Are your kids attatched to a blanket or stuffed animal?
By katsmeow1213
@katsmeow1213 (28716)
United States
November 6, 2008 5:39pm CST
None of my older kids ever grew any serious attatchments to any blanket or anything. Granted they had a favorite toy, but never a real attatchment.
Then my toddler came along. He has a serious attatchment to his blankey. At one point he couldn't even leave the house without it. He's gotten much better since then, but he still brings it downstairs with him when he wakes up in the morning, sometimes plays with it during the day, then throws a complete fit if we put him to bed without it at night, and won't stop crying until someone brings it to him.
Now the youngest seems to have an attatchment to his blanket too. I was just putting him up to bed, I had him in one hand, and his blanket in the other. He reached across me to grab the blanket, and hugged it (it really was the cutest thing) and didn't stop hugging it even after I put him in his crib.
Are any of your kids attatched to a blanket or something? When did they outgrow their attatchment?
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@gemini_rose (16264)
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7 Nov 08
Oh yes, my daughter has had a blanket since she was tiny and she loves it. She carries it everywhere with her in the house and I have had to sew it up about three times thus far! I will not let her take it out with her though, I do not want her too attached. I had a problem the other week though, she got up one morning covered in what looked like nettle rash, as the day wore on it became worse to the point she was covered in it and I had to phone the doctors about it. They said it was a virus and so I just kept an eye on her, well it did not get any better at all and I wondered if she was allergic to something, then I looked at her blankie and I thought I wonder if it is that, so I washed it and you know that rash went immediately that it was washed. So in a way they are not a good thing to have an attachment too because they harbour all sorts of germs and now I have to make sure it is washed every few days and believe me we have tantrums over it!
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@katsmeow1213 (28716)
• United States
7 Nov 08
Oh I understand the tantrums over trying to wash it. I used to have to plan the laundering of the blanket around his naps, to ensure he'd have it for nap, and I'd have to try to hide the fact I was stealing it for washing.
He's not as attatched to it now, normally he can go all day without playing with it, and occasionally even leaves it in the bed when he comes down in the morning. Plus he's not napping anymore, the only time he really needs it is when he's going to sleep at night.
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@camomom (7535)
• United States
7 Nov 08
Our oldest girl is attached to her binky (pacifier). We finally got her to only use it when she's sleeping but sometimes we have to bring it with us when we go away. Luckily, our yungest hates them but she's pretty attached to her hand in her mouth. As far as toys, no, no attachments.
@katsmeow1213 (28716)
• United States
7 Nov 08
I've always hated pacifiers. How old is your daughter? Like 2?
Well I hope this doesn't offend you, but one of my pet peeves is seeing like a 3 or 4 year old wandering around with a binky in their mouth or a bottle... I think that's just pure laziness on the parent's part. I think that's far too old.
My oldest did have a binky, for like 6 months, but he kept dropping it while we're out in the stroller, and it would get lost, so I'd have to buy another. Finally I got sick of it and made him just quit cold turkey because he had dropped it and lost it again. Since then none of my other kids ever used one. When the nurses tried to give them one in the hospital I threw a fit! I won't go through trying to break them of that habit again cuz it's torture on me and the child, and it's not worth it.
I also break them of bottles at around 12 months. Actually my toddler wasn't broken until about 18 months, but still that wasn't too bad.
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@camomom (7535)
• United States
8 Nov 08
She's 2. I don't like them either but I'd rather them have a binky then a thumb. I can take the binky away, I can't take away the thumb. 3 or 4 is too old for them, I agree. She was almost done with them and was starting to potty train until the new baby, then she regressed. The doctors say it's normal. We are still working on both with her so hopefully soon we'll break her of it. We intend on her being able to go to preschool next year so she has to get rid of it and be potty trained by then. She is not on bottles anymore, she's using big girl sippy cups. The ones with lids but no plugs to slow the flow of liquid.
@camomom (7535)
• United States
8 Nov 08
That's what my mom said she did with my sister and I. She it was the only thing that worked. I don't know if I want to try that though, I can see her just going on the floor and not caring about the mess. I may try actual training undies for her. The cloth thick ones so she'll feel the wetness better and she'll feel it on her legs...etc. I think that may help her. I'm going to try the old way a little longer though then we'll see. Good Luck with yours.
@sunshine4 (8703)
• United States
6 Nov 08
When my oldest was little, he would always sleep with a fozzy bear stuffed animal. He gave it up around the age of 5, but I noticed he had it in one of his drawers when he moved out of our house:) He is now 20.
My next two boys were attached to blankets when they were little. My one boy still has his in his closet and he is 14. My now 16 yr old left his in a hotel when he was 5 and we were in Florida. I called the hotel to see if they found it, but they didn't. I am sure it is because it looked like a rag!
My daughter had a doll that she loved when she was little. I ended up buying 3 of them before she stopped sleeping with them. She still has all 3, one has no face left on it~ scarey.
Now my daughter love sleeping with a blanket (she is 8). It is one that someone made for her when she was a baby. I had it in her closet and she liked the colors on it, so now she sleeps with that eveyr night.
@katsmeow1213 (28716)
• United States
7 Nov 08
My son is only 2 and a half. The blanket he is attatched to was once green, but it has faded so much that sometimes it looks practically white!
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@3SnuggleBunnies (16374)
• United States
23 May 11
My younger two are attached to a blanket. The middle only sleeps with hers, the lil guy has to take it everywhere with him.
@katsmeow1213 (28716)
• United States
7 Nov 08
I think that would drive me bonkers. I love being able to put the kids to bed and going off and doing my own thing. I usually stay up a few hours after I've put them to bed, and I need that down time everyday.
