friend requests
By snam23
@snam23 (3157)
United States
November 9, 2008 5:47am CST
Do you accept all your friend requests or deny some? If you accept or deny, tell me why. I am just curious because mylot is very friendly and I think I have been accepted 100% of all my friend requests. What is your experience with friend requests on mylot?
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6 responses
@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
9 Nov 08
Normally I never deny anyone's friend requests! I go trough the profile of the person to see if there is anything which in general is not suitable for me in his/her profile!
If I find the profile OK, then I immidiately accept him/her as my friend!
For that matter I just approved you as my friend before posting this response !! What a coincidence!!
Approving others as friends is a healthier trend and it helps us to understand each other, as we have members spread all around the World in this forum! We can exchange the cultures, socialvalues,life styles and what not !
So it is always better to accept new friends and making this site or forum as a friendly one!
Thanks! Good topic of discussion! All the best and Happy Mylotting!
@snam23 (3157)
• United States
10 Nov 08
That is a very interesting criteria you have for picking your friends, but I feel it is appropriate and even necessary to do so. I have heard similar things and have been trying to get more friends here on mylot. I think that I even get more responses that way. Good luck to you also!
@snam23 (3157)
• United States
12 Nov 08
I was wondering how people would answer this simple yes or no answer and you did it exceptional well. As you can see, everyone else just said they see no reason to deny friend requests but no real reason why. You were specific and detailed and provided a complete answer. I thought you deserved it.
@slash23 (102)
• Philippines
9 Nov 08
Hi! I accept all friend requests 100%. I don't see any reason why i should deny someone who wants to be my friend. In fact, I feel flattered whenever I see friend requests. :) Also, I don't want to be a snob. Well, unless there are obvious reasons why I should deny(?). I'm a newbie here. Perhaps there are people here who had terrible experiences with their myLot "friends". This, I've got to read.... ;-)
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@snam23 (3157)
• United States
10 Nov 08
As I mentioned before, I also find now reason to reject friend requests. I may have to delete them later if they are spamming me, but I have not had to do that yet. Occasionally, my friends will PM me trusted sites, which I have already joined. I just kindly inform them that I have already joined. I do not think anyone has had a terrible experience with their mylot friends, at least I haven't heard of any.
@James72 (26790)
• Australia
12 Nov 08
I accept all friend requests that come my way and will not ever remove them unless they spam me with referral links, place banners in my friends comments section; or if they abuse me or my friends in any way. It is very rare for me to delete someone as a friend though! Once in a while I will also go through my friends list and remove people that I haven't seen or heard from in months but this too is done very rarely as well.
@snam23 (3157)
• United States
12 Nov 08
I will also occasionally delete inactive friends. However, I have found that at mylot, friends are used mostly for PM and things such as referral exchanges and we usually do not do anything annoying to our friends. This is why I think mylot has is such a wonderful community.
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@greensun11 (413)
• China
9 Nov 08
i always accept my friend request.hehe,if you want to earn more money by your opinion,you can go to www.greensun11.cn/englishlearning/earnmoneyonline
@dhedows118 (891)
• Philippines
9 Nov 08
I accept all friends request here in mylot. So I already have a lot of friends here. And I also reply most of the discussion they started.
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@chinna533 (309)
• India
12 Nov 08
Hi snam,yah i accept all my friends request here and i like to make more friends as much as possible. And i instead send friends request to each and every person in mylot every time when i login to mylot here.It is just accepting friends nothing cost for it.
I currently have 90 friends today in mylot and i like to add more..moreover i want to add you also to my friends account . You can accept or deny .... Happy mylotting:)
@snam23 (3157)
• United States
12 Nov 08
I have also been recently adding everyone I could after learning for other mylot members that having more friends could mean more responses, and such. I approved you as my friend and now we are friends! I have nothing against adding friends also. I have around 140 friends and want as many as possible. Happy mylotting!