what would you do if your ex-girlfriend or ex-boyfriend want come back again
By millardos
@millardos (408)
France
6 responses
@phyrethyme (1267)
• Philippines
15 Jan 09
Most of my ex-boyfriends do not really come after me because mostly, the relationships ended because of my fault. Hmm.
When I left an ex of mine then he tried to take me back, I ended up accepting him because I still had feelings for him. As for my other ex who tried to take me back, I refused him because I don't feel the same way anymore. I just accepted once.. The others, I can't really remember cause like I told you, everything's my fault.
@millardos (408)
• France
15 Jan 09
anyway the nice thing actually is that we are married together don't remember anyone :D looool
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@vicki2876 (5636)
• Canada
15 Jan 09
I think that it would depend on the relationship. I mean how long ago was the break up? Why was there a break up? Things like that. I have been with the same man for almost thirteen years. We did break up and get back together about 8 years ago. I think many relationships can have their ups and downs.
I know of a couple that split for a year only to realize that they didn't like being single and missed each other terribly and got back together.
For myself I haven't had too many relationships in my life but I can't think of any that I would want to get back with if I was able to.
@udischas84 (330)
• United States
15 Jan 09
The way I think. They had their chance. Most of the reasons it didn't work out was becuase I wasn't getting the respect I deserve and they didn't know how to treat me right. I wouldn't want that back. You don't get a second chance when it comes to peoples hearts and emotions.
@lisa0502 (1724)
• Canada
15 Jan 09
All of my exe's are my exe's for a reason. There is no way in this world that I would ever have anything to do with them. We did not see eye to eye then and nothing will ever change that. Beside I am quite happily married and do not wish to have any of my exe's around.
@tracie1758 (507)
• United States
15 Jan 09
i have been in this situation. I broke up with my boyfriend and over a year later I decided it was the wrong decision because I still thought of him all the time and had stronger feelings for him while we were apart than I did the first time we dated. Lucky for me, he was able to get over the fact that I hurt him so bad the first time around. This time we have made it 2 years and are currently living together with our daughter. Had he not giving me a chance I wouldn't even be able to imagine what my life would be like. I would not have gone back to school, I would still be stuck in my hometown living with my parents, and most of all I wouldn't have my amazing daughter.
I believe second chances can be a good thing, depending on the situation. I did not cheat on him or give him any reasons not to trust me. If that were the case I might have to agree that a second chance was not deserved.