To girls, which do you prefer? A rich husband, or a husband with great dreams?

i never thought of those qualities before... as long as i love the guy and treats me nice, whether he's rich, poor, handsome or not... as long as he's nice, i would be in-love with him...

nice discussion! personally i would prefer the man that fits the qualifications that i want like God-fearing, responsible, honest, good provider, with sense of humor to mention a few. if that man is rich then its a plus factor but if not it does not mean that i will not like him. being rich is not a measure if you will like the person or not. wealth will fade but good attitude will remain. besides if you marry poor guy or should i say not so rich guy, both of you as couple can help each other in order to earn enough for the family. only materialistic women will like man who are rich even if they dont like it. the question is they will be happy living with the person whom they do not love?

I prefer a husband with great dreams.Someone who knows how to wor toward that dream. I'm so glad I married the right guy. He may not be rich but he sure does know how to provide for us well. he has a dream and we, his family, are ALWAYS included in that dream. He works very hard to give us a comfortable life,sometime forgetting himself in the process. One day, our dream to be well off will come true Not filthy rich, just enough to sustain little extravagance we want in life.

i would prefer a man with money. not because i would really like the money (it would be nice though) i think a man who dreams a lot always have their heads in the clouds. they are never able to be serious about things and are always wanting more from their to the point they are never happy with what they have got.# this makes things hard to choose the normal everday things like the electricity supplier or who will fit the new double glazing. but also a man with loads of money may have trouble being down to earth. the differences is he would be able to afford his wild dreams! happy mylotting

i thing you should elaborate your quary.But from what i have understood from ur question i think i will marry a rich man. man with great dreams are many but there are a very few people who are able to make their dream come true. the person who is rich has already something which makes him different.

i had prefer a man with(1) the fear of God Almighty, that has a dream we 2 can both work 2 archeive it, and he is not just going to be rich but wealthy, becos as he fufills his dream God's blessing will be sure on him

how about a rich guy with great dream

i would choose neither man .because i would want a simple man who trieds his best to provide for his family it better to know that you worked hard to provide for your family.dream is not going to pay bills these are distance thoughts that may are may not come true.being rich change a person whole life money have a way of changing you, sure you don,t have to worry about bills but they also walk on a lot of people to get where they are going don,t care about no one most of the time but themselves and how they can make that next dollar.iam yet to meet a rich person that is not rude and snobbie.they say they are not but really they is everthing is about them

Hmmm...I prefer a hubby who accepts me the way I am and who always supports me and understands me. I prefer a hubby who makes me laugh and who brings out the best in me. I don't want a man with GREAT ambitions if it means that he'll be obsessed with work and getting rich and he'll be a workaholic. I want a hubby who has enough diligence to work well and to get a proper income (enough for daily living and for rainy days savings) but he still makes sure that his family comes first.

I'm gonna be honest and say that if I had an option I'd rather go with one that was rich. Dreams are great but sometimes it just doesn't work out. And no matter how you try to be supportive it just never will. If you were rich and financially set then you could go and pursue those dreams with probable greater ease. My dad is somewhat like that and my Mom has supported him for years but it just never works out. I think it's because he's too trusted with those he tries to work with. So she just kinda gave up on it. I did too but I don't let him know that. I still help him out with it because it makes him happy.

A guy with dreams alone rarely succeed in life,for example if some guy is dreaming about running a great business to become rich, he needs to stick to his motivations until he reaches his goals.My girlfriend always told me stop your day dreamings( which i did frequently). Just to tell that dreams should push our ambitions and make something real out of this dream. Dreaming alone turn a man into a dreamer and nothing else.

Aww,can't I have both?Just kidding,i am with a man who works very hard and pays the bills.I think we are very happy and i love him dearly.Although i have never been married,if we don't stick it out thouroghly thick and thin together,or if he leaves me,lol i may do things differently next time!But he has to have working mans hands for sure!!!!

I definitely prefer a guy with big dreams and also the ambition and determinatino to make those dreams come true. The journey is the best part and I want someone who wants to work with me to reach goals. I would feel really weird being with someone who just gave me money or whatever. I guess that could be nice, to never worry about bills or where your money is coming from but I think it makes the relationship grow when you have something to work towards together.

yes, there are so many girls like this around me, they didn't work hard by themself, instead of play and shopping everyday. they didn't play with the poor guys, but only play with the rich guys, they faith is to marry a rich guys, and move into a rich family, in order to do nothing everyday.

Personally, either will do. You have to couple either trait with other more important ones. Not all rich men are plain rich. They're usually something else as well, like smart, shallow, handsome, horrible, funny, kind, elitist, etc... Dreamers, on the other hand, can be very imaginative and romantic, so they're great too. Of course, they should have follow through regarding their dreams. They definitely shouldn't be afraid to work hard. I have great respect for a self-made man, but when women truly fall in love, it's more about the person's character than their bank account. That's why I say either will do.

It doesn't matter if he is rich or not as long as he is hardworking. But to response your discussion maybe that rich man already achieved his dreams while the dreamer still on the process of becoming rich.

I'm male,I'm not a rich man.But I think I have a great dreams , and I work hard to creat well-being.

Of course A HUSBAND WITH GREAT DREAMS. What will I do with a rich hubby if he doesn't know what he'll do with his life. And I can't take guys with no sense of responsibility, its like adding a burden to your life for real. And I don't want to suffer in the end. There are lots of rich men out there, known and famous for their hopelessness and disappointments in life. I rather marry a guy who might be poor but has the dream to aim high and be a good provider, protector for his family. ^^,

Well someone who can at least afford to get married, pay for rent or mortgage at the very least rent and provide an "okay" standard of living... that was what i was looking for. I lived in the city now i live in a village with my husband who sells electronics lol... he says its temporary but i dont care either way since we are living just fine. A man who is making a mediocre living has the possibility to be wealthy if he has a good head on his shoulders and has dreams that he aims to follow. But a rich man could have gotten his money from inheritance or just "born" into it and one bad investment can screw things up. Which is why i am going to be honest. Money to some extent DOES matter, but a good dream or goal is matters more.

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