When you love him/her, but he/she doesn't love you,what do you expect?

@n30wing (4767)
Philippines
December 19, 2008 2:36am CST
I don't expect anything, cause when you love someone you don't ask anything in return. It's enough that I love her, showing that I am always around her,that she can always count on me.Maybe someday, somehow she could learn to love me too. Who knows! Have a nice evening to all of you!
1 person likes this
5 responses
@Jhordie (5115)
• Philippines
20 Dec 08
We shouldn't be expecting ANYTHING... as they say... I must quote mone of my discussion here... hope it would answer your question. Here we go... LOVE at your OWN RISK! (title) Love is like a gambling... where you might end up with NOTHING or end up with EVERYTHING! It's not a matter of how much love you've lost... but rather how much love you've SHARED that makes the experience of loving worthy of being called true love. Last thing that we should remember: We will not end up as a loser for the one that truly lost is THEM, who lost someone who loves them so. I hope my point was clear... Great discussion my friend... I CAN REALLY RELATE to it... UGHH
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
22 Dec 08
Your right my friend! What is important is showing your love, sharing it, it comes from the heart.God knows what I feel for her. I love her so much! I know that I am not perfect, I am just human. What comes now is just seeing her happy, making her smiles. Making her feel love. In time I guess! God will show her the way! Keep on smiling my friend! God bless us all! Merry Christmas brow!
1 person likes this
@Jhordie (5115)
• Philippines
22 Dec 08
I believe that YOU TWO will last for AS LONG AS YOU TWO LIVE! I will always pray for that... :) Thanks again bro for appreciating my responses on your discussion. You never fail to put a smile on my face...THATS FOR SURE! Thanks again and take care coz your friend Jhordie cares for you. :)
@Kumaresan (450)
• Malaysia
19 Dec 08
hello there... well, i also agree on what you've said... you show your love towards the people you care and don't expect anything in return from them... i also can do the same but sometimes, i think they really need to give us something... like appreciate our kindness and our love towards them right? most of the people won't appreciate the things we do to them and we will hurt about this... appreciation is really important...
• Tunisia
19 Dec 08
well i dont know just i'll try to be nice..and wait for the result
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
22 Dec 08
Well I think when you do something, it's voluntarily it comes from the heart. But if she doesn't see my efforts, my kindness, it's just fine with me. If she can't learn to appreciate, well for sure when I am not around she will miss me, and realize my value. Have a nice day to you! Merry Christmas!
• Philippines
19 Dec 08
Well just like what you've said I wont expect anything specially because he don't love me back but possibilities are he'll fall in love with me in the future, he'll definitely miss me when I'm gone, we could be friends but worst comes he'll get irritated we wont be friends or anything at all, he might use me for his own desires and spread words about me.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
22 Dec 08
Well I can't expect more, still I can show her that I love her, or just being there around her is enough for me. To see her happy is my happiness too. I don't wanna conclude, if it's gonna be us it will just happen. Well we just sometimes realized that we love the person, when he/she is not there anymore. Who knows what will happen next! Anyway keep on smiling! Have a nice day to you!
• Philippines
19 Dec 08
If you love her but she does not love. Oh men, you will be BUSTED.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
22 Dec 08
I don't care being busted. As long as I've shown her my love. I am not asking any return, what is important, I was there being with her. I can still be a true friend and would like to see her being happy, her happiness is my happiness! Have a great day! God bless! Keep on smiling!
• United States
19 Dec 08
Well if I were to love her and she not love me back... I would also expect nothing, but maybe atleast a friendship. Although we cannot be together, we can be there for each other.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
22 Dec 08
You've said it right! If she can't love me,and at least the friendship will work out fine for both of us. Her happiness is my happiness also! Have a great day! Merry Christmas! Keep on smiling!