college life

India
December 21, 2008 3:28am CST
iam a medical student ,and iam studying 2nd year.iam not enjoying my college life like others do,such as making girlfriends and enjoying with them.our college is very strict.i am spending life with my friends.guys is it necessary to have a girl friend in our college life.?
6 responses
• China
30 Mar 09
try to make sure you are ready to have a gf,if just for the reason that you feel lonely,it can be a burden
@coolcat123 (4387)
• India
29 Dec 08
Its not at all necessary to do all these cool things to show off your self like others do.Make your own personality and dont copy others.You should be different from them and you can proove this best in your exams.
@mz_Ira (1090)
• Philippines
22 Dec 08
well i may not be guy but I just think, college is the time that you are free to do things. The exciting period of your life. They say go and enjoy now that you are still young. The teachers do not need to monitor you that you have to come to school and do you homework. College is strict because they have their standards that students have to follow as well. For example, my college is strict as well I mean our department. Im a nursing student and our Department is strict will everything,. They tend to have high standard and as a student I have to pass all the requirements for me to go to the next level. So even If I have a boyfriend-- we do go out, enjoy our time.. I have to make sure my studies wont be affected and same as to you. Your college do not interfere you to enjoy your college life as long as you will pass their standards ^_^... Hope I answered some of your thoughts in mind...
@swtpareek (650)
• United States
26 Dec 08
Well I am a girl but I can just say that it is not necessary to have a girl friend as soon as you enter in the college. Just because all your friends have girl-friends doesn't mean you ought to have one too. You look at it from this point na that you are free from all the tensions viz break-ups and all the fights. And till you dont REALLY like a girl you shouldn't propose her to be your girl friend. I don't think it is a necessity to have a girl-friend!
• China
26 Dec 08
i don't agree with you.i'm enjoyed my college life,it filled with happy.there was four person in our dormitory nobody have boyfriend untill graduate.we went to class,shopping,going out together all the time.these time filled with laugh.
• China
26 Dec 08
good luck to you!