After 2 weeks... SHE DID IT AGAIN!

i think u need to see the context in which the messages were sent to you. First, are you single now or attached? Is she single or attached? If you are attached and she knew about it then i think she is up to no good and is trying to find create some problem into your current relationship. However, if u are not attached at the moment and she is not too, then she is for sure trying to initiate a patch up with you. If she is attached and still send this to you then i suggest u avoid her if u have no feelings at all cos she is not a reliable woman and her emotional and expression of love can change any moment.

Text back to her with a simple... "thank you"... and be done with it. it's not hurtful and yet she KNOWS that you got her text. simple!

hello Jhordie, Just because she texted means she likes you to be back to him. It's Christmas time, so she texted everyone that she love, and love once. In my own opinion, it's just okey to text her back and greet her. Anyway, it's Christmas time so, share your love to everyone. You don't need to add any other words. You were both hurt. Maybe, you're not really meant for each other. But you can't ignore her text. Just be a man.

It seems that i missed this discussion that is older than the other one where you said she tried to contact you on new year's eve. Anyway, i hope you closed this chapter already as the new year has already begun. Hope you have started the new chapter called life in this year and you left all those behind you. Take care Jhordie and stay at ease, the right one for you will come soon !

If you don't have any feelings for her no more then I suggest to just ignore the text for a while and after a few days or so just send her a friendly quote or something. Just so she wouldn't get the impression that there is still a chance for both of you to be back together...

I think it's best to just let it be and not say anything. It's better off that way, at least there won't be a chance to open up anything that might end up hurting someone. She should know that it's about time to let go. Maybe soon enough she will. Goodluck bro.

Do not reply, or tell her, "It's over!" What else can we tell you?

It sounds like she wants to get back together. If you do not, either ignore the text message or reply with a simple "you take care too". This would not be mean and not give her false ideas on getting back together on your part. I think it is nice that you don't want to hurt her feelings. Just be careful! And happy new year to you!

" I miss you . Take Care." B*llsh*t! I don't believe a single word she says.I am so glad you don't miss her so this should be easy,Just Ignore Her. She had her chance to be with you and it is over.Take care. Talk to you later.

My dad had been dating this woman on and off for months. recently he broke it off and she refused to accept it. She asked to come back and he said NO! Then she proceeded to tell him that they were through. She is still texting him! To me (and him), it seems a little crazy. He is at the point of changing his number. He has yet to call or text her back. Eventually, when she finds someone else, she will leave him alone. So my question to you is do you want your ex back or not? If the answer is no... then the above example is what will happen (more than likey). If you do, call them and see where it goes. If you are not sure, then don't call and think about it. There isnt any hurry!

I wouldn't text her back. It might be leading her on if she still wants you. Sometimes people have a hard time letting go and by letting it continue sometimes it just makes it worse.It hurts them more to because they think they still might have a chance with you. It may take some time but if your done let it be done. It will be easier for her to in the long run. She'll know there's no chance with you and move on with her life.One day you might be friends again but for now it may be best not to be.

Hi jhordie, Sorry to kind of bulge in, but why dont you actually try to make up? May LOVE WIN this Christmas season !!!

Maybe it's because this is close to Christmas. She wants to send message to everyone on her list. So she send a bless or something close to that. If you guy broke up already. How possible you don't know how to react on this. Maybe you can just type in" happy holidays" ...right? it's just that simple.

do u love her?mabye she just make full of u man:(

I would say to just leave it. Don't respond she needs to get the idea that the relationship is over. I have an ex who keeps calling me even though he was the one who ended it and wants ME to move on. I don't call him back or send him messages because I have moved on.

Totoy, if your ex really didn't want to bother with you she would stop texting you. I'll bet she does not have new boyfriend right now, if she did she would leave you alone, appears that she wants to hold on to you so if she doesn't find someone new and exciting she can always get back together with you. I would remove my voice off my cell phone's voice mail so she thinks the number is not yours anymore and I would stop answering all her messages. She cut it off with you, she should be respecting your feelings and not toy with you. I can understand her texting you if YOU broke it off with her but she is playing you. Force her to respect you and your feeling, your feelings are important too you know!

can't you block any texting from her? I mean she is your ex, right? she is in the past, why not just block anything incoming from her number totally? if you still want to hear from us well I guess you got it then you can say "i don't miss you, but take care anyway" you still hope things are ok with her but she doesn't mean that much to you anymore it's the truth and it's still a wish well good combo, don't you think?

Hello there! It is hard to deal with people after you have a broken relationship with them. When I broke up with my girlfriend, I told her that this was the best choice I could make, because I didn't want to keep her trapped in an illusion. I told her I did not love her anymore, and that it is not fair for her to be with me even when I am not loving her. I would just be keeping her locked in an empty relationship. When you are talking about love, you have to be real and true. You should not say things in a way that it won't break her heart. Her heart is already broken. There is no way to hurt her less than telling the truth. You should be honest. Not only with her, but also with yourself. What do you feel? Do you still love her? If you do, give it another go, why not? If you don't, then tell her that, unfortunately, you do not miss her anymore. Tell her that there is no way you can get back together, because you are not going to be with somebody that you do not love. It might sound rude, but do you know what is really rude? Really rude is to ask her to wait, because right now you do not love her, and gives her hope. That is rude. Keeping people attached to you when you are not attached to them. Respectfully, Munhozmib.

don't reply and if you can change your number and make sure she doesn't get your new number. also, you can send word to her that you'd changed your number and that you have no plans of giving her your new number, it hurts but that's the way you got to roll so she stops texting you. she'll get the drift soon. i've done this everytime i break up with a girl and it works like a charm. hope this works for you. cheers!!!

Well ,first I think "thank you"is needed cause her attention,and if you do not like her anymore,you should tell her the truth and don'n make her wait for you any longer,and you should let her know the reason why you two do not suit for each other, I think this is a kind way.