Y do luv marriages fail??

both forget that they love each other as they become selfish.

I would only marry for love. yes, some marriages fail. the only reason that as many non love marriages fail is that they are in societies where there is no way out of marriage, no matter how unloving, and in some cases no matter how abusive. it is. when you TRULY love someone, and have the dedication to work hard at the relationship, then it can work forever. you say a love marriage is happy for a few days. no. more than a few days. I have been with my partner for nearly a decade now, and we are still happy together. there is no reason why a wedding would change that. I cannot see a point in my future where we could be apart. love marriage is not about the first rush of love, it's about the comfortable, long lasting love that you have after that first rush. it's about being best friends for the rest of your lives.

love marriage in our country is not successful bcoz people who falls in love forget everything happening in the real world. they think whatever they r doing is the best... basically love marriage takes place without their parent's permission... in the beginning it looks nice.. but the clash among the couples occurs when there comes financial problem... also if the person is not doing any job then who will help them out... these r some of the reason....

I think when you move in together, you always see each other then you start not missing each other. I have the same problem. sometimes it makes me wanna give up but I just think of the stuffs that made me fall head over hills, sometimes it makes me frustrated because I miss that about him. But since we have kids already I guess just being bored is not enough reason to let it all fail. If you don't have kids then you can freely ask him on a date sometimes, don't wait for him to make the moves. Why not try to sleep over your parents or some friends house to make him miss you a bit. hope you'll find something to keep the spark burning. I posted discussion similar to this too. i titled it "love but not in love,how do you keep the fire burning" hehe.

I think there is lack of well understanding which becomes the cause of love marriages. it is not only love marriage but any kind of relationship which stands on well understanding, trust & love.

I think the love comes to an end when there s actually a untold secrets between the two. One fine morning when the other comes to know abt it, the mind actually corlates all those small things with that and then the whole reln gets blowed up.