High heels or flat shoes ,high heels for me !!!
By ronnyb
@ronnyb (6113)
Jamaica
January 12, 2009 4:23am CST
Well before anyone thinks I am a cross dresser I meant I LOVE TO SEE WOMEN IN HIGH HEELS. There is just something about a smartly dressed woman in high heels that I just find appealing ,something that "flat" wouldn’t be able to bring out ,some immaculate quality especially if she has nice legs to go with it (no I am not perverted just appreciative of Gods creations)I might get a little worried though when I see women with these pencil thin heels ,I love seeing women in them but worried it might break one of these days.
What about you women ,which do you prefer ? maybe you would prefer high heels for certain situation and not other, tell us about these situation ? and also tell us how high you like your heel ?
Men please join in as well and tell how you love your women in high heels ,I don’t want to be viewed as a lone perverted wolf ,so join the discussion.
Your responses are being high anticipated and thanks in advance
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24 responses
@laedyan (189)
• Philippines
12 Jan 09
I like using high heels because i'm not tall. High heels make me taller than my real height and also when i use it, i feel more confidence on myself. I don't know why but my feeling is better than having flat shoes. I even use it on long walks.
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@creativedreamweaver (7297)
• United States
12 Jan 09
I wear flat shoes, tennis shoes, on a daily basis. I wear heals if I am going out with my hubby. He loves heals too. I used to have to wear high heels to work every day and had many shoes to choose from. Now, I only have two pairs of high heels. I don't miss wearing them at all. They make my feet ache now. But to give hubby pleasure I wear them anyway when we are out.
@roberten (3128)
• United States
12 Jan 09
Flats, flats, flats; did I say flats? Heels give you a natural sway and a longer stride that men find so appealing and make women feel their best, but flats can be cute and are generally more comfortable and less hazardous. Oh yeah, did I remember to mention FLATS!1 person likes this
@missberlee (467)
•
12 Jan 09
Hey there!
I love high heels and I have a whole wardrobe of them, most of them that I do not wear. The only thing is, I struggle to walk in heels and I look like an idiot, teetering along so I tend to wear flat shoes most of the time with heels for special occasions or when I'm drinking so they don't hurt too much!!!
I know heels look better - they lengthen the leg and make the legs look nicer. This is a god send for me as I only have a 28 inch inside leg and anything that adds a bit of height and length I need! However, they are not always practical!
I do love the look of high heels but flat shoes are much more practical so I try and use a bit of both!
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@thanxiang (126)
• Philippines
13 Jan 09
I love to wear high heels whenever i am in a formal occasion but if its just an ordinary day,i prefer to wear flat shoes coz its more comfortable to wear esp.if i will go to the market or department store.But i love women who wear high heels especially if they are tall.When a not so tall woman will wear high heels,i still like it as long as she can carry it confidently.The problem with high heels is that,it hurts sometimes especially if you will stand in a long period of time but in fair view,it looks good if it matches the dress being wear by a woman.
@bamakelly (5191)
• United States
12 Jan 09
I have always preferred flat type of shoes. High heels have always had a tendency to hurt my feet. I would rather be comfortable. Besides I don't really get too dressed up anyway. And when I do I can where a decent looking pair of flat shoes that look nice. 1 person likes this
@sudiptacallingu (10879)
• India
13 Jan 09
its flat soles for me…post-pregnancy and a hefty amount of flab to manage, I have said good-bye to my high-heels for life. I used to be in them, I love the poise they lent to my figure, but all that’s history now. In the very second month of my pregnancy, they were banned and by the time I offloaded my burden, eight more months had passed and I was kind of feeling comfortable in flat sandals. Since then, I have stuck to them.
@Loverbear (4918)
• United States
15 Jan 09
I would love to be able to wear high heels! Unfortunately I am the kind of klutz that if I tried to wear anything over a one inch heel I would be flat on my face!!! 
I was able to wear a slightly higher heel when I was working and in school, but my "grace" somewhere along the line took a big dump on me and I have days that I even walk on my own feet!!!
Now, even in winter you'll find me in bare feet...it's the safest thing for me to wear!
I was able to wear a slightly higher heel when I was working and in school, but my "grace" somewhere along the line took a big dump on me and I have days that I even walk on my own feet!!!
Now, even in winter you'll find me in bare feet...it's the safest thing for me to wear!
