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GAUCI123 @GAUCI123 (1042) • Malta 8 Feb 09

Well these days I see children around nine or ten years old going out with their mobiles. Well do you agree in having young children already owing a mobile phone? Personally I don't really agree, but today it is something that all...

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sarleystar In response to my comment I forgot to add that my kids do chores around the house and earn pocket money for various tasks they do for me, they all have prepaid mobile phones and pay for their own credit with their own money. If they cannot afford it then I...

9 Feb 09

GAUCI123 @GAUCI123 (1042) • Malta 8 Feb 09

Well these days I see children around nine or ten years old going out with their mobiles. Well do you agree in having young children already owing a mobile phone? Personally I don't really agree, but today it is something that all...

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sarleystar I have five children, one is two, so of course he does not own a phone, although if he could he would(lol). I have a 14, 11, & 10 year old boys, all of whom have mobiles, the daughter who is 9 also has one. My 14 yr old catches two trains to school, my 11 yr...

9 Feb 09

spazazz5 @spazazz5 (4) • United States 5 Feb 09

i live on my own my x wants 2 live with me but he doesnt wanna work, he's getting kicked out of his place i wanna help him but i dont wanna support him or any of his habits ya know i dont wanna play mommy 2 a 30 yr old man what...

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sarleystar you cannot help him unless he is willing to help himself. These situations can turn into more trouble than what they are worth, believe me. I just come out of a relationship where I had a similar issue, my partner didn't work, he had a mental illness and...

6 Feb 09

Jae2619 @Jae2619 (1483) • United States 5 Feb 09

Yesterday, My son come home from school, he rides the bus, our neighbors choose to pick up her child. This little girl who lives beside us, yelled for my son to come play with her, he knows the rules he must ask first. She went...

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sarleystar I think this a tough one. It was very foolish on the mothers part, obviously she was tired and just needed sleep, hey we all need sleep, but getting it on the other hand is not always an option when you are a mum. It comes with the job, I know cause I got a...

6 Feb 09

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sahed159 @sahed159 (369) 4 Feb 09

I have a lot friends. Some of them are spacial as we call best friends and in this number some are funny to me.I trust them and I share my personal life with them. I think every one has a number of friends and some of them are...

bestfriend

life

people

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sarleystar I personally do not believe it is good to have too many friends. I have a very limited amount of friends, I have 4 best friends, all I have known for many years and I am able to share anything with them, they also share the same with me. I have many...

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zorlone @zorlone (411) • Philippines 4 Feb 09

You are dating two people. The first is someone who just walked out of a magazine! Impressive good looks! Perfect body. Eye candy however angle you look! Flaw: He/she has no sense of humor. Then comes this second person. Terrific...

good looks

good looks vs sense of humor

sense of humor

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sarleystar Well, I say go fot the sense of humour. If someone can make you laugh, you enjoy being around them and appreciate them for who they are then what elso could you possibly ask for? Who cares about good looks, who cares if they look good on any angle? I...

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miyako @miyako (48) • Philippines 3 Feb 09

Is it possible for a 20 year old boy to fell in love with a 30 year old lady? And do you think it's okay?

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sarleystar My ex-partner has a girlfriend who is 22 years his junior, she is 22, he is 44. I didn't agree with it at first only because of my 9 yr old daughter. She is very impressionable at this tender age and I was so worried about that, but, anyway thats a whole...

4 Feb 09

sn_singh56 @sn_singh56 (261) • India 31 Jan 09

This question keeps popping up time and again in my mind. I for one can't do without it.What about you?Looking forward to your replies and interesting ones at that.

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sarleystar Ah...I would be lost without it. I would feel empty without the net, it would be like losing one of the kids. It is my entertainment, my stereo system, my leash on the world around me and it keeps me from feeling lonely. I can write and I can chat and I can do...

1 Feb 09

autunno @autunno (350) • United States 29 Jan 09

comfort us.I love my cats.They are always home,do not care what I look like,and never judge me on bad decisions (well if food is involved thats diffrent)..I know many older people would be lost without their pets to love .Animals...

thats the way i like it

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sarleystar Hey there. My children and I have a pet rabbit. His name is Rabbit, he lives in the backyard, he has his little straw bed in the laundry and he is so cute and cuddly. Although it is recommended that we do not cuddle rabbits that much, its such a temptation to...

30 Jan 09

sxrxnrr45601 @sxrxnrr45601 (1171) • United States 27 Jan 09

Man it just about killed me haveing one at a time 8 babies born to California parents! only the second set of Octuplets in the world how cool would that be and man talk about raisesing some kids wow my grandmother had 22 but all...

