Is there a second chance for failed marriage?

You just have to decide that you're going to work, and then find ways to bring the spice back into the relationship. I think that a lot of marriages die because one or both partners get bored, and they don't make any real effort to make those changes.

Most people comparing being married for more than 5 to 7 years as living with your brother or sister. I don't think that, that necessarily has to be true. You can keep the adventure in a marriage and the excitement, it just takes a little bit of work. Ask you better half out on a date. A real date, get dressed up, make reservation or plan something free. But going on a date will do wonders to engergizing a relationship again. One other thought, when is the last time you told your better that you "like him/her". I know saying I love you comes easy and happens all the time, but have you to him/her that you like them and enjoy their company. That can make a huge difference also.