How can women get stronger in emotion?
By Lydiali20008
@Lydiali20008 (41)
China
4 responses
@Des_diva (56)
• Trinidad And Tobago
14 Jan 09
What i really think is that we were made this way. Because utermost love comes from a woman that is why we love faster and longer. I think we eventually get over it because i used to cry for everything but as the time goes by i realize that i dont cry anymore i control this by writing and we have a way that we let emotions control our immediate decision until we learn to control this we eliminate the possibilities of being stronger and strength was always associated with men because they were intended to the work while women show love to the children and to the husband by taking care of the home and preparing meals staying at home with the children. So i think we should just try and dont let things get to us so much to make us cry rather than trying to be strong.
Think about it
@Des_diva (56)
• Trinidad And Tobago
14 Jan 09
i think though the way we cope with all this is the mind set of the individual because not all women do all this. it comes from wihtin, the love we have to share and because of this love we can carry out multi functions without getting tired or fed up and not necessarily physical strength.
@sarleystar (22)
• Australia
14 Jan 09
I agree what you have said about woman being made this way. We do have the uttermost love, in all sorts of ways. I do think though that strength should come from both sides of the fence. Yes, men work, they provide for their families and they also hurt , just as woman do. On the other hand, woman are mothers and sisters and lovers, we all need strength from within ourselves to manage these important roles that woman play in society otherwise where would our families be, our loved ones, we as woman hold all this together. See how much strength a woman needs to cope with life and all the good and bad that comes with it. There is something to think about. Are we on autopilot or is it our built in determination.
@sarleystar (22)
• Australia
13 Jan 09
Yes, I think woman can get stronger emotionally. I am only saying this because I myself have become stronger over the years. It doesn't mean to say that we will not cry or hurt because everybody hurts, in their own ways. I still cry, and still feel hurt, but, I think it's the way we deal with that hurt feeling, we choose to deal with differently. Men deal with things in a whole different matter, some men can switch off and appear to not feel a thing, but us woman can't help but show some sort of emotion. I often ask myself that same question Lydiali20008.
@ketybhagat (4123)
• India
13 Jan 09
Well, actually men and women can be hurt equally, its just that the woman usually show it in the form of tears. Understad the problem facing you. If the fault lies at your door, make amends and patch up. If you feel honestly that you are not at fault, be brave and move on in life. Once the problem is understood, it is easier to overcome it. Take heart and be strong. Life must go on. After some time, you will overcome this emotional void. Sorry you have to undergo such a period. Good luck.
@Pitgull (1522)
• United States
13 Jan 09
How do you know women are hurt more? I know plenty of Good men who have been done wrong by Bad women.
I am sorry if you are upset, and if there is something more specific, I am always willing to talk....
I do believe we can protect ourselves from being hurt by those that are not worth it, but when it comes to those we love, things are different. If it is your significant other, you chose the relationship and you decide how it goes. If it is your family...talking can help...
Take things with a grain of salt....
:)
Sometimes the strongest of us know when to let it out...
Hurt is a part of life, and it can be good to feel alive, even if it is something upsetting...
It makes us stronger, teaches us lessons, makes us better...appreciative :) Take care
