I am feeling very lonely.
@abhi_bangal (5518)
Ahmednagar, India
January 17, 2009 6:43am CST
I am feeling very lonely. Most of my friends have got their girlfrinds. I am the one left without one. It makes me frustrated. Please my fellow mylotters, do help me.
7 responses
@uditpanda (1023)
• India
18 Jan 09
hello abhi
You must cheer up. Atleast you can express your feeling in front of so many people. I have seen many people who keep the frustration to themselves only. I would advise you to wait. God has fixed partners for everybody & when due time comes he will guide us to the one who has been selected for us. so patience my friend,you will definitely get your turn.
@vera5d (4005)
• United States
17 Jan 09
It is hard when you're the only one out of your friends that is single. Fortunately, I run a website all about love, so have some articles I wrote that might help you!
This is one to give you some ideas of making the most of being single:
http://www.itmightbelove.com/2009/01/06/making-the-most-of-being-single/
And this one has a list of online dating sites we've reviewed:
http://www.itmightbelove.com/online-dating-resources/
Lastly is an article on how to meet more people and increase the chances of meeting a nice girl for you:
http://www.itmightbelove.com/2008/04/12/forget-about-the-bar-scene/
Hope you like those and that they will help you!
@rymebristol (1808)
• Philippines
17 Jan 09
[b]don't be afraid to invest yourself in deep realtionships with other people. You don't have to be dating somebody to have an intimate and fulfilling relationship with them. Don't be afraid to open up and be vulnerable sometimes. Decide for yourself if there are aspects of your life or your personality that you would like to change and do it. You are your best evaluator. You don't need to listen to those people who tell you that you are single because you are too "picky", too fat, or too old to meet someone else. Ignore the toxic people in your life. It is easy to recognize them. Their negative words of fear and discouragement sap your energy. Think of all the things you can do because you are now single. You can take off and go travelling without discussing it with somebody else. you can watch TV all day without being called lazy.
Hope that this words works for you..CHEERS![/b]
@aristrocrat195 (282)
• India
17 Jan 09
ya i also feel that i am alone in this world no one is with me and i think why i m living i use to die some times i think that but it is not good thing it means that i am defeated by this world that i will never wanted to be defeated
@WebMann (4731)
• Canada
17 Jan 09
Use the time you are alone, without a girlfriend, to make your life better. I have been married for just over 26 years but I can still remember back to a few dateless periods in my life.
Always strive to improve yourself instead of dwelling on why you feel so lonely. Put your mind to work, the love of your life will just show up one day and life will be great again.