Love or Infatuation?? How do u find out??
By daring_diosa
@daring_diosa (120)
India
December 8, 2008 9:10am CST
Hey ppl.. Can anyone explain to me how one can differentiate between true love and just infatuation????
5 responses
@Chocobear (86)
• United States
13 Dec 08
You find out after you two have "the horizontal bop" with that person. If you can't wait to leave, then it was just lust or infatuation, a temporary thing. But, if you wake up and feel the need to cook them breakfast then it's deeper...
@daring_diosa (120)
• India
14 Dec 08
This is not fair!!! Just to find out if its infatuation or true luv, u want me to have dat "Horizontal bop"?????????
@vddclan (49)
• Philippines
9 Dec 08
Although love is a gradual thing, but when you come to a point in your life that you decided to love the person you're with for the rest of your life and loving him/her in spite of his/her weaknesses. That is True Love in my opinion. And infatuation is simply the opposite.
@daring_diosa (120)
• India
9 Dec 08
Ya i agree wit dat!!! True luv is a wonderful feeling where u accept the other person as they are!!! U feel that person is ur whole world and u r ready to sacrifice anything for that person....
@dreamleaper17 (702)
• Philippines
8 Dec 08
true love lasts beyond forever and the definition of it is found in1 Corinthians 13.. infatuation is something that is temporary..
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@daring_diosa (120)
• India
8 Dec 08
Thanx for posting... but wat s dat corinthians??? i don get it...
@chennai_b07 (640)
• India
8 Dec 08
The students love in the stage of
- 10th standard
- Higher secondary
- most of the college students..
are litraly called as "Infactuations" becasue this decision has been taken without having full of maturity..
AT this they stage they have not commitments, so, at this stages, if they fall in love with the other gender is purely based on the attractions.. this you can not called it as the "LOVE"
Once you grown up, after understanding that what is your commitment?? who are you?? what is your life?? etc.. etc.. if the love will blossems after this stage is called the real love.
Or if you enter into the employment, and if you are able to run the family with your earnings, and whether your employment is security for your lifetime, and more over, if you have been send out from this particular employment, whether you have a capability to get the job with in a month time, and also, incase if you didn't get the suitable job for the couple of months or more, do you have a saving to survive in these period without asking the support from your parents or any one..
Think about the same, if the "LOVE" will blossems, then you can call it the same as real "LOVE" in this present admosphire..
Hope you can understand the same..now..
Have a good day.
@daring_diosa (120)
• India
9 Dec 08
Ya i can get wat u r tryin to say... But there are some ppl who understand about dat commitment during school or college days itself rite?? So guess it depends on the maturity of the person and not his age!!!
@Kirupagaran (9)
• India
25 Apr 09
The difference between a Luv and infactuation can be found when the lover is away from the loved ones for reasonably a long time and even after a long gap if the lover gives the loved ones the luv greater than what it was, it's actually a real luv.
This may go wrong under some circumstances, but i think this is the best solution.
All these are my own ideas and its not a proven ones. He he he... :)
