do nice guys finsh last
By roark82
@roark82 (20)
United States
November 3, 2008 9:34pm CST
i am a nice guy and in the pass i been hut by my ex girlfriend they either cheated on me or broke up with be saying i am to nice and neet to be a D**k to them and i am tired of it
2 responses
@rockgroupie2 (280)
• United States
4 Nov 08
No, Roark, nice guys do not finish last. Seems to me you're just picking girls that don't appreciate you. Maybe their fathers or past boyfriends were not very nice to them and they expect that this is how a man should treat a woman. Mayber they're just not very nice people. A lot of women, including myself, would love to meet a really nice guy like yourself who will be loving and atttenive to us and treat us like queens. At the same time she should be just as good to you. Maybe you're just not looking in the right places. Brainstorm a little and think about places where really nice girls might be. Church maybe? How about daughters of some of your parent's friends? Maybe even the girl next door! Maybe you just need to slow down a bit. Really get to know her before making a commitment. But don't settle. You're worth more than that. Just keep looking and you WILL find that special someone!!
@mz_Ira (1090)
• Philippines
4 Nov 08
Being too nice is not wrong or maybe they meant you're to lenient? in a way that everything is alright for you? I mean girls sometimes needs to feel that they are special and loved. jealous? well yes you trust her but hmmmmm it isnt like that always really, a bit of it could make her atleast show that you really are into her. aheheh hope it helped what i said...
But if thats not the reason.. You were just like really really nice then its their prob not yours ;-).. There's someone meant for you.