Relationship: Choice or Destiny?

i think its a choice. because you are the ones who are making decisions in how you relationship would end up. in my case i chose to fall inlove with my husband for my own personal reasons not because of anything else. but i'm happy with the choice i made. so i really believe that relationship is a choice not destiny.

For my relationship I think it is a bit of destiny and a whole lot of choice. We met 12 years ago while I was on a holiday. After only a month together I moved myself 2000 kms away from my family to be with him. That I think was something "meant to be" but then we didn't really have the happily ever after as live is real with work finances and kids. We went through a lot of hard times, but we always choose to be together and make it work. We are very my happy together and I still get butterflies but there is also the choice to make this relationship work.

i'd have to say fate, but at the same time it also choice. i've been with my partner for 7.5 yrs now, but it's been getting tougher over the last few with him having metal problems, then he took the break up of of his bro and sister inlaw bad due to how they broke up. it's taking it's toll, and life's being made hard for all of us. i have been told that it seems like we are ment to be but i a having my douts on that. we have to learn things through life before we can move on. and find who is our match. i do have a choice one as well. it was only when i was a lot younger, i could have paired up with a bloke that was over 10 yrs older than me but he said no in the end cause his neice was the same age as me, and his morals came in to it.

Fate & Destiny I would say. Choice will not be the answer. Sometimes a love relationship started without any reason. Some relationship does started as an enemy. I always believe in Fate & Destiny. It is fate bring a relationship closer and it will always depends on destiny to maintain the relationship.

I think it's choice because the two of you may have met by chance but both of you became friends by choice, became lovers by choice and if the both of you stayed together for life it is because you have chosen to do so.

It has got to do with destiny.To us it appears like choice at the time of making the decision, however. The more you live it you will accept to yourself if not for anyone else that it is is all destiny.Some times you choose a person.The person responds bur due to some other social reasons it just cannot happen(esp.in India).

i think people meet because they are destined to meet. but choosing to get to know that person better or choosing to ignore him/her is a choice. this is also the same for friendships. it is our choice to keep that person in our life.