What Is Something You WON'T Tolerate In a Relationship?

Hello, Miraclefreebies! There are something that really are unacceptable in a relationship. I really dislike when somebody starts saying they know it all. Something bad happens to you, and you are sad, and then your friend comes and say: "I already knew it was going to happen.". What in the ...!!! If he knew, why didn't he warn me? Why didn't he help me? This really gets me on my nerves. You are there, all excited, to enter the final match of the soccer championship in your school. You start playing, you play with all your heart, and then you lose. And then this friend comes and say: "I already knew you would lose". Damn, where are the supporting friends? Friends that will only push you down are not friends. Respectfully, Munhozmib.

I won't tolerate violence ,heavy drinking and being put down all the time or being taken for granted.As my husband does none of these except may be he does take me for granted then I do him as well sometimes,and of course being unfaithful is something I don't think I could get over.

I think that I couldn't tolerate manipulation in any form. (I consider violence a form of manipulation). I have dealt with it in some friendship relationships and it is so tiresome and disrespectful. If you can't accept who I am and how I live don't be a friend with me.... I can accept that, but don't pretend to be in need for attention, or control situations so that the outcome is in your favor. Be a stand up person, say what you need and want and deal with it when we disagree. Phew..... thanks, miraclefreebies, I needed that.

Abuse is at the top of the list for certain. Once we pass that, infidelity. It is cheating and lying rolled into one. That can permanently destroy trust. And end a relationship.

Cheating and any kind of verbal or physical abuse. I will never ever trust a man who have cheated before. Once done, they already have a record, in my opinion. And abuse, I will never let anyone do that to me or any loved ones.

its cheating cheating and cheating...

Verbal or physcial abuse. And there are no second chances for physical abuse. He hits me once, I'm outta there. I'm not going to be one of the people who constantly think that person will change, and that it will only happen that one time. As for verbal abuse...I'll give him a break. One time is bad, two times and I'm not coming back for more.

Something that i will not tolerate in a relationship is mental or physical violence. No one should have to be anyone's punchbag or have to put up with being constantly put down all the time. I also would not tolerate cheating as i have seen first hand how hurtful it can be.

Violence is definitely something I won't tolerate. But neither will I tolerate hatred of any kind, dishonesty or lying, or even unkind behaviors. It's never right to laugh at someone. It's never right to lie, or cheat or steal.

I will not tolerate any sort of violence in a relationship, that means physical or verbal abuse. If our disagreements can not be settled verbally, putting your hands on me will not solve it either. I am not tolerate of excessive drinking. I do not drink, I do not deny others to drink if they do, but getting drunk is not tolerated in my relationships. Cheating as well is a biggg NO NO.

I agree with you. No beating, hitting, kicking, and so on. When the woman says no then it means "NO". If anything after that occurs then it has become a crime. It doesn't matter if you're married or not. Cheating on each other is a big no no also. There is nothing wrong with looking, after all, we are only human. One can look but don't even dare to try it on.

I am a very trusting person. I try to see the good in everyone. The deal breaker for me is lying. It doesn't matter if the lie is big or small or what the reason for it is. If I ask you if my behind looks big in these pants I'm not fishing for compliments, it's because I really want to know the answer. And if you will lie to me because you think it will spare my feelings I have to think you'll lie about more important things as well.

Hey what you wrote there is true. I will not tolerate violence either. There are 2 more things that I won't tolerate in a relationship and that's irrational jealousy and dishonesty.

Two things I definitely will not stand for are violence and cheating. I had been with someone for about a year until I found out he had cheated with the mother of his son, and stupidly I gave him another chance, and yet I found out afterwards he had cheated on me with her almost the entire time we were together. It's not a situation I care to ever happen again.

cheating and lying i can not deal with.sleeping with a family member oh no and iam not going to deal with a man whipping my behind iam just not going to stay with a man under these conditions period.

I agree, I wouldn't tolerate violence either. I've been in violent relationships before, but that was along time ago. Now I have a son and I don't want him to be hurt, or to witness violence in his home. I want to make sure that he has a safe and loving sanctuary, because the world outside the home is violent and crazy enough. I also wouldn't tolerate a marriage where verbal abuse was common. I think that is sometimes worse then physical abuse.

I definately would not tolerate any type of abuse,physical or mental. or cheating,,once a cheater always a cheater. and once a beater always a beater.

If she ever cheat on me once I'm done with her,simple as that.

violence and cheating, I might forgive someone for cheating once, I believe in second chances, but if they cheat again IT IS OVER!! Violence I would not tolerate

Things I won't tolerate in a relationship is lying. If you feel like you have to lie to the other person than you don't need to be in that relationship in the first place.Tell the truth. If they love you, they can handle it. If not then, you can't and don't need to be together any way.Especially when you have been together for several years there is no reason to feel like you have to lie.