@explorations (1712)
• United States
12 Jan 09
I love how I "feel" whenever I wear high heels, but I don't do it very often. They hurt my feet when I have to stand for too long, so I wear them only when I don't have to be on my feet a lot. Other than that, I wear flats for the comfort. Flats are still pretty, but I don't feel nearly as "good" when I wear them.
@faith210 (11224)
• Philippines
13 Jan 09
Hi ronnyb! It is different when I wear high heels. I walk differently, much more sophisticated (like a model..haha) but more careful though. I think high heels makes me stand straight and my posture is better and I feel sexier. haha..That is what my husband says! haha.. I do like wearing heels but most of the time I wear flats. I only wear high heels when I attend formal gatherings, parties or if the occasion calls for it.
Take care and have a nice day!
lovelots..faith210
I think high heels makes me stand straight and my posture is better and I feel sexier. haha..That is what my husband says! haha.. I do like wearing heels but most of the time I wear flats. I only wear high heels when I attend formal gatherings, parties or if the occasion calls for it.
Take care and have a nice day!
lovelots..faith210
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
12 Jan 09
i can't wear high heels anymore but i'm like you i think they are real pretty & really make u set of & take notice of anyone wearing them. i honestly don't see how some of them walk in them.i just see them on tv most of the time but i always notice them & their hair. i was on my 47th year of doing hair when i had to quit,
@silverjam (969)
• United States
13 Jan 09
Sadly I cannot wear high heeled shoes anymore due to the condition of my knee. The doctor advised me not to wear one after my surgery so by now all my foot wears are flat or w/ only few inches high; the highest I can wear is 2 inches but I rarely do. Anyway, I find it easier and more comfortable wearing flat ones though.
@DoriLentrich (1016)
• United States
13 Jan 09
I love heels when I want to go out and have fun. However, if balance is something I long for, flats it is. Heels are great for elongating the leg and making women look more feminine, but they're a killer on uneven pavement, stairs, etc. You have to watch your step and if you have weak ankles, good luck. Now heels are getting higher and higher. It's scary for us already tall women to realize that when we put on our heels we're taller than most men. But for making a woman looking womanly, there is nothing like a good pair of heels.
@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
13 Jan 09
For Health reasons I cannot wear High heels anymore. I have some major issues with my back and legs, but I used to Love to wear higher heels back when I could. I will admit I do see a lot of nice dress shoes with higher heels that I would Love to wear if I could. Personally I think High heels are more classy when it comes to special occassions when someone needs to Dress up.
@moumitamazumder (817)
• India
13 Jan 09
I like heels but not high. I like medium heels, and that to a little flat. Too high heels are not good for health though they may look gorgeous. Normally I wear heels. but when I go for a long walk, or a travel destination, I choose flat shoes.
@jessi0887 (2788)
• United States
12 Jan 09
I prefer flat. I can be more comfortable that way. I don't mind wearing heels but i just find my legs hurt more. I also like to walk around with out making noise all the time. Heels make more noise than anything.
@shalybhe29 (162)
• Philippines
13 Jan 09
i prefer . . . flat shoes!! coz I find high heels very stressful for my leg muscles..
@artaucan (97)
• United States
13 Jan 09
Women in heels just proyect more sexiness than when they´re wearing flats specially because it elongates their legs, as someone who works in the fashion industry I alwasy suggest my clients to wear "stillettos" (pencil thin heels) because that makes them look even more femenine, specially if it´s a dressy ocassion, obvioulsy there are times when they can wear flats they just need to be the right ones.
@bookreadermom08 (5614)
• United States
12 Jan 09
I use to wear heels when I worked and before I was a mom. I am on the shorter side as well so I absolutly loved to wear them and feel taller even if it was just by shoes. --and yes you can feel much more confident when you are taller..I dont know what it is but it does help!!!!! LOL
My husband enjoyed them too as I wore them and when I put them on now, he is like...wow, is it a special occasion...which it has to be. As a mom, sneakers has become my way of shoe, and flip-flops in the summer are all I have --quick, easy and on the go.
I miss my heels, I would wear them, but here in the Midwest and the snow, not exactly is it safe to do so....LOL, I have boots that have heels that I absolutely love and will start to wear again now that my baby has just turned one and I am not going to be lugging around the car carrier as much..LOL
