Can we trust a stranger in forums?

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@brisk123 (2823)
India
November 13, 2008 11:37pm CST
Hi friends, recently I saw a discussion in a forum related with exchanging money from Alert pay account to paypal account.A person is willing to pay $15 in alert pay for exchange of $10 to his paypal account.He was willing to transfer the money first too.I did responded to him since I need some funds in my alert pay account, now I am waiting for his reply.Do you think I should trust this stranger?
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6 responses
@nanajanet (4436)
• United States
14 Nov 08
What makes you think that you can trust a stranger? Don't be mad, but you are nuts if you do it!! No way!! Run, run, RUN!!
@nanajanet (4436)
• United States
14 Nov 08
Here is what I always follow.... If it seems too good to be true, it probably is!
@brisk123 (2823)
• India
14 Nov 08
$5 extra in exchange for $10 in paypal account is too good offer and I doubt whether he will pay me or not.
@brisk123 (2823)
• India
14 Nov 08
Hmm..mm I bet you are right,I better stay away from stranger but what if he is really willing to exchange money,just like me but lo!We cannot trust people thesedays.People scam.People cheat.They ran away with your money.Good day dear!
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@CJay77 (4438)
• Australia
14 Nov 08
HI brisk! You should at least be careful because you don't know this person! But reading through your post, the person said that he will transfer the money first, I guess wait till you see it in your account. But as for me, I don't think I will do trust someone that I don't know! Just be careful friend.
@brisk123 (2823)
• India
15 Nov 08
I appreciate your concern my friend.We need to be extra careful when dealing with strangers especially when it comes to money matters.
@kaka135 (14931)
• Malaysia
14 Nov 08
Well, it's really hard to say whether he's trustful or not. But for myself, I won't trust a stranger, especially it's related to money issue. You really gotta judge it by yourself, and evaluate if you have any loss if he cheats you. Good luck to you!
@brisk123 (2823)
• India
14 Nov 08
I absolutely agree with you.He says, he will transfer the money first to alert pay account then I can also transfer it to his paypal account once payment has been received.Do you think it is safe?I have never exchange money before with anybody so far when it comes to alert pay and paypal.Hope it works for me since I really need some funds in my alert pay account.
• United States
14 Nov 08
I'd be careful. I have no experience with Alert Pay, but I do know PayPal pretty well, and it is one thing for a payment to be pending, and one thing for the payment to have been transferred successfully. I would let him initiate the contact first, and tell him to send the money first, and I would WAIT for the money to clear and be put in to your account successfully (and if you can put Alert Pay money in your bank account, do that with his). Only then would I send the $10 in PayPal funds to him. I understand why the 'stranger' might want to do this - maybe AlertPay or PayPal isn't accepted in what he wants do to, etc. Just be careful, brisk.
@brisk123 (2823)
• India
14 Nov 08
This sounds like one good option to transact money with whoever this stranger is.I should ask him to transfer into my alert pay account first brfore I transfer money to him.Not so safe but still it is a better option.
@rosdimy (3926)
• Malaysia
14 Nov 08
Ideally you should have tried to find out more about this person. If he has nothing to hide then he would be prepared to expose more of himself. A check can be made through the Internet. In the past there have been people who lost money in this sort of transfer. Seeing that he offered to transfer the money first does not necessarily mean he is honest. A $5 advantage is so enticing and this was the main aim, a bait so he can collect your PayPal email address. I am not accusing him anything. It is just a possible scenario.
@brisk123 (2823)
• India
14 Nov 08
I know, this thing can happen to me too if this person is a cheat.$5 extra looks to good to be true.I appreciate your concern.
• United States
14 Nov 08
i think this varies as some people are honest adn some are not
@brisk123 (2823)
• India
14 Nov 08
Ya, this is why I thought of asking you all first even though I had responded to his discussion in the forum.Let's see whether he emails me back or not.Good day my friend!