarded to you by God. Always think that equal opportunity is given to everyone and you need not be shy because God loves you just as He loves the others.

Hi All you have to do is to overcome your shyness. Yes, I'm not joking. You have to make an effort to overcome your shyness. That's the only way to beat the shyness. I understand you have already working in that direction that's why without any shy you have confessed that you are shy man. Try your level best to overcome shyness about a thing at one time. Best of luck.

hi,boy.I used to be shy,too,but I have resolved this thing.You must talk with stranger more times,your guts will be increased.Rememberring,you are a strong man,you are not a coward.

to overcome the shyness, the best way is to join your friends, take part in them. when play with them ,you can enjoy the happiniss ,you can laugh ,tlak, drink with them. then you will find you can speak with everybody at last.

I used to be very shy. Once I got out of school and started working, my first (and current) job was at a dog kennel. I've always loved animals so it was the perfect fit, which is why I'm still there 13 years later. During that time I've researched everything I could about dogs so that when I have to talk to customers, I would actually have something to talk to them about that I knew about- and over time, I got past my shy-ness. I'm still not the type that can just walk up to anyone and start a conversation, but now I say "hello" to people I don't know, and if I'm approached by someone I don't know I don't feel as akward about it as I used to- I can actually hold a conversation with them.

Hi rowe0525, I do understand how you feel because I was so painfully shy myself and my friends used to do all the talking while I just stand there in the background, sometimes you have to realise that other people are just as shy, that is what I found out and I made the first move of talking to people, try doing that, if they don't want to talk, well that is fine, you tried, but as for a black person, how do you think they feel? You are in your own country and there are not, its bad enough the they are strangers in your country but they had to be black, they bleed the same as you and feel the same as ypou too, they may be shy like you and want someone to be friends with them, just imagine the you are in their country, the only Chinese there, how would you feel? but you must first deal with your shyness and talk to your teacher or your parents and by the way it is not a disease, you just need some confidence in yourself, and I think you will be ok, just like me. Tamara

hmmm, well, i have been once a shy person in school days, but it ended when i was in love, i've fallen in love with someone, but i'm so shy to tell her about my feelings, but when i knew that my my friend had fallen in love with my crush, and he's so confident to tell his feeling to my crush, i said to my self, i have to fight for my love, i suddenly became confident about my feeling and i've won the heart of my crush. up until now where together.

"not dare to talk to black strangers" is this a racist remark? What do you mean by black strangers? Or do you mean you don't dare to talk back to strangers? Anyway, being shy is just your own personal problem. You need to mix more with other people, join more activities and events, join more societies and start to talk more. I used to be a very shy person but after I started joining all those activities and societies, I became quite a talkative person. Also, there's this thing which I've learnt over the years. Being not-so-shy will not kill you. Afraid of talking to the girl? Dare yourselves and go talk to her. You won't die if you fail. Afraid to call this customer? What if you failed? Well, you won't die even if you failed. Try to imagine the worst case scenario if things screw up, and say to yourselves that it is not that bad. That way, you will be able to talk more naturally and be yourself in front of strangers and friends. Good luck.

hi. Being shy is fine but not at all times. Sometimes you have to throw all your timidity to fight for something you believe in or for the sake of love ones. You can overcome shyness by trying to be friends with others. I mean not just on the net but in real life, in the physical, face to face. If you are too shy, try to open some conversations with your family, some friends or relatives, those to whom you are already at ease. Then if you feel ready now, try it to a stranger like a simple 'Hi,' to a new classmate or a new neighbor. Choose topics that interest you and the other person so that both of you may give your ideas. It is not that difficult as long as you try it.

Confidence. thats how you over come your shyness.. i can tell you because i am a shy man aswell. its just putting your self in a setting where you don't feel shy anymore.. like your place to shine kinda thing.. i found when i started working out and getting more fit and feeling better about my self then i would not be so shy anymore. with you being comfortable with your self then you can be comfortable with others. its a mental thing.. also if you just try pushing your self to be not so shy then you might over come it that way aswell.. i found when i got a job working in like retail..(i work at starbucks i think that is retail???) umm where you have to be social and not shy and out going forcs your self to be unshy?? i remember when i first started my job i was to shy to do much.. but after time of accually doing it i became more out going and now it has changed me for the good.