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@andnowtheres2 (47)
• United States
7 Nov 08
my daughter is 4 1/2 yrs old and has a stuffed boyds elephant that she calls Ellie. She is soo attached to it that I'm only able to find it on Ebay since it is a retired cuddle fluff. She has already gone through 2. I have 2 in my closet as back up so when the current Ellie falls apart or gets to nasty looking I will switch up. She's sneaky though everytime I try and give her the new one she flips, there's something about the current Ellie she loves, probably the smell of it, LOL.
My son is 5 yrs old and is just attached with trains especially thomas. He has always been obsessed with Thomas.
@katsmeow1213 (28716)
• United States
7 Nov 08
Kids are smart and can always tell a difference. My son isn't crazy about his blanket being washed, he used to cry like crazy whenever we washed it and wouldn't settle down until he dirtied it up again.
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@sudiptacallingu (10879)
• India
10 Nov 08
Yes, my son is very very addicted to a stuffed duckbill platypus. For one, its too soft and furry and feels wonderful against the skin and then its an offbeat toy too. The beady eyes make it look all the more real. He calls it ‘Platy’…the funniest part is that as a baby, he never had a particular liking for any stuffed thing but this Platy I go him like 2 yrs back and he was 7yrs then and now at 9yrs, he still cant do without it. As for blankets, well he has his own and is very possessive about it. He wont take any of our’s (we all have single blankets) and throws a tiff if by mistake we take his
@jillhill (37354)
• United States
7 Nov 08
All three of my kids were attached to blankets.....now they are grown....but my little granddaughter loves stuffed animals. Last weekend she slept with me and we had to have four of them in bed with us.....it got a little crowded. It seems like when she is upset or sleepy she needs a puppy or something to hold on to.
@schulzie (4061)
• United States
7 Nov 08
I have 4 children and my oldest son never was attached to anything like that. My second son came along and he grabbed my first son's Frankenstein stuffed toy. I think it was called Frankenstuff or something like that. He could not fall asleep without it. He outgrew that by the time he was about 3 years old. My first daughter never had any attachments, but my last daughter - the baby has an attachment to her blanket.
This blanket was her older sisters' when she was a baby. It is a crib blanket and washed very thin. You cannot even see the design on it any more. But my 3 year old daughter has to have it to go to sleep at night. If we go on a road trip for the day or longer she has to have it. When she gets up in the morning she drags the blanket with her. Sometimes she puts it in her chair when we eat dinner. God forbid she see me put it in the laundry. She will then hover around the washer and dryer until it is finished. When she is sick she wants to be wrapped up in it. At night she sleeps on her stomach with her blanket underneath her.
Luckily, she goes to preschool 4 days a week for 2 1/2 hours so in that time I can quickly launder it. I hate her using it and it not being clean. I don't want her to get sick from any germs that might be on it. She does drag it on the floor when she walks around at home too.
Have a nice day and happy myLotting!!!
@ersmommy1 (12588)
• United States
7 Nov 08
It depends what mood my daughter is in. She usually has 3 she chooses from. One is a stuffed panda. She also loves her stuffed Simba. And she rarely sleeps without her Hello kitty blanket her Grandma Martha gave her. She is more attached to Simba. And has let her baby cousin use the Panda.
@ZephyrSun (7381)
• United States
7 Nov 08
I have three boys 12, 10, and 4. None of them have ever been attached to anything. I do have one that just loves band-aids but I'm starting to think that there are a lot of kids that do lol.
@rizzu87 (860)
• Malaysia
7 Nov 08
My brother was attached to a blanket which he had since his childhood. That blanket was so important to him that he was not able to sleep without it a single time. And one corner of the blanket was the best part for him and he could find out the corner with his eyes closed. Once we went to my country and on the way to the airport his blanket went in some other bag. And then he was not able to sleep. And we had to bring that blanket the same day from our cousins house.
@desiree_apuli (455)
• Philippines
8 Nov 08
My daughter is very much attached to his eeyore small pillow with long ears. She also cries a lot if it was left somewhere even in the middle of the night we have to find that pillow or else she will not stop crying. We always bring it wherever we go. Up to now she is already 5 yrs old and she is still very much attached to eeyore. By the way we call him as nose nose. For the long ears she always rub it to her nose to go to sleep.
@Professor2010 (20162)
• India
16 May 11
Ny kids are all grown up now, i have grandkids, the youngest is a girl, she carries a stuffed tiger always, thats her favorite.
Thanks for sharing
God bless you, have a nice day ahead.
Professor ‘Bhuwan’. .
@ravinskye (8237)
• United States
6 Nov 08
None of my kids have attachments to anything. I think that most kids out grow it around 5 or 6. I knew a kid who had to have his stuffed dog everywhere with him. I actually think he has it still though he doesn't take it around as much as he used to. He'd be about 8 now.
@vicki2876 (5636)
• Canada
6 Nov 08
I had (have) a blanket I always sleep with. I don't sleep well with out it. It has a softy strip on the top which I love to hold while I sleep. I used to suck my thumb till I was 21 years old. Talk about self soothing. LOL My three children all had special blankets they needed to fall asleep. But even my youngest who is 7 now doesn't use any "special" blankets anymore. They used to always carry around their blankies like Linus on Charlie Brown. But once they started school they didn't really seem to use the blankets anymore. I probably will never outgrow mine as I am 32 and LOVE my blanket!
@icedventi (155)
• United States
6 Nov 08
My toddler has 5 (yes 5!) stuffed animals that he sleeps with but he doesn't take them everywhere. If we forget to put one in his bed, we hear him saying "UH OH" really loudly until we get it for him. So cute.