sarleystar

@sarleystar (22)

Australia • Age 48

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Do you agree in giving mobiles to young kids?

GAUCI123 @GAUCI123 (1042) • Malta 8 Feb 09

Well these days I see children around nine or ten years old going out with their mobiles. Well do you agree in having young children already owing a mobile phone? Personally I don't really agree, but today it is something that all...

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sarleystar In response to my comment I forgot to add that my kids do chores around the house and earn pocket money for various tasks they do for me, they all have prepaid mobile phones and pay for their own credit with their own money. If they cannot afford it then I...

9 Feb 09

Do you agree in giving mobiles to young kids?

GAUCI123 @GAUCI123 (1042) • Malta 8 Feb 09

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sarleystar I have five children, one is two, so of course he does not own a phone, although if he could he would(lol). I have a 14, 11, & 10 year old boys, all of whom have mobiles, the daughter who is 9 also has one. My 14 yr old catches two trains to school, my 11 yr...

9 Feb 09

help me out

spazazz5 @spazazz5 (4) • United States 5 Feb 09

i live on my own my x wants 2 live with me but he doesnt wanna work, he's getting kicked out of his place i wanna help him but i dont wanna support him or any of his habits ya know i dont wanna play mommy 2 a 30 yr old man what...

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sarleystar you cannot help him unless he is willing to help himself. These situations can turn into more trouble than what they are worth, believe me. I just come out of a relationship where I had a similar issue, my partner didn't work, he had a mental illness and...

6 Feb 09

This is bad parenting or just a foolish choice?

Jae2619 @Jae2619 (1483) • United States 5 Feb 09

Yesterday, My son come home from school, he rides the bus, our neighbors choose to pick up her child. This little girl who lives beside us, yelled for my son to come play with her, he knows the rules he must ask first. She went...

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sarleystar I think this a tough one. It was very foolish on the mothers part, obviously she was tired and just needed sleep, hey we all need sleep, but getting it on the other hand is not always an option when you are a mum. It comes with the job, I know cause I got a...

6 Feb 09

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Who is your best friend and why ?

sahed159 @sahed159 (369) 4 Feb 09

I have a lot friends. Some of them are spacial as we call best friends and in this number some are funny to me.I trust them and I share my personal life with them. I think every one has a number of friends and some of them are...

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life

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sarleystar I personally do not believe it is good to have too many friends. I have a very limited amount of friends, I have 4 best friends, all I have known for many years and I am able to share anything with them, they also share the same with me. I have many...

5 Feb 09

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Good looks vs. Sense of Humor???

zorlone @zorlone (411) • Philippines 4 Feb 09

You are dating two people. The first is someone who just walked out of a magazine! Impressive good looks! Perfect body. Eye candy however angle you look! Flaw: He/she has no sense of humor. Then comes this second person. Terrific...

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good looks vs sense of humor

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sarleystar Well, I say go fot the sense of humour. If someone can make you laugh, you enjoy being around them and appreciate them for who they are then what elso could you possibly ask for? Who cares about good looks, who cares if they look good on any angle? I...

5 Feb 09

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30 year old girlfriend and 20 year old boyfriend

miyako @miyako (48) • Philippines 3 Feb 09

Is it possible for a 20 year old boy to fell in love with a 30 year old lady? And do you think it's okay?

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sarleystar My ex-partner has a girlfriend who is 22 years his junior, she is 22, he is 44. I didn't agree with it at first only because of my 9 yr old daughter. She is very impressionable at this tender age and I was so worried about that, but, anyway thats a whole...

4 Feb 09

Why Is Internet So Inseparable From Our Daily Routine?

sn_singh56 @sn_singh56 (261) • India 31 Jan 09

This question keeps popping up time and again in my mind. I for one can't do without it.What about you?Looking forward to your replies and interesting ones at that.

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sarleystar Ah...I would be lost without it. I would feel empty without the net, it would be like losing one of the kids. It is my entertainment, my stereo system, my leash on the world around me and it keeps me from feeling lonely. I can write and I can chat and I can do...

