Did your parents ever spank you when you were a child?

@kgwat70 (13387)
United States
November 9, 2006 3:56am CST
I have to admit that I remember being spanked once or twice when I was a child for being bad. Did anyone else ever get spanked?
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• United States
9 Nov 06
ha ha who has not know the feeling of the hand across the bottom;+ I know I had some spanking when younger;)+
@kgwat70 (13387)
• United States
9 Nov 06
What did you do to deserve a spanking? :-) Shame, shame. Just kidding. :-)
@msqtech (15073)
• United States
9 Nov 06
did it help you?
@msqtech (15073)
• United States
9 Nov 06
did it help you?
@rdhick00 (75)
• United States
16 Nov 06
My Dad used to light my behind up on a pretty regular basis. It is pretty funny now that I am 35 but back in the day, it wasn't so funny! :( I do think that spanking should be allowed by parents. I'm not saying that a parent should beat the living daylights out of their children but I do not see anything wrong with a good spanking when it is warranted. What does everyone else think?
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@kgwat70 (13387)
• United States
16 Nov 06
I think there other alternatives to punishing a child for being bad, like taking their privileges away or things that they enjoy. I think that is better than hitting your child.
@disvachic (10117)
• United States
9 Nov 06
I was raised by my granmother and yes I did
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@kgwat70 (13387)
• United States
9 Nov 06
It sounds like we all or many of us got spanked when we were younger. But we all turned out great as a result of it.
@shooie (4984)
• United States
16 Nov 06
yes i got spankings...pouts...but i deserved them...people need to understand spankings and beatings are NOT the same. I think I am a better person for it....I may have gotten some but not as many as the other kids in the family because i stayed out of trouble....geez ya think they would of learned...lol......looks to the bottom of this page "corpral punishment" don't think so.
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@kgwat70 (13387)
• United States
16 Nov 06
I think I became better of it too and as you said it was not a beating. They did nothing to me as far as beating me and I only remember one spanking. I love my parents. :-)
@Poison_Girl (4150)
• United States
16 Nov 06
They sure did spank and I swear they've used the belt on us before, but they deny that. I've gotten the wooden spoon before! --- --- --- "I certainly think Britney Spears is the devil. The way she projects herself and the fact that she is so obviously vacuous. I think it's such a shame that she became so influential to very small children." -- MORRISSEY --- --- ---
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@kgwat70 (13387)
• United States
16 Nov 06
Wow. I haven't had either of those done. I have only received the wrath of my dads hand. :-)
• United States
16 Nov 06
Yes, but not very many. I can count on one hand how many times. My parents did a combination of discipline methods. I have much respect for my parents and appreciate all they taught me! :-)
@kgwat70 (13387)
• United States
16 Nov 06
Glad that you didn't get spanked too many times. I appreciate what my parents have done for me as well.
@msqtech (15073)
• United States
9 Nov 06
yes and it seems to have worked out good for me
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@kgwat70 (13387)
• United States
9 Nov 06
Glad that it worked out for you. :-) It did the same for me.
@epizzahut (2078)
• China
9 Nov 06
yes I was,but now they are geting old,I still love them very much.
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@kgwat70 (13387)
• United States
9 Nov 06
Yes, I still love my parents very much. I probably deserved it and it didn't happen often. Just once.
@ChewySpree (1832)
• United States
9 Nov 06
My brother and I were spanked when we misbehaved. I remember that it never physically hurt that badly, it always just made me feel bad that I disappointed my parents. So in that respect I think it worked, because I was less likely to misbehave again afterwards.
@kgwat70 (13387)
• United States
9 Nov 06
It seems to have worked out well for everyone that went through it. :-)
• United States
9 Nov 06
Yes, that was how my parents were brought up so they didnt know any better.. In to day's world not to many people spank and the ones who do will deny it. I dont think corpral punishment is the answer.
@kgwat70 (13387)
• United States
9 Nov 06
I agree. I don't hear too many people giving spankings now a days.
• United States
9 Nov 06
My kids would complain when I put my hand on their bottom,crying child abuse. I told them that they didn't even know what the word meant. I used to get paddled, and once had to wrap my arms around a tree while getting beat with a 2x4.
• United States
9 Nov 06
sounds like some the stuff my dad did to me ..not to mention waterhoses on the back ouchies ...
@Lydia1901 (16351)
• United States
9 Nov 06
I got spanked alot when I was growing up. But, I don't want to do that with my daughter. I'm sure there are better ways to decpline your child than spanking them.
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@kgwat70 (13387)
• United States
9 Nov 06
Yes, i agree that there are better ways to discipline now a days than spanking. I don't hear about spankings anymore.
@brokentia (10389)
• United States
9 Nov 06
I was abused by my mother and taken away from her. The state threw me from home to home until they finally awarded me to my father. My father hit me ONCE on my leg. He later applogized. He never hit me again and I never gave him a reason to.
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@kgwat70 (13387)
• United States
9 Nov 06
I am sorry to hear that. :-( Do you ever talk to your mother since you were taken away from her? I bet she regrets it now. Sounds like your father regretted hitting you. That had to be so hard on you.
@mamarama (206)
• United States
9 Nov 06
Yes, yes and more yes. Heck, even my first grade teacher got in the action by slapping my hands and my behind with a wooden paddle. With holes in it. Double ouch.
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@kgwat70 (13387)
• United States
9 Nov 06
Wow. I didn't think teachers were allowed to do things like that.
@_hope_ (3902)
• Australia
9 Nov 06
my parents physically abused me as a child along with my brothers and sisters
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@kgwat70 (13387)
• United States
9 Nov 06
Oh no, I am sorry to hear that. :-( That is terrible.
@simv2006 (88)
• Romania
14 Nov 06
No, NEVER and I hope I will da the same!
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@Cleric (107)
• Canada
16 Nov 06
Yes, but not more than once or twice during my entire childhood. My parents would only spank me as an absolute last resort.
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• United States
16 Nov 06
My parents never spanked me as a child, but an aunt that was babysitting me spanked me once and I remember being in shock because I wasn't used to being treated in that manner. My mother did, however, slap me across the face at the age of fifteen when I came home late one night. I guess I deserved it.
14 Nov 06
Yes, but I really didn't deserve it. Not because I wasn't naughty at all but because I was a very reasonable kid and words would have been more efficient. If they just explained to me what went wrong and why I was naughty I would have been much more responsive and understanding of the headache I cause for my parents. I know that you can't reason with many kids and a spank is the best option but I definitely wasn't like that.
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@brckoba (795)
• United States
16 Nov 06
I got spanked when I was little. And you know what, I turned out okay as an adult. I love my parents and I respect them.
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