whom to choose ?

The answer lies in your querry itself."Your friend cannot leave tha first girl". Lets take an example...u go to a hotel...the menu card is in your hand..U can choose from the n number of food items,all of them will do enough to fill your stomach,but can any of them replace water?? NO,right?? Now you may say that can I survive only on water..?? No.But u cannot substitute water with anything.Look at the problem from this point of view and you know the answer.

well i think itz totally the person;s choice...but i think he should carry forward wid the earlier girl coz he must be having a long relationship wid her obviously the understanding becomes eaasier and the bond becomes stronger wid the people we stay longer..so i think he should stay wid the previous girl..

Basing on the information you have told us the best bet would be the 1st girl. Because she has been there with him for 5 years. In describing the 2nd girl the word attracted is use not love. So I would guess that the 2nd girl is probably well endowed. Tell your friend to start thinking using his head upstairs and not downstairs.

I think that if he has truly been in love with the first girl for 5 years, then he's not in love with this other girl. I would say she is more of a temptation to do something wrong and ruin a wonderful relationship. Or, he never really loved the first girl. You almost have to question if he really understands what love is because if he truly loves the first girl then the second girl never would have been an issue. I think he really needs to search deep within and figure out if what he's feeling about either one is really love or just infatuation or something else. five years is a long time and if this girl finds out about girl number two it's only gonna destroy something that could have at one time been beautiful. he definitely needs to decide something soon before everyone gets hurt and then he has no one. good luck to him and keep us posted. God bless

Though the situation is very critical,but still i would suggest that person must not leave that first girl,because she was there for last five years.so he understands that girl better than the new one.Wish all three of them a tension free love life.

I think choose the first one will be the best choice right now,they have been with each other for last 5 years and how come the long relationship come to an end so quickly just because anther girl he newly knowing about.sometime man get tired of the love while it last long and may attracted by another girl,but he will realise that the one can be with in a life long time is still the first one.

love is always the most confusing in the world

In that case, I guess your friend should choose only one among the girls in order to avoid hurting the two. I know its not easy but sooner or later it will be more difficult for the three of them if he won't make his choice.