omg she said she was pregnant with twin guess what she lied?
By annjilena
@annjilena (5618)
United States
November 4, 2008 10:06am CST
my mates son girl friend told everyone one in the family she was pregnant and baby was do oct ,2008 we just find out she is not pregnant she had him to believe all this time she was pregnant knowing she is not pregnant.this guy is a young man have his whole life a head of him how could she do such a thing.he really believed her he was crying and everything she even tried to cover it up by saying she had a miscarriage, she lied again.what sort person would do such a thing?the family has a baby shower all planned for her what was she thinking?
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@annjilena (5618)
• United States
6 Nov 08
yes it a drama story but it,s true and it has happen this woman needs so medical help no one treats another like this lying is just not good for anyone she lie to that man for 9 months telling she was pregnant and knowing full well she did not have twins she was trying to hold on to him by saying this she needs help mentally.
@kezabelle (2974)
•
5 Nov 08
You say she isnt normal well youre probably right something in her mind isnt right, id say she needs help not slating and she will have done it for a reason doesnt mean its a good excuse but im sure she needs help more than being hounded like that!
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@annjilena (5618)
• United States
6 Nov 08
i have word tonight he is moving out he is so hurt he he can,t stand to look at her he said he have to leave her house tonight.
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@mflower2053 (3223)
• United States
5 Nov 08
wow. That poor guy. He must of been trying to break it off with her and that was a way she could make him stay around a bit longer. Stupid girl. He needs to get away from her before she tries to pull something like that again.
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@annjilena (5618)
• United States
6 Nov 08
i have word tonight he is moving out he is so hurt he he can,t stand to look at her he said he have to leave her house tonight.
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@agrant10 (1476)
• United States
5 Nov 08
It sounds like she was very desperate and she used the only thing she think she could have to keep him. I actually feel sorry for the both of them. He really thought she was pregnant and was willing to expect her and the baby and to find out that she really lied and there was no baby after all. This is heart-breaking. On the other hand if he wants to leave not is his time to get out. She really has some issues and maybe she needs to seek mental help.
@annjilena (5618)
• United States
6 Nov 08
she is crazy is what is i see no one does this to anyone and have no remorse about what she have done she don,t have anything to talk to him about.
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@ememCz (139)
• Philippines
5 Nov 08
It might be obsession with the guy or too much love that she sorted to lying to win his affection. But, who knows? It's easy to judge her because of these lies, on the other hand, we need to know her reasons. We know what she have done is totally not acceptable but we need to understand why she had that kind of behavior.
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@annjilena (5618)
• United States
6 Nov 08
we are not judging her it,s a fact she flat out lied i don,t care what her motives was she pretended for 9 months that she was pregnant surely she no she can,t get away with such a thing she is crazy this is what i know nobody does such a thing in their right mind.
@mariposaman (2959)
• Canada
5 Nov 08
Wow, I am glad I was not there, but I guess I would not care if my girlfriend was pregnant, it would be an enjoyable experience, but then I too would be disappointed if she was not after being told she was. Sounds like your mates son should put as much real estate between himself and this flake as possible. There will be no consequences for these lies, there never is, somehow women get away with this behaviour.
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@annjilena (5618)
• United States
6 Nov 08
she is crazy is what is i see no one does this to anyone and have no remorse about what she have done she don,t have anything to talk to him about.
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@soulist (2985)
• United States
7 Nov 08
I know a few girls that would do that in order to make sure the guy couldn't leave her and just not be in her life. I don't think they think about the guy and how he would feel about finding out eventually that she wasn't pregnant. I'm sorry you're mates son had to go through that.
@annjilena (5618)
• United States
9 Nov 08
iam so happy iam not a lone my son iam not going to clean his room because he is old enough to clean it and we don,t have any one coimg in to clean house iam not washing his clothes either it,s high time he start growing up.
@annjilena (5618)
• United States
5 Nov 08
yes he was going to marry her he wanted his child to have her name even told his grandparents this woman is crazy iam convinced of that she hsve no remorse for what she done.thank you for sharing
@ronaldinu (12422)
• Malta
4 Nov 08
She seems immature for a relationship. If she is not truthful to her boyfriend than maybe its the time that your son questions the whole relationship. If she is no being truthful in small things (although this was gross) how is she going to be honest in other big issues?
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@annjilena (5618)
• United States
5 Nov 08
ronald iam so mad at her she is a bold face liar to hurt him like this and his family something is mentally wrong with this woman to live such a lie.thank you for sharing
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@skysuccess (8858)
• Singapore
5 Nov 08
annjilena,
First of all, I think your mate could only have himself to blame, not completely but at least partially.
I feel that there is just quite a lot of things amiss about this "pregnancy", like the mandatory prenatal check ups, her menstrual cycles if she is not pregnant and her physique changes. Didn't your mate have any notice at all? I mean if they have been both sleeping and staying together, I am sure your mate would have found out much much earlier. Isn't it obvious?
Afterall, she is pregnant with twins and I am sure above all that excitement and joy, there should have been a lot of attention on her. Is there something wrong with the friendship relation here? I do not think now would be the time to put the blame or point the finger now except to really for your mate to sit down with her and see if there is anything wrong with the both of them. Also, where their relationship's direction is heading. There seems to have quite a lot of unresolved issues here between the both of them and they really need to sit this through.
I hope their issues could be resolved. Cheers.
