Do you think women cheat less or are they better at covering their tracks ?
By ronnyb
@ronnyb (6113)
Jamaica
November 18, 2008 7:04pm CST
It is a commonly held view that women cheat less than men,ny freinds passionately beg to disagree.They believe that the meticulous nature of women has resulted in them having a more organized system of covering their tracks.My friends adamantly argue that women are also better liars ,they claim a woman can look at you lie and nver blink,a feat men are yet to master.In addition they say women are less likely to be caught because they have a system to remember the lies they tell so even in a 100 yrs they will remember the same story they tell.Men on the other hand often get caught in their system of lies if they are asked over and over again.
Another fact that points to their organization is the fact that they have a loyal network friends who will lie for them to the death .So it's needless to ask her friend ,Mary where she was this evening ,cause Mary will give you the same rehearsed answer a 100 times if she is asked.And if you ask Jane its the same thing ,they will never let each other down.
Correct me,so I can correct them but that is their view.
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12 responses
@AcousticSoul (1309)
• United States
19 Nov 08
I wouldn't say women cheat more or less then men because that is not a proven statistic but I will agree that women are more clever then men. I think women weigh their options and consider all consequences if they are going to use a person they will inform them so there are no confusion. men I think just do, we think before we cheat LOL. I for one have never done that but I know some women who thrive on doing it and usually its for a purpose. I think men do it because they need variety.
@Sheldon25 (193)
• Jamaica
19 Nov 08
Hello, My answer is Woman cheat less and they are also better cheaters. A woman will probably cheat with one person while the man would cheat with every woman he can get in bed with. So thats the reason i believe woman cheat less. When a man cheats if he continues his wife or girl friend will find out. But a woman can cheat and her Husband or any friend never finds out i guess its just natural.
@Bytemi (1553)
• United States
19 Nov 08
I think that cheating is a power issue. If you are the bread winner of a household whether you are male or female, you are more likely to cheat because what do you have to lose.
As a general rule woman are better liars, because they are more intune with emotions and have no problem with a pre-emptive strike. My now ex-husband told me one time to quit smoking or he was going to end the marriage. He was a smoker himself and never quit. Anyways I started the lie that continued for 2 years. Anytime I felt her might have figured out I was smoking I came up with something to cover my tracks and his response was always, yeah I was thinking about that.
For example, one of the guys that I worked with said he was going to call my house and tell my husband that I was smoking unless I did something for him. I said OK and went home and told my husband that it was amazing that people at work still think that I smoke just because I go and walk around the block instead of taking smoke breaks. He said that made sense. Next day, I went in and the guy "No" he said he was calling my husband and I said go ahead, he already know the "truth" and left it at that.
Woman are emotional creatures and sometimes emotions are a good thing. By the way I never got busted for smoking.
@dhedows118 (891)
• Philippines
19 Nov 08
That's your friends opinion and everyone has it's own opinion. Let's just respect your friends opinion. But in my opinion, women cheat less that men, since women are easily be contented on what they have and what they receive so they don't look for more.
@bestshoparena (17)
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19 Nov 08
I think women make the same mistakes as men, but perhaps with enough practice at telling lies then anyone can get away with cheating.
@walmart8820 (1)
• United States
19 Nov 08
I believe that women cheat just slightly less then men. There is a new study out somewhere that says that 40% of men cheat, while just over thirty percent of women cheat. Women are actually, obviously, better at covering up their tracks, but they cheat just as ofter as men do.
@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
19 Nov 08
...lol...I guess, it isn't about who cheats less or who is better in covering up his/her untold infidelities. It is best said that what a men can do, women can also do. Truly, not only men can lie about their whereabouts. Plus, more men are possibly be caught than women.
@warmweatherwoman (2233)
• Atlantic City, New Jersey
19 Nov 08
mmm sorry I cannot correct you because your friends are absolutely right about women having more sneaky, coniving ways about them. I also believe it to be true that a woman can lie right to your face and not even blink- and remember that lie for the years to come...lol....so true!!!
@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
19 Nov 08
hmmm men and women both are the same some men cheat some women cheat too... there is no such things as women cheat more, or men cheats more...
@joanne11386 (14)
• Philippines
19 Nov 08
I was actually smiling when I read this statements of yours about us women being genius when it comes to doing dirty tricks. Yes, a lot of us are doing this and I personally know some. She even gave me some tips but I don't wanna practice them. Funny but what you've said about women covering their tracks wisely is true. It's happening, everybody can see that. Although, of course, were not generalizing that all women do this.
HAppy mylotting!