will you call someone's attention if his or her fly is open?

I do call the person's attention no matter if I know him/her or not. I believe in doing so am doing a favor to the concerned and avoid further embarassment. Of course it would be easy if that person if somebody I know but if not then I may call his/her attention or make some gestures to make the person realize what am signalling of. I also want my attention to be called either if am the one in their place. I would be thankful for the one who do that.

Will try to tell it by a way. not really needed everyone to realise whats up :P I have realised that girls NEVER forget something like this .... :P

I avoid looking in that direction, so no. If I accidentally do, quickly look the other way.

Haha Call me sadistic or whatever.. But I enjoy telling people that their zip is open and watch their reactions! I must say that up to now with so many times I have done so, I am still surprised by the different reactions that I get from people! Some are downright embarrassed, some are non-chalent, some become defensive and some are just hostile! Hehe.. I just enjoy the expressions and the reactions of the people who I have brought their attention to. If it's strangers, I will just go up to them and tell them softly that their zip is open, or that they have forgotten to zip their pants, and give them this innocent smile. But if it's a close friend of mine, I will just shout out loud and all of us have a good laugh over it. That's me. =D

If it is someone I know I will, but if I do not know the person I don't tell them. I'm just glad it is not me. Some people just need to pay a little more attention when finishing up in the bathroom. I don't even remember the last time I was caught with my fly down. I think when I was a little kid. Those are some things I pay attention to when finished in the restroom.

I often check whether my fly is open or not, so you won't get a chance to call my attention. :D I don't know, it rather looks gay to tell someone his fly is open. They might suspect you of being a homosexual. Anyways, I don't tell people too often that their fly is open. Why? Let me tell you.. A few years ago, I noticed a girl her fly was open. I found this quite embarrassing for her, so I approached her and I said that her fly is open. At that very moment, I received my biggest slap in the face in my entire life a girl ever gave me.

Certainly, I will find a way to let the person know that his/her fly is open. I have seen friends or strangers in such a situation and I do that little act of kindness of whispering to the person about something he/she has forgotten. I cannot bear to see a friend or even a stranger to go up front with his/ her fly open. I'd feel guilty if I didn't do anything to be of help. There has been an instance when the person whose fly was open didn't even thank me when I said he forgot something. I didn't expect the person to thank me. What mattered was that he zipped his fly.

it would be an embrassing situations.if it is one of my friends,i would have no qualms in telling on the face but if the person is a stranger,it would depend on the situation and my sixth sense.

I have done it several times in the past. What I did was to come close to them and informed them in a low voice. My friends were grateful because it saved them from greater embarassment. I would not tell a female stranger after having a bad experience. It happened a long time ago at Heathrow Airport. I happened to see this girl unintentionally exposing herself while sitting on the bench across the waiting area, almost exactly in front of me. She was of the same religion as mine but from another country. I was hoping that her friends would notice but none did. A few minutes after that I went to the washroom and met one of her male friends. So I told him, and he went out. A few minutes after that while I was washing my arms her boyfriend came rushing in. He shouted at me and accused me of peeping. Oh dear. There I was trying to help but was accused of being something else. He ranted on and on. I looked at him, did not say anything, and continued with my ablution. Maybe because there was no response from me he went away in a huff. Never again. The next time I may be attacked without warning. all the best, rosdimy

Yeah I do tell them. I don't wouldn't want them to be embarrassed by strangers so I do tell them. I would want someone to do the same thing for me. At one time this girl was sitting behind me and she was not sitting in the most appropriate position. Let's just put it that way. And I knew her friend but I did not know her. So I pulled her friend aside and told her. And the girl had no idea what was going on until her friend told her. It's best that I tell them or a friend does than a stranger or for them to have a perv looking at them.

I will try to make him or her to note that. But will try to avoid saying it lod or in front of every one as it is a n embarrassing situation. I am not sure even though its a help , how people will take it. I had this experiences when I was student and traveling in a bus, the bus person told be to put it correct . i just tanked him

Hi, kenchiprincess Yep, i will let a friend or a stranger know that his or her fly is open. How? I guess that would depend on the situation, but probably I will just subtly or discreetly point my finger on his or her fly. I will not make a big fuss of it though, to avoid making the person feel embarrassed. However! If the stranger is not treating me well or looking down at me, I will let him stew. I will never tell him or her about her fly being open Have a nice day!

Hey, Its a funny situation and in such a case if its a friend of mine I will just say to him to put on the zip, but in case if its someone else i ll think twice before say if have to say. What i would suggest is its okay to say even if its a stranger, so that other wont be getting embarrassed. But don't say it loudly cause you can say it to your friends, but you don't know how a stranger will take your comment.

Yes I would tell him or her that their zipper was down. Depending on how well I know the guy I will tell him directly or if I think it would embarrass him I would have another guy go over and tell him. What irritates me is when you tell someone that their zipper is down and they get all hostile on you and say "well why are you looking there?". Hello!!! You had your hands in your pockets, your shorts are white and you have black pants on. You should be asking yourself why I am the first person telling you. I will tell a stranger very discretely. I like to bug my husband when he is up on a stage in front of a bunch of people, I will give him the little signal that means "your zipper is down". Most of the time he will smile and shake his head no because he double checked himself before he walked up on the platform.

oh yes... i will if i know the person and i am close with the person... i will just come to him/her directly and tell the person quietly that his/her fly is open... as simple as that... if i see a stranger with the zip is open, of course i wouldn't dare to approach the person and let him/her know... take care and have a nice day...

Since I am a lady, if I see any lady in that condition, I would definitely call her attention to it, even if she is not a friend or acquaintance of mine. But if it’s a guy, I would look the other way. I would be too embarrassed to point out his notice in that particular direction!

Your last sentence was what I was going to say. It would depend if I knew the person and how well I knew the person. If it was a close friend I would mention it to him so he would not get embarrassed. If he was not a close friend I think it would depend on the situation.

hello kenchiprincess, Yes, I will call someone's attention if his/her fly is open. Either he/she is not close to me I will still do that to her/him rather than everyone is looking at him/her. At first maybe, I will be hesitant to tell her/him but I need to do it anyway. Anyway, I will tell her/him in such a way that he will not be embarrass. Maybe I'll tell her/him as a joke.

Ya budy one have to tell to friends....lol, also in case of strangers if u do so and save them from being embaraced.This is most strange topic i saw here til now..lolzz

it would depend on my realtionship with the person. if i feel close to him to tell him anything i wouldnt hesitate and definately not lose the opp to pull his leg for the same. but if i do not feel close i would really really hesitate and i admit it would be very emarassing. but if i am alone with him i wouldnt even like to be seen around with him like that. i would probably feel emabrred to tell him upfront so i may find other wayd like write to him or something