do you think love will enough for us to live?
By jha2x_09
@jha2x_09 (74)
Philippines
December 9, 2008 5:52pm CST
Others told me that for as long as you love each other no matter how hard is the situation,you can both survive if you love each other,but how can you live if the situation is,your living together as husband and wife but you dont have enough money, and you cant afford to live on your own, and still depending on your in laws. Did money can separate lovers???
2 responses
@ladynetz (968)
• Canada
9 Dec 08
Oh dear...living with the in-laws can be very stresfull.
It almost destroyed my marriage.And we never lived with them, but they came to visit very often and called every day.
We fought, but then when it came to "me or them", I was the winner.
And we came up to a plan how to "fight back" together.
When the in-laws see that you are one in everything you do, they have nothing to do and will let you be.
Takes time, perseverance and yes, love.
@spalladino (17891)
• United States
9 Dec 08
Financial stress is the number one reason why most marriages fail. No matter how much you love someone, not having enough money to make ends meet causes stress and frustration which leads to short tempers and fights. The best thing to do is to have a career and be in good shape financially before you get married but, if you're already married, then come up with a goal for your future as far as a good job and work hard towards reaching it.