@annjilena (5618)
• United States
6 Nov 08
my mate don,t have anything to do with it his son was living with her he said she was very secertive but the fact is he has to resolve this he owes her nothing.as for as iam concern this relationship should be over.
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@skysuccess (8858)
• Singapore
6 Nov 08
annjilena,
I think there is something fundamentally erroneous with their mindsets and they kinda living a life in this rather narrow and hollow viewpoint that brings them to nowhere.
This is the difference between people who think about Love and people who are in Love.
The former are but scripted fantasy conjured towards achieving a flawless yet nil achievement results in their scoreboard. What happens is that one can probably speak in splendid details about their every brush encounter with such and such, yet they have no actual proof as a means to follow up to validate their affection and turn this piece of dream into reality.
I will quote from Karl Marx: 'The philosophers have merely interpreted the world in various ways; the point, however, is to change it.'
So while one party is at it doing what he perceives as right, the other feels just too inferior to speak her true mind. Knowing only the deviant way to tie her man down as commitment and a meaningful relationship. I can feel that there is simply a gap and a barrier between them and as much as we as outsiders may read her as a despicable character, I would seek that we be objective. For as the old adage says: There's always something more that meets the eyes. I think it would be best to leave them to resolve this on their own and respect their decisions and whatever outcome. There are people who may just turn a new leaf when the opportunity is given.
Cheers.
@relundad (2310)
• United States
4 Nov 08
This situation is crazy and so is she. But a lot of women pull these types of tricks in hopeing that the guy will stay with them. Its a last ditch effort to save the relationship in their minds. However when the truth is revealed he is gone anyway.
What I don't understand is if this guy lives with her why didn't he notice something was not quite right? If he was the father to be did he never think it was odd not to go to an appointment, or see sonogram pictures or something. I mean if she was due last month, wouldn't they have bought stuff, picked out names etc.? Or was she doing ALL of the stuff normally associated with pregnacy and getting ready for the new arrival? If she was I was see to it that she got some mental/medial attention!
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@trisha_nava82 (1379)
• United States
4 Nov 08
Wow, that truelly isn't right. I too can never understand how a woman can lie about herself being pregnant and think she can get away with it, but I think that there must have been some reason behind it. Were their relationship in alot of trouble of breaking up, because if so then she might have said that to keep him with her, because she didn't want to lose him.
@annjilena (5618)
• United States
5 Nov 08
thats what she did she try to control him and make him stay with her using her pregnancie.she is crazy to play with a person heart like that.she even had his family number blocked when we found out she was not pregnant.thank you so much
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@lavender88 (192)
• Malaysia
5 Nov 08
So sorry to read about what happens which is not a nice thing for her or anyone to do. Lying is one thing but to lie about such an issue is just not right. Sad that they have to go through this but I strongly agreed with our fellow lotters. This girl have a reason in lying - she's afraid of the guy leaving her. So the only good reason that she can create is that she's pregnant. Pregnancy takes few months to develop before it's obvious so within this time, she's trying to find a way out. In a way, she's buying more time to try to win her guy back. I cant blame the guy's family to be hopping mad - I would too if I'm in their shoe. Hope everything turns out alright for them..
@nadooa247 (1096)
• United States
4 Nov 08
she might have truly miscarried... she perhaps didnt tell anyone because she was shocked.. i miscarried and didnt exactly start telling everyone... im pregnant again and i find it sad that she would lie if she did lie...
there is a chance she was pregnant and didnt know how to tell her boyfriend about the miscarriage..
@annjilena (5618)
• United States
4 Nov 08
she looked pregnant but she is a big girl so we believed her, she acting like nothing has happen his grand parents are pissed off about this where is the baby her responds is iam not pregnant she never said anything about having a miscarriage she start telling him that because he was thinking of leaving her.
@kkanaka (886)
• Singapore
5 Nov 08
God knows what she was thinking, did she give a valid reason, does the young man still love her, what did she gain from this.... maybe she needs counselling....
@samijo719 (1052)
• United States
4 Nov 08
That is just awful! Some people go to ridiculous lengths to get what they want and it's really sad. That poor guy that whole time thinking he was going ot be a daddy. I think it's very selfish/heartless to lie about such a thing!!
@annjilena (5618)
• United States
5 Nov 08
ya and talking about i can,t do this are that knowing all the time she was lying this man cried hisself to sleep tonight over this he just can,t believe she would do such a thing.thanks for sharing
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
5 Nov 08
My goodness this woman must be out of her mind. I mean she fooled a lot of people with all her lies. She could be sick in the mind. Maybe she needs psychiatric help! Imagine how a person could fabricate such a big lie which eventually could be uncovered. She taught she could cover up by lying again? How crazy!
@annjilena (5618)
• United States
5 Nov 08
say she is crazy and of need of mental health you hear of such things but to have it happen to you is very painful for the parents and grand parents thank you so much
@prinzess1515 (1341)
• United States
4 Nov 08
Did he never see her for nine months? It would be pretty obvious she wasn't pregnant. Why didn't he go to the doctor with her ever?
@annjilena (5618)
• United States
6 Nov 08
thats true i think she has a mental problem to do such a thing how could she you can,t make a man stay with you if he don,t want to be there.
@annjilena (5618)
• United States
5 Nov 08
thats what she did she try to control him and make him stay with her using her pregnancie.she is crazy to play with a person heart like that.she even had his family number blocked when we found out she was not pregnant.thank you so much
