Does your honey support you?
By missybear
@missybear (11391)
United States
January 11, 2009 2:11pm CST
Is your honey supportive of things you do with your life?
Does he support you in your job or your school does he let you have freedom in your friends and do what you want. I struck gold when it comes to my honey.
He is the easiest going person I've ever met. I tell him I want to go somewhere he says go, if I want to buy something he tells me to buy it.
How about your Mate?
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@annierose (21583)
• Philippines
12 Jan 09
I can say that my bf is a very supportive man. He supports me in every way he can. I can still remember how he helped me to solve my problems when I was still in college. We all know that studying in college is very expensive. Because of that, I experienced how to be a working student. But my health not permits me to continue working while studying. Because of that, I do all the thriftiness I can just to survive college days. I also got the fear of not attending graduation because of financial problems. But my bf not allow such to happen. He told me that I must attend the graduation day because it is very important. He didn't allow me to be left behind and what he did is he work extra hours just to help me but he not tell me about it. He just surprised me and I was so touch that he really wants me to attend my graduation day. He also help me in some problems related to my field teaching and with my family. I can say that he is the best person I have known. He is always there to listen to me.There are moments that I am so down and he is there for me.Although we are in long distance relationship, he not care even if he pays large amount of money on the bill of phone. Sometimes, when I got so big problems, I just cry and not say anything on the phone and what he is doing is he just listens on me. He always makes me feel that he is always there for me and I can count on him.I cannot forget how he exerted so much effort to say that he believe I can pass the licensure examination for teachers. During the days in which I spend time reviewing, he is also always there asking me that he can be help me in my review if I want. He always make me feel I am very much loved and wanted. And for this, I can say I am the luckiest girl in the world. I feel so blessed having a bf like him.
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@missybear (11391)
• United States
12 Jan 09
He sounds like a very nice guy.
God for you, everybody deserves someone like him.
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@tammytwo (4298)
• United States
12 Jan 09
For a long time I didn't feel I had the support of my spouse. In my last job he hated that I was taken advantage of and never received appreciation for all that I was doing. In this job he doesn't say a thing. I only work part time (about 30-38 hours per week) but he supports me. He is willing to support me when I get my own business going as well. He is a great support and will be helpful in my success. We both tend to support each other in whatever it is the other wants to do.
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@missybear (11391)
• United States
13 Jan 09
That's how we roll too, we work together in everything.
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
11 Jan 09
yes my hubby is very supportive any descisions i made specialy friends and family opsss also shopping but the shopping,i will try to minimize it because somehow i over doing it.
@insulin (2479)
• Philippines
12 Jan 09
My fiancee is really supportive in my music career especially right now because we are dealing in releasing the first single.I know that I am doing the right thing and I am doing this,it is because I want to support my family.I love him a lot because he never holds me back when it comes to my career.God bless and have a nice day..:-0
@missybear (11391)
• United States
12 Jan 09
That's how it should be.
You don't always have to agree but let the other person do as they please.
@ronaldinu (12422)
• Malta
16 Jan 09
I am glad that you have found a treasure in your hubby. I do believe that spouses should be supportive in each other even though they might not share the same hobbies or interess. Otherwise the marriage could suffer. My wife is supportive of me regarding dogs. I try to be supportive to her as much as I can.
@cher913 (25782)
• Canada
12 Jan 09
he wasnt always like this but now he is really great. i left him for 6 months in 2006 because he was so overbearing and controlling but he really has changed. it was a risky venture it turned out ok. even friends came up to me after we got back together and said they didnt necessarily agree with what i did but could see that i had to do it.
@missybear (11391)
• United States
13 Jan 09
Sometimes you need to make a drastic move like that.
I'm glad it worked out for the better.
@Little_Stormy (6883)
• United States
12 Jan 09
awwwwwww! that is so sweet! how long have ya been together?
this is the sweetest thing I've read! you do have a special bear and I hope he knows how blessed he is to have YOU! and I am blessed to have you both as my friends!
hugs!
@missybear (11391)
• United States
12 Jan 09
Oh Gosh how sweet of you.
We've been together over 6 years now and he a is very lucky bear
@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
12 Jan 09
Hey missy! I love the new avatar! It is so cute! My bf is
pretty much supportive of what I want to do. I haven't really
done much to test him though! He is here for me and I am there
for him. We do support each other and talk things out about
what we each want which is important. The main thing is that
we can communicate. We didn't in the beginning. We will be
living together one year on January 26th! So that is our one
year living together anniversary and for us it is a very big
deal because we got off to a very rock start! Things are much
better now and we did make it a whole year!
@missybear (11391)
• United States
12 Jan 09
I wish you many, many more years together. I hope they get less rocky as you go on.
@bamakelly (5191)
• United States
12 Jan 09
I am glad to hear that you have a good person that is willing to give you your freedom. That is very important in a relationship to have some independence. You have to be yourself and do what makes you happy so long as you are not hurting anyone.
I would say that my spouse is pretty supportive and encouraging to me. That is important in a marriage as well.
@missybear (11391)
• United States
13 Jan 09
I'm really very lucky in the men departement.
You sound like you are too. That's good.
@ExecutiveCEO (16)
• United States
12 Jan 09
My husband is the most wonderful, loving, supportive husband that walked the earth! He never complains, helps around the house, is great with the kids, and loving to me. He is funny, laid back, and makes me laugh all the time. He is a blessing to me and our children and I thank God for him everyday.
@trisha_nava82 (1379)
• United States
11 Jan 09
My husband has been very supportive and still is. He is perfect in my eyes. He allows me to do whatever I want. If I want to go to the store, he'll say ok. I've even mentioned to him that I wanted to start school this year and he is being so supportive of that as well. He has been supportive of the type of friends that I have. Even the one that he didn't like he still supported me when I was being her friend. I love that about him. He is really good at being supportive.
@808nala (640)
• United States
12 Jan 09
My husband is the most supportive person I know. He's always beside me on my decisions. I totally hated my job a few years ago and I said I was really stressed out and wanted to quit. He told me several times to quit if I was so miserable. But, since I was so concerned that we wouldn't be able to pay our mortgage, I stayed a few more months until I couldn't take it anymore. I finally quit and took 2 years off of work. He didn't complain about once as he knew I needed the break.
In my personal life, he lets me do what ever I want. Majority of the time, he's right there with me. He tells me to buy what ever I want, but I don't always buy it if it's too expensive. Isn't it such a wonderful feeling to have such a great person as your partner?
@missybear (11391)
• United States
12 Jan 09
you picked a good 1.
It's nice to have a break from work and don't have to worry,
Sounds like you doing well.
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