can a girl and boy continue friendship after getting married to different people

i think this friendship can continue,because since they get married,so they should belive each other.so i think it cannot be a matter if you keep connection continue.

for maturity sake and for other might thinked about the two of you,you should minimize seing each other,maybe you can often see each other but with you family specially your wife around...

that would really depend on the situation. if you and your friend has been friends even before you met your husband then i think the husband will understand that you have been friends with this guy so he will surely understand unless something from the past is between the guy and your friend so the husband might feel bad about it. it is just a matter of trust in every relationship. btw, why don't you invite your friend and her husband over for dinner and invite the guy as well so that they will get acquainted and make the friendship bloom together with the husband. that would be fun but be careful that is if there was between the other guy and your frind before. hope this helps.

hi, this question can have a lot of answers to it. and i would appreciate that you have put forward a sensitive question here. by your name i can make out satish that you are an Indian, an my dear friend this kind of things like having a friend of yours who is a girl is not acceptable in our culture. but nowadays things are changing and you may find that even your friends husband might have a lot of other female friends. but as far as my thinking is concerned i don't feel that making friends with anybody is of any harm to you... its always otherwise said that a man who has 5 good friends even at the age of 40 lives 5years more than all others. so i would suggest that its always better to have good friends. but if her husband creates any kind of problem then i would suggest that you better back off cause a married life is more important than friendship and thats what i feel.

When you get married, there are changes. Your first most priority is how to keep the relationship till dealth. You must be open with your spouse, so he/she may give suggestion, comment and limitation. When you are still single, you must have good reputation, now that you are married, you must have good reputation not for yourself only but for your family as well. There's nothing wrong in making friends and keeping your friendship till you get marry. But you must have more bonding time with your family rather than your group of friends. If your friends are a girl and you are a boy or vice versa, you may consider to be extra careful.

It all depends on your surrounding culture. There will probably be jealousy in any outside mixed-gender relationship, but there's nothing you can really do about it. It may be an option to have her talk to her new husband and ask if he is ok with your friendship. Or you may even talk to him and tell him how she is one of your best friends and you in no way mean to undermine him or steal her away. And you have to hope that he is understanding.

Well i think you should talk to Ur friends husband...and clarify ur relation,so that he may not misunderstand you at any point. and you should tell'em that you both are very good friends.. and rest you should leave it to her husband.. its on him to decide..

I don't see it as a problem. What you can do is talk with her and see if she want to continue the friendship with you. Maybe her husband does not know about you and she wants to keep it that way. It best to consult with her.

we usually think like this but sometimes it is right and sometimes wrong. i had been a mechanical engineer and i studied only among guys and i had many boys as my friends and even i use to call them home on any occasion and they had even comedown to my marriage and now also i speak to them and we are very good friends and my husband doesnt mind. first i was having this tension in my mind when i use to speak to any of the friends who are guys and i will never lie to my husband and i tell him whom i was speaking too and he is a fellow with positive thinking and he understands it and i dont have a problem. but few guys are not like my husband and they may doubt their wives if they speak to any guys and might be it can happen to your friend also so better wait till she calls you and speak to you. for me even now i dont feel like to speaking to guys as i dont want to give a chance to my husband to think bad about me. and i can also understand that how particular and possessive the spouse might be and we can just put ourself in their place to understand this better.

i look at it like this a friend will always be there a husband or wife may not be . trust me my first husband is gone but my friends are still there!

Of course you can still be friends. There has to be boundries though. You have to let her know how you feel and let her know that you will be there for her no matter what. I think that you should possibly talk with her husband also, to let him know that you will always be friends with her and that she will always be in your life in a loving and caring relationship.

it is better to leave your friend alone. since she had entered a different relation with other person . if you want her to be happy leave her alone

im sorry mate but i feel that her husband myt not lyk it. I can understand that she is married. The thing is you need to keep distance with them. Maybe you can get to know he husband. Does he know you well enough? has she told him abt ur friend ship?

i say dont give up the friendship. a true love will see and understand what a friendship looks like. all i say is be careful not to fall into the wrong direction.

Why not? if you were just good friends you can still continue as such and i am sure her husband won`t mind if everything is aboveboard.Make friends with her husband too and let him see that there is nothing to worry about. I have quite a few friends and we still continue our friendship even after their marriages and my relationship with their husbands is excellent.If i have to meet my friends i always make it a point to meet them when their husbands are around and if i invite them then they come with their husbands.If your friend`s husband is of the jealous type then get on his good side and if he still does not like it then tell your friend that for her sake and her marriage sake it is better not to see each other.

i think the friendship can be continued.but maybe having the longer distance in the friendship than before.in my life,one of my guy friends married,he introduced me to his wife,and then his wife and me are become new good friends.and he and me is still good friends,just have a little distance,not have too close as before.so,in my opinion,keep distance when he or she married,then we still good friends.

ya of course they an continue their friendship. but this friendship should not affect her life. in that way they should have the relationship. if her husband wont like your friendship its better to avoid her. sorry to say this. but if u avoid her they will lead a nice life. but if u have contact with her, your frinds life wil be in trouble. if her husband wont mistook your relationship and he is also a nice guy, then u can continue your friendship.

why not? her husband don't believe that her wife just in love with him? his attitude is weird, doesn't he has girlfriend too(just friend). does he? I think it's okay that we are still keep our best friends after we get married

Try planning activities together including her husband. If things dont work out and if you really think her husband is unconfortable with your relationship with her, is better to leave them alone, which I guess is what your friend would like you to do, after all she married him rather than you.

Hello friend! Friendship is there forever if there's trust. If you both so good in sharing your feelings and emotions, then why bother about our future bonding? After all, a new man has come in to share her life. You must only feel happy for it, dear. And yes, there's always a way to nurture your friendship if you could befriend the new person. And that would be beautiful - to share happiness with them, as theirs with you. One shouldn't simply restrict to one person if he joys to share with the world. So, you be open to life, to go beyond limitations and reach for the new people. Life is great when we share our minds and hearts with others. There's nothing wrong in your continuing friendship with the lady, and there's nothing to worry about if the lady's man has any objection to it. Because, i can understand about the status of the Indian society - which is still reserved when it comes to post-marriage relationships/friendships. All in our hands, friend - if we could establish trust, then that is bound to prove our strength to understand life in relationships. I really wish for it to happen to you if you exercise your intelligence or purity of mind to bring that change, here. Be free! So, here we go... I wish you well. Love.