your boobs are beautiful~

Malaysia
November 11, 2008 2:44pm CST
is wrong to praise someone beauty? strange, some girls dont mind, some like it, some just slap your face. is it wrong? maybe i just being tooo open-minded your thoughts?
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10 responses
• Philippines
12 Nov 08
If you have said this to me I would have given you dagger looks. I mean, I would not be flattered about it, and it will just make me uncomfortable.
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@tryxiness (4544)
• Philippines
13 Nov 08
It's not when the stare is like the person wants to eat you.
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• Malaysia
12 Nov 08
uncomfortable is the correct word, but hey, you should proud of that... hehe
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• Malaysia
13 Nov 08
hehe.... you are right!
@Nhey16 (2518)
• Philippines
13 Nov 08
if my husband would tell that to me, it's ok...but if it's other guys, it is impolite and very rude...
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• Malaysia
15 Nov 08
see... even you like compliment... all girls like compliment, kind deny it, so guys out out there, use correct words to praise their beauties
@Nhey16 (2518)
• Philippines
15 Nov 08
yeah, you're right, guys should know how to use proper words when giving compliments... :)
@Nhey16 (2518)
• Philippines
14 Nov 08
ohh yeah.. if the person looks scary... i would be frightened, but if it's Nicholas Cage...mmmm... that would be great...
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@ailema4ever (2668)
• Finland
11 Nov 08
Well, I think it's not a "common" praise to tell a girl, esp. if you've just met the girl. I grew up in Asia and for us, saying things like that is inappropriate, except if you're the husband or the closest female friends that want to encourage that girl about her boobs' beauty. I think if I were a girl and I don't know you well and you say that to me, I'd feel as if you judged me only through my physical beauty and I'd think that when you look at me, you only look at my "body". For some confident women, hearing those words may not be a problem. They'd really think you're genuine. But may for some others, they think it's an insult since they don't like their boobs or they think you're a pervert. I know you mean well by giving such a praise, but I've found that in life, even though you mean well, that doesn't mean the other person is going to accept it. I once praised a close friend and I TOTALLY meant it as a compliment, but she took it the other way around. I was SHOCKED!!! But what can I say? Everyone is different. All I can do is just try to explain to her about my intention, but if she doesn't believe me, then there's nothing else I can do. So we've just gotta accept that some people may be offended even though we mean well. Such is life!
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• China
12 Nov 08
Well, it depends. I mean, if a stranger just walk by and you can't shout out, wowo, your boobs are so besutiful, probably you will get a stare or slap. And, no, I will be happy, haha, it is a compliment of my body. I remember once I sent a photo to my bf when he was working abroad. I was in a white skirt which can show my cleavage and he said the exact words as yr discussion title. Generally, I will feel happy if praised like this, though I know inner beauty is more important. Why not be both, lol.
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• Malaysia
12 Nov 08
your respond is totally as i thinking right now... it's true, you mad because the way that guy said, but is actually something you have that others dont have... and when your love praise you... you know you can proud of yourself... double thumb for you!!!
• United States
12 Nov 08
Well it depends, if i know you and you compliment my boobs I wouldnt mind, it would sort of makes me wonder are you trying to hit on me? But if we never met and you've seen me for the first time and you tell me I have a nice boobs, I'd think you're weird,and a pervert. No offense
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• Malaysia
12 Nov 08
it's nothing just asking oppinion, see how is the reaction of women to this kind of situation...
• Philippines
14 Nov 08
It depends on how you deliver those words.. If you say it just to express your admiration well it's fine.. but if you say it with malice then definitely you will receive a slap on your face!
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• Malaysia
15 Nov 08
i just want to express my admiration, rather than have a look and admire by your ownself, better just be frank, but use correct words and nice approach
@cdparazo (5765)
• Philippines
25 Nov 08
It is too personal. I wouldn't feel comfortable either that somebody would comment on any of my body parts, let alone something as intimate as my boobs. I guess it is okey to admire but not to mention it. It just is. I may not slap your face and may actually like it but it would still make me so uncomfortable.
@ersmommy1 (12588)
• United States
11 Nov 08
My husband says complimenting someone in a rude and tasteless manner is not a compliment. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Inner beauty is to be prized as well. I believe most woman would find this statement insulting. If you want to think of someone is beautiful try viewing the person as a whole.
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• Malaysia
12 Nov 08
maybe it's insulting because it's against our custom of asian... maybe i too much watching western movies
@donna22 (1116)
11 Nov 08
Are you onlt referring to calling a womans boobs beautiful or her in general?
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• Malaysia
12 Nov 08
erm... just the boobs... hehe
@maxilimian (3099)
• Indonesia
13 Nov 08
slap his face and then said thank you it depends, if someone you know say it, that's will be ok, if a stranger talk to you , i'll run away from him, afraid you know ...
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