missparanoia

@missparanoia (85)

Philippines • Age 39

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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how much do you give to the carolers?

missparanoia @missparanoia (85) • Philippines 23 Dec 08

There was a girl who handed us a letter this morning that says they are coming tonight for a caroling, and so they did. I know my 3 year old son would be excited to see carolers and sing along with them so while he's singing with...

carolers

christmas

giving

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Is true love a justification for having an illegitimate relationship? Honestly

pulangpluma @pulangpluma (334) • Philippines 18 Dec 08

Can you say that you have the right to be happy in a relationship with a married man who says he loves you deeply and more than his present wife? Can you justify your right to be happy and continue with the affair? Should you be...

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missparanoia hi there redplum, I feel you, I was in the same dilemma as you are now. let me just tell you few things his mom told me. She said we could have met for some other reason and not to lure him to this mistake, maybe I'm supposed to bring him closer to God. She...

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should i move on?

lonely_f16 @lonely_f16 (2146) • Philippines 19 Dec 08

actually, i'm planning to do this because my classmate (the one i told you before) who i like has someone who likes him. It was really obvious last Christmas party because the girl really was very happy and etc. She was the one...

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missparanoia I really wish I could advise you on this but I really don't know what else is going on. if you only know if he feels the same way or if there's any possibility for the two of you because if you know that he doesn't feel the same for you then I would advise you...

19 Dec 08

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I'm now a full-pledge MOMMY!

maple_kisses @maple_kisses (2156) • Philippines 18 Dec 08

[i]Hi mylot friends! I'm back from my Cesarean Operation Oh God! I was already thinking motherhood is a very special club, I just didn't expect it will be this special. I can't find the words to describe...

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missparanoia Hey there! congrats! and woah your baby sure is heavy. I felt the same with my baby when they were born although I must admit I had this so called postpartum depression. They were both cesarean 7.7 and 7.1 lbs . we'll, there's more surprises from your baby and...

19 Dec 08

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A Class Where You Learned Absolutely Nothing

grumpybear @ShortyAkbar (384) • United States 18 Dec 08

Since I started college, I have had some of the worst teachers ever. With the exception of one of my math teachers, none of the teachers I had actually taught. They just talked about their personal lives or other unrelated topics...

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missparanoia I had the same dilemma third trimester last year, even worst he's so boring and is stuttering. He's my instructor in CS, he may know computer but he doesn't know how to share that knowledge and he definitely don't give a damn if you get what he's talking...

19 Dec 08

When you love him/her, but he/she doesn't love you,what do you expect?

n30wing @n30wing (4767) • Philippines 19 Dec 08

I don't expect anything, cause when you love someone you don't ask anything in return. It's enough that I love her, showing that I am always around her,that she can always count on me.Maybe someday, somehow she could learn to love...

love

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missparanoia Well just like what you've said I wont expect anything specially because he don't love me back but possibilities are he'll fall in love with me in the future, he'll definitely miss me when I'm gone, we could be friends but worst comes he'll get irritated we...

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If you win a big fortune what would you do with it?

mimpi @mimpi1911 (25464) • India 19 Dec 08

I just heard about a couple who donated a huge sum that they had won in a summer lottery camp to a NGO that they share their thoughts for. I really appreciate, specially when they do not kind of live a decent living! Had we...

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missparanoia If I received or won any amount first of all as much as I would like to help a lot of people I would like to first help the ones dearest and closest to me. First I would like to secure my kids future or at least get them an educational plan till college and...

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I wish I could go clothes shopping

dazegoby @dazegoby (72) • United States 19 Dec 08

I seriously need to go clothes shopping. I hate to say this, but it has been several years since I could afford to but any new clothes. Other than the thrift stores, All of my wardrobe is at least two years old. Oh Santa, can I...

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missparanoia I wish santa could list that down for you, if you've been a good boy that is. LOL. I wish I could go shopping to but my shopping dilemma wasn't as long as yours. In our country we have a lot of good second hand clothings for sale and cheap rtw (brand new)....

19 Dec 08

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suicidal tendencies

missparanoia @missparanoia (85) • Philippines 13 Dec 08

my mom and I were talking the other day. She felt very low and pitied her self that she wasn't a good role model to us, that we were poor and she can't do anything about it, that she felt my brothers don't need him anymore, her...

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missparanoia thanks for your advice. I will keep that in mind. I know me and my brothers will always be here for her whatever her shortcomings are, and I told her that. Thanks again

17 Dec 08

Do you know how to swim?

vanonas @vanonas (949) • United States 15 Dec 08

I'm so sad to say that I never learned! My dad knows how because he's in the navy, but my mom doesn't know how to either. I tried to learn, but it's harder now that I'm older because of knowing about drowning and things like that....

navy

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missparanoia I'm so happy to know that I not the only one on earth who doesn't know how to swim, or should we say I'm scared of swimming in deep areas. I think I can swim a little bit, when I try to swim in shallow areas I found my self to have moved from my point of...

16 Dec 08

where did your personality come from?

missparanoia @missparanoia (85) • Philippines 16 Dec 08

where personality come from is still a big issue today for psychologist. Personality may be genetic, social learning, physiological and more. The problem is human beings are complex organisms and a person may think differently...

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Would you accept a friend request from a Newbie?

Ysabel @Ysabel (1201) • Philippines 16 Dec 08

Or would you rather require that this newbie has a certain number of posts first, like a 100 posts perhaps, before you accept a friend request? I can sense from other mylotters that they would prefer those with 500 or more...

friends request

mylot

newbie

reject friends request

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missparanoia I'd accept friend request from a newbie. I'm a newbie my self. if you'll send me friend request I'll be glad to be your mylot friend. Birds of the same feather! hehe!I'd rather have newbie friends in that case we can relate and we can grow on my lot together...

16 Dec 08

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abortion

missparanoia @missparanoia (85) • Philippines 14 Dec 08

I had the chance to talk to my mom yesterday after lunch while were still on the table we've been talking about her life when she was abroad. I told her "I heard a lot of stuff about you when you were away" and asked if it's true...

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missparanoia I agree with those type of abortion they seem to be more logical. I guess reality hits them during those times that having a child is not as easy at it seems, I guess that's why my father immediately thought of abortion, he doesn't even have a stable job and...

15 Dec 08

abortion

missparanoia @missparanoia (85) • Philippines 14 Dec 08

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missparanoia Yes I agree we can only advice, decisions always up to the person. I only felt sorry for the child. I do hope she learned from this experience and take precautions instead, they can do family planning if they are scared to have a child at the moment right?...

15 Dec 08