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sarleystar Mmmm....lets see, no way, lol. I couldn't handle that. I have had 5 children, all caesarians, now that was enough in itself. My first was nearly 3 when I had my 2nd, so my 11 yr old and my 10 yr old are 17 months apart and my 10 yr old and 9 yr old are 14...

28 Jan 09

ellie333 @ellie333 (21016) 26 Jan 09

I really hope I made the right descision. From Easter to October nothing. My sons father picks him up and puts him down as and when it suits and this was affecting my son but I kept communications open and since late October his...

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sarleystar This certainly is a tough situation, for both parties. I myself know exactly how you feel as I have a 2 year old who only sees or spends time with his dad when it suits him. His dad has a mental illness also, he says and does strange things. He and I still are...

27 Jan 09

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Jo Hill @Carpathian (582) • United States 20 Jan 09

I know this is a subject that most ppl do not like to talk about, but I have to say something. I was looking on the Internet with my husband. We came across the worlds fattest child. She is 7 yrs.old and 400 pounds. How can the...

lucky

lucky 7

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sarleystar Yes I agree with that, I think that the parents are the ones to blame for child obesity. Parents are their childrens teachers in life and also meant to be able to guide their children with the right kind of morals and values. However, I do not believe that a...

21 Jan 09

sarleystar @sarleystar (22) • Australia 21 Jan 09

My 11 year old son constantly deals with frustrations with his sister by hitting her all the time, this to me is just not on. I do not like, at all! Everyday I am battling with him and constantly devising ways with him that he...

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sarleystar @sarleystar (22) • Australia 19 Jan 09

A woman should have.... ...enough money within her control, even if she never wants or needs to spend it. ...the perfect outfit to wear if the employer or man of her dreams wants to see her in an hour. ...a youth she's content...

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sarleystar @sarleystar (22) • Australia 19 Jan 09

I have one daughter out of four boys, she has just turned nine and acts as though she is 19 years old. Lately my girl has been quite the little diva so to speak, she always has something smart to say to her brothers and loves to...

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sarleystar Thank you for your response. I had three boys first, then my daughter, followed by another boy so yes it is a constant struggle with her everyday. My boys fight with her and each other, they stir the little fellow up and everyday is never boring in my...

19 Jan 09

sarleystar @sarleystar (22) • Australia 19 Jan 09

I have one daughter out of four boys, she has just turned nine and acts as though she is 19 years old. Lately my girl has been quite the little diva so to speak, she always has something smart to say to her brothers and loves to...

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Amanda198785 @Amanda198785 (45) • United States 18 Jan 09

I am a 22 year old mother of two. I had my first son when I was 18 and my second son when I was 19 they are a year and 10 days apart. I feel overwhelmed sometimes about how much stress two young children put on a young mom and I...

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sarleystar Every mother feels overwhelmed, dont feel like you are the only one who experiences that feeling. I am 32, I have 5 children, my first one at 18 just like you, he is now 14 and my youngest is 2 and a half, in between there are 11, 10, & 9. Be happy with your...

19 Jan 09

Lydiali20008 @Lydiali20008 (41) • China 12 Jan 09

Can we women get stronger in our emotion?I dont want to cry over emotion hurt anymore.Why are women always hurt more?

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sarleystar I agree what you have said about woman being made this way. We do have the uttermost love, in all sorts of ways. I do think though that strength should come from both sides of the fence. Yes, men work, they provide for their families and they also hurt , just...

14 Jan 09

spalladino @spalladino (17891) • United States 13 Jan 09

Today I'm watching two of my grandchildren. There's only two of them...they have plenty of toys here since they live nextdoor...I'm bigger than they are...so this should have been a piece of cake. Nope, they're only 9 months and...

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sarleystar Well....I have a two and a half year old who is very energetic, full of beans and can never seem to sit even just for 5 minutes. up until recently I could not use the computer, have a shower on my own.....in peace or even attempt do some housework. He keeps me...

13 Jan 09

Lydiali20008 @Lydiali20008 (41) • China 12 Jan 09

Can we women get stronger in our emotion?I dont want to cry over emotion hurt anymore.Why are women always hurt more?

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sarleystar Yes, I think woman can get stronger emotionally. I am only saying this because I myself have become stronger over the years. It doesn't mean to say that we will not cry or hurt because everybody hurts, in their own ways. I still cry, and still feel hurt, but,...

13 Jan 09

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