exxtra marital affair!

hey doctor, i didn't expect this type of advice from you... how can you say that the lady is having any extra maritial affair, or are you sure that this affair develop after marriage. may be it was her past, and reappearing now... just like the movie (murder), unfaithfull. may be he is just another friend like you ar friend to her husband... take it in the right way... break off is not the only option, it is the last opion... resolve the matter wisely... and you can give him some good advise, don't take the blame of breaking a family... think wisely act accordingly... bye doctor..

I think he must confront her first. lets see what are her say. if he things he can be with her, then its ok.otherwise better to leave.

It all depends. Does he want her back? Does he still love her? Does she want to come back? But most likely, there should probably be a discussion before any step. If anything, it would answer all the questions I just asked.

Personally, I would never stay with a person who sleeps around. If you're married, then you have a responsibility to keep the committment that you made. If you don't want to do that, then get a divorce and sleep with whom ever you choose. That's how I see it.