1 Feb 09

Who else thinks its amazing that animals were put on this earth to love and

autunno @autunno (350) • United States 29 Jan 09

comfort us.I love my cats.They are always home,do not care what I look like,and never judge me on bad decisions (well if food is involved thats diffrent)..I know many older people would be lost without their pets to love .Animals...

thats the way i like it

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sarleystar Hey there. My children and I have a pet rabbit. His name is Rabbit, he lives in the backyard, he has his little straw bed in the laundry and he is so cute and cuddly. Although it is recommended that we do not cuddle rabbits that much, its such a temptation to...

30 Jan 09

could you have 8 babies like this women did!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

sxrxnrr45601 @sxrxnrr45601 (1171) • United States 27 Jan 09

Man it just about killed me haveing one at a time 8 babies born to California parents! only the second set of Octuplets in the world how cool would that be and man talk about raisesing some kids wow my grandmother had 22 but all...

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sarleystar Mmmm....lets see, no way, lol. I couldn't handle that. I have had 5 children, all caesarians, now that was enough in itself. My first was nearly 3 when I had my 2nd, so my 11 yr old and my 10 yr old are 17 months apart and my 10 yr old and 9 yr old are 14...

28 Jan 09

My Son Saw His Father For The First Time Since Last Easter

ellie333 @ellie333 (21016) 26 Jan 09

I really hope I made the right descision. From Easter to October nothing. My sons father picks him up and puts him down as and when it suits and this was affecting my son but I kept communications open and since late October his...

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sarleystar This certainly is a tough situation, for both parties. I myself know exactly how you feel as I have a 2 year old who only sees or spends time with his dad when it suits him. His dad has a mental illness also, he says and does strange things. He and I still are...

27 Jan 09

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Tell me what you think?

Jo Hill @Carpathian (582) • United States 20 Jan 09

I know this is a subject that most ppl do not like to talk about, but I have to say something. I was looking on the Internet with my husband. We came across the worlds fattest child. She is 7 yrs.old and 400 pounds. How can the...

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sarleystar Yes I agree with that, I think that the parents are the ones to blame for child obesity. Parents are their childrens teachers in life and also meant to be able to guide their children with the right kind of morals and values. However, I do not believe that a...

21 Jan 09

being a young mother of two

Amanda198785 @Amanda198785 (45) • United States 18 Jan 09

I am a 22 year old mother of two. I had my first son when I was 18 and my second son when I was 19 they are a year and 10 days apart. I feel overwhelmed sometimes about how much stress two young children put on a young mom and I...

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sarleystar Every mother feels overwhelmed, dont feel like you are the only one who experiences that feeling. I am 32, I have 5 children, my first one at 18 just like you, he is now 14 and my youngest is 2 and a half, in between there are 11, 10, & 9. Be happy with your...

19 Jan 09

To those of you with toddlers and babies...my hat's off to you!

spalladino @spalladino (17891) • United States 13 Jan 09

Today I'm watching two of my grandchildren. There's only two of them...they have plenty of toys here since they live nextdoor...I'm bigger than they are...so this should have been a piece of cake. Nope, they're only 9 months and...

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sarleystar Well....I have a two and a half year old who is very energetic, full of beans and can never seem to sit even just for 5 minutes. up until recently I could not use the computer, have a shower on my own.....in peace or even attempt do some housework. He keeps me...

13 Jan 09

How can women get stronger in emotion?

Lydiali20008 @Lydiali20008 (41) • China 12 Jan 09

Can we women get stronger in our emotion?I dont want to cry over emotion hurt anymore.Why are women always hurt more?

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sarleystar Yes, I think woman can get stronger emotionally. I am only saying this because I myself have become stronger over the years. It doesn't mean to say that we will not cry or hurt because everybody hurts, in their own ways. I still cry, and still feel hurt, but,...

13 Jan 09

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school and sickness

my2boys @my2boys (821) • United States 13 Jan 09

My son started preschool this year and ever since August when he started we have all been getting sick a lot. It normally starts with him and then myself or the baby will get it and then my husband. Just recently they had a two...

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sarleystar I have a two year old boy who suffers with severe bronchitis, which is associated with Asthma and other respiratory infections. I find it to be the opposite though, he never gets sick from Child Care, or any playgroups that he attends, it is the family members...

13 Jan